TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Kat S]

Thanks, Josie. I need to find a way to get my PMA back. I hate sitting here feeling sorry for myself when I don't even know anything yet. It's stupid! But I somehow fell into the negativity vortex and I can't seem to climb back out today.

 

[josie1234]

Try to keep busy or do something you enjoy or pamper yourself or something. Be productive, housework, anything to take your mind off it. Good luck hun

 

[garfie]

Kat - I scrubbed out all my kitchen cupboards and fridge remember when I was in the TWW - I agree keep yourself busy or go for a pamper day or read a good book

Come on Kat - PMA PMA PMA and lots of BIG as well



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[Oasis717]

Had my scan today ladies, it's taken four trips up there but at last she got her heart measurement she wanted and was v pleased, no problems, he was still on his stomach but slightly turned just enough so she could get to it. That's it til 32 weeks thankfully. Mw next Tuesday.

Fi how's the spotting, hope everyone else is ok, v muggy today am not liking it! Xxx

 

[garfie]

Becks - Great news on the scan hun

My spotting seems to have stopped - but I don't feel as bloated today but feeling heavier in the uterus area (wonder if this is the pain the midwife warned me about)

All will be revealed tomorrow I'm trying to keep up the PMA and keeping myself busy without any lifting, stretching etc etc - so I ended up going for lunch with mum instead



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[Left wonderin]

Thanks, Josie. I need to find a way to get my PMA back. I hate sitting here feeling sorry for myself when I don't even know anything yet. It's stupid! But I somehow fell into the negativity vortex and I can't seem to climb back out today.

Kat So lady what negative thoughts have you been having ? Lets be having them the girls are right go fond yourself a project time is your enemy in the TWW too much of it and MR negativity starts to creep in and take hold !! Don't let him lol !!!!! Do something you need to use your mind for , crossword ? Sudoku , tv quiz , reading anything but thinking !!!! I know its so hard but its worth it !!! I'm having to try really hard myself these days . But the days it works I feel just great , the rest I'm a wreak come on girl we both can do this

 

[Kat S]

Aww, Left! You are so good to me! Despite your own difficult moments here you are dragging me up to my feet again. Thank you so much!

Husband got me out of the house on this poop-y, rainy day. Took me for Chick fil A and then shopping for a weekender bag for our trip to Cape May tomorrow. Now? I'm going to paint the living room!

 

[josie1234]

Hi Kat, hope you managed to get the painting done, have a great time away, try to relax and enjoy yourself. xxx

AFM - p-d off as just had to pay £800 for our Border Collie to have an xray as he has been limping, can't claim off insurance as it is pre-existing and we changed insurance companies. said it is arthiritis in elbow. prev said they can't do anything if it is arthiritis but told DH today about having a CT scan (£1300) which may mean surgery £thousands of pounds but if we don't want to go that way, there are tablets. Seriously!!!! are vets after the money or what! Don't get me wrong, I love my dog and don't want to see him suffer but if there's nothing they can do for arthiritis, ie can't cure it, then why pay out all that money.

Anyway, I have opened the wine. Just had my tea after my 2 classes and now going to chill. DH out for a drink with his mate, we BD twice last night lol. Told him no go tonight he he.

Hope you all have a good night xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Fi, I know she said she wasn't worried about his heart but it's reassuring that she gotta proper look at it today and we know for sure now there's no probs, so glad you're spotting has stopped, loads luck for tomorrow hunni, let us know soon as you can xxxxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Jo that's terrible, how can it cost that much that's pure extortion!!! Xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Kat what colour you painting the room , I'm looking formideasmformmy bedroom it is so in need of a makeover , something calming and luxurious ( and cheap ! ) lol

I love the movies , love going in the afternoon when there is no one else there ...mmm sounds like a plan in the near future lol........ The next two weeks will be filled with ups and downs there is nothing more certain but when ya feel a down coming on ...... We are here

 

[Left wonderin]

JO had to re-read the bit about the wine again , I'd love nothing more than a glass of red wine now . Enjoy xxxxxx hehehehe SMEP is good !!! Are you Opk testing yet ?

 

[josie1234]

Becks - great about the scan

 

[josie1234]

Oops, clicked post reply when I hadn't finished. Becks - great news on the scan, time seems to be flying, hope it is the same for you. I know it is extortionate. I was fuming. DH told me on the phone when I got in from my class. Might have to have another glass of wine, lol, it is white wine Regina but I do like a glass or red too.

