TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Kat S]

dancareoi, I know I could google it, but I'd rather hear it from you! What's a beefeater in the context of your outing?

 

[Oasis717]

Sounds like you've been busier Lisa lol, glad you had a great time but I'm sorry you've had to up the jabs xxxxxx

 

[crazymam]

Lisa you are going to look like a pin cushion by the time this baby is here! You poor thing.
Hope everyone is well xx
I am at work all week so not much time to pop on and chat, I need a few sickies so I can catch up haha x

 

[Oasis717]

Hope you're ok Jan, I'm still getting sick on and off but I have some good days now too xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Jan - obviously working you too hard. Hope you are keeping well x

Lisa - is it just gestational diabetes so will things get easier once you have the LO?

Becks - hope the sickness is more off than on nowadays. Can't believe you are now over 21 weeks, going quick, hope it is for you.

How's everyone else - Karen, Dawn, Fi, Jan, Kat and my cycle buddy Regina? Sorry if I've missed anyone.

Time is going slow and fed up today, think it is spending 5 hours in the cold (fishing), doing 2 fitness classes and finding out I didn't get the job I went for. I know I am a capable person doing variety of admin jobs for 25 years in the RAF, but they ask stupid questions at the interview and expect you to give outstanding answers. Oh well, maybe not meant to be. DH gone back so now its just waiting game to see if AF shows. Sorry for being grumpy, hopefully will be more upbeat tomorrow after a good night's sleep.

to us waiting

 

[bash73]

I'm hanging in there...waiting for my sono on Thursday afternoon.

 

[Left wonderin]

Josie what's this about AF turning up ?? Nothing will be turning up this month except 2 BFP . One for you and one for me

 

[josie1234]

Dawn - good luck for Thursday hun xxx

Regina - thanks for the PMA xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi all,

Kat, a beefeater is a type of restaurant that does things like chicken, steak and ribs . We do have another type of beefeater here which is a soldier who guards the Tower of London. I think that's right. Someone correct me if I'm wrong!

Jan, glad you are keeping well.

Jo, you do sound a little grumpy! Sorry you didn't get the job, but they say everything happens for a reason! Them again sitting outside in all that rain would make anyone grumpy

GD should go after PG. although it is an early warning sign as I have 75% chance of developing proper diabetes at some stage, unless if course I act now and change my life style !

Dawn, good luck for Thursday .

Becks glad to hear sickness is easing a little

Fiona, how are you ?

Creative, how's you?

Regina, love the PMA

Hope I haven't missed anyone

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo and Lisa I have good days and bad days so I make the most of the good days xxxxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Flipin hell FF has put me at 5dpo ! Talk about fast forwarding time lol........ Not sure I trust her judgment this month as only got +Opk on the day after she is saying o/v happened and a clear - on the day she says I did !

Anyway now girls for stalking purposes I'm either 2-5 DPO ........ A step closer to a BFP

Have a great day everyone

 

[Left wonderin]

Thoughs on my chart welcome keep In mind I've used the basal temp adjuster more than once as I didn't wake up to the alarm

 

[dancareoi]

Thoughs on my chart welcome keep In mind I've used the basal temp adjuster more than once as I didn't wake up to the alarm

I think 2 dpo as you can't OV before positive OPK!

 

[Creative]

Hi All,
I'm beginning to feel really depressed at quite how ill I feel. I have always been a fit and healthy person. never see the doctor, pregnancies have always been a doddle for me and this time it's really floored me. Maybe I am too old. I am so sick still, I am getting headaches and now I have done something to my groin. On Friday I literally bent down to pick something up and I felt something give. my groin felt really bruised it's in the crease of my leg / body and is level with the top of my bikini line. There is a one in lump. Don't know what it is, but it is sore. Looks like it is now subsiding with any luck.
I am so lucky that my children are incredible and keep organising "tidy up's etc" between themselves. I guess that's one real blessing of being an older mum.
I will stop being grumpy and miserable soon ... I promise!"!!

 

[Kat S]

Awww, Creative, I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. I really am. I wish it were an easy pregnancy for you. I still hope this is just a phase and you feel better very soon!

 

[bash73]

So using my positivity I'm wondering why i'm feeling like i'm getting AF...which I would've been due yesterday or today. Not crampy but you know the feeling. Nothing else going on, felt a little puky this morning. Didn't sleep well as had a belly ache, lots of gas sorry if it's TMI. Will need a nap at some point today. Hope everyone is doing well!

 

[Kat S]

So using my positivity I'm wondering why i'm feeling like i'm getting AF...which I would've been due yesterday or today. Not crampy but you know the feeling. Nothing else going on, felt a little puky this morning. Didn't sleep well as had a belly ache, lots of gas sorry if it's TMI. Will need a nap at some point today. Hope everyone is doing well!

Hey, that sounds really promising! Fingers crossed for you!!

It sucks that preg symptoms are all negative sensations, isn't it?? I wish we could suddenly feel amazing and skinny and smart and beautiful instead

 

[bash73]

not sure if i asked this already but i have muscle soreness as if i did an abdominal/core workout...normal? and it's not like it unbearable it's noticeable if i happen to lean against the counter or something. thx

 

[josie1234]

Hey up cycle buddy Regina, how's things going? Don't know about you but the TWW can't come quick enough, hope it flies by lol. Would be so amazing to both get BFP's this time. PMA PMA PMA PMA

Karen - sorry to hear you are you having such a tough time. It is awful feeling so dreadful at what should be such a happy time. Hope it eases off soon hunny. xxx

Dawn - I'm not sure about the abdominal/core soreness (sorry), I can't remember. The symptoms sound good though, fingers crossed AF stays away for you - BFP come on xx

Hi Kat, how are you? You are right, it is a shame that you can't feel so good when pregnant.

How's everyone else today? Took DS shopping today and he eventually came away with 2 pairs of jeans, set of boxers and more shoes (he has a thing for shoes). So he is happy. Always have to bribe him with lunch (subway). I also came away with a couple of tops and a sports bra/top so success all round lol.

Off to take him footie training and then I will nip and do some food shopping while he is there. Looking forward to Friday when DH is back. Booked to go to Portugal for my best mates hen do in Oct so you just know I'm gonna get my BFP lol.

Hope everyone's having a good day xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi cycle buddy what a beautiful day it is , sun shining and me and my cycle buddy a day closer to our BFP ( even if it isn't this cycle its still a day closer ! ) FF put me at 5 DPO but I don't believe her lol...... I'm going with 3 with o/v being on Sunday

Not commenting on any would be symptoms this month ( unless its sore boobies ) then ill get very excited lol...... No need its a done deal BFP FOR ME AND MY CYCLE BUDDY ! ( please tell me if I'm over doing it with the PMA . I've just decided live in hope and excitement for two weeks and get BFN or live in dread and negativity for two weeks and get BFN . Either way the result,will be the same disappointment . So I'm choosing to have hope and excitement of the possibility of a BFP !

Hello everyone else , Karen it sucks that you feel so bad , must wear you out just like Beck's . Hope it eases off soon for you xxx