Regina, how are things with you, you got lots of symptoms?? Yes it is nice to decorate (but cost adds up) but it makes such a difference in the house eh?

Fi - hope you are ok hun, bet your emotions are up and down. Big hugs to you.

Hope everyone else is ok xx

 

[josie1234]

Regina, yes I've been OPK testing, just once a day at the moment. Negatives at the moment.

 

[dancareoi]

Kat - TWW is the worst because as you say you can't do anything with TTC but just wait. As everyone says keep busy and plent of PMA .

Becks glad you got the scan sorted and you know for sure all is good.

Fiona, hope all goes well for your scan tomorrow.

Regina. Hope you are doing ok.

Jo good luck with the smep! Sounds like you needed the wine after all that exercise!

Afm, baby wasn't so busy over the weekend but has gone back to normal routine the last couple of days.

Baby doesn't like been prodded though! Saw my midwife today just to listen to HB. She always has a feel to see where baby is and baby is all on the right hand side again . Anyway when she put the Doppler in place baby gave a big kick as I'd to see get off and leave me alone !

Seems to get busy as well when I am writing anything on my phone, like now!

 

[Oasis717]

Lol I know Lisa Brooklyn's the same, everytime I write on here he kicks away, but he always has a mad time around 11pm, I notice movement most of the day now, apparently they sleep 12/14 hours a day but I don't think he does! I've noticed whenever I'm in the shower or watering the garden with the hose he kicks loads too xxx
Thanks Jo it is going really quickly now I must admit! I guess the 32 week scan will be here before I know it. Hope you can sort something for your dog, I think 800 is disgusting for an x ray, there's no way it would actually cost that much for them to do it, I'd be hopping mad! Xxx

 

[Kat S]

Kat what colour you painting the room , I'm looking formideasmformmy bedroom it is so in need of a makeover , something calming and luxurious ( and cheap ! ) lol

I love the movies , love going in the afternoon when there is no one else there ...mmm sounds like a plan in the near future lol........ The next two weeks will be filled with ups and downs there is nothing more certain but when ya feel a down coming on ...... We are here

It's called "Lost Atlantis" by Behr
https://www.homedepot.com/catalog/productImages/400/a1/a183ef49-603a-49e3-98a6-e0e8f92de683_400.jpg

My bedroom wall is dark purple and my sewing room wall is a light silvery/grey purple. I'm so happy with my new wall in the living room! Really makes the fireplace pop since I left that white.

Cramping is annoying me on the left side. Ugh. Probably two more days of that before they ease up.

 

[josie1234]

Morning all

Becks - glad that time is going quick and Brooklyn is active, bet it brings a smile to your face. Well, we paid the money for the xray but don't think I am going to pay for all the other stuff. As far as I am aware it can be managed with tablets and diet. I am seeing the vet again on 2 Jul, hope she is ready for me!!!

Kat - colours sound lovely, bet it looks nice. Hope time goes quick for you with you going away. Have a great time x

Lisa - how are you today? When is your actual due date? Hope your sugars are under control with all your injections.

Fi - hope you are still taking it easy.

Dawn - still thinking of you and hoping you are ok.

Jan and Regina - how are you both today?

Apologies if I've missed anyone. AFM - temp not really fluctuating too much and still no pos OPK as yet. Feeling tired today. Got to finish cleaning as my mam is coming down tomorrow to look after DS whilst we go away. Also got to make a cake and go food shopping.

 

[dancareoi]

Morning all

Becks - glad that time is going quick and Brooklyn is active, bet it brings a smile to your face. Well, we paid the money for the xray but don't think I am going to pay for all the other stuff. As far as I am aware it can be managed with tablets and diet. I am seeing the vet again on 2 Jul, hope she is ready for me!!!

Kat - colours sound lovely, bet it looks nice. Hope time goes quick for you with you going away. Have a great time x

Lisa - how are you today? When is your actual due date? Hope your sugars are under control with all your injections.

Fi - hope you are still taking it easy.

Dawn - still thinking of you and hoping you are ok.

Jan and Regina - how are you both today?

Apologies if I've missed anyone. AFM - temp not really fluctuating too much and still no pos OPK as yet. Feeling tired today. Got to finish cleaning as my mam is coming down tomorrow to look after DS whilst we go away. Also got to make a cake and go food shopping.

Hi jo, sugar levels haven't been too bad but did have to up insulin slightly yesterday but that's the first time in a week so not too bad.

Am I right in thinking you are off to Rome . Did I read that somewhere?