TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[dancareoi]

Welcome driving, you are definately in the right place. I am so sorry for you loss, but it seems you become pg easily, so hopefully you will get your rainbow soon.

I will add you and cry to our first page.

Karen, fab scan pictures, you must be on cloud 9 right now that all is looking good. Well done on staying team yellow.

I think baby has been having a party in my belly tonight!

 

[josie1234]

Karen, great scan pics, lovely bet you are so chuffed.

Driving, welcome to this thread, sorry for your loss, hope it is not too long for you. FX'd for you.

Lisa - how's the party in your belly going?

Regina, Becks, Jan - how are you all? Kat - are you ok hun? Dawn - have you any answers yet? Sorry if I've missed something but can't look back on other screens.

 

[dancareoi]

Karen, great scan pics, lovely bet you are so chuffed.

Driving, welcome to this thread, sorry for your loss, hope it is not too long for you. FX'd for you.

Lisa - how's the party in your belly going?

Regina, Becks, Jan - how are you all? Kat - are you ok hun? Dawn - have you any answers yet? Sorry if I've missed something but can't look back on other screens.

I think she's all partyed out as its gone quieter , just as well because I'm off to bed.

How are you being so patient and not testing !

 

[josie1234]

lol i did test this morning mwah. BFN

i will wait a couple more days if u can hold out

 

[josie1234]

if I can hold out, I mean lol

 

[josie1234]

well looks like i may be out this cycle. temp gone down and feel like AF is coming.

 

[Left wonderin]

well looks like i may be out this cycle. temp gone down and feel like AF is coming.

Ah flip , its not fair your having to wait so long for your turn !!!! how many cycles are you actively trying now Jo ?

 

[dancareoi]

well looks like i may be out this cycle. temp gone down and feel like AF is coming.

your turn will come.

 

[josie1234]

We have been trying since we got married 2008. I didn't really know as much as I do now about cycles and ttc.

I did get pregnant in 2012 when we had forgot about trying, lots going on in our lives then so it was a great surprise and to be honest was really shocked when it happened. But unfortunately not mean to be. So, at least we know I can get pregnant. We got tests and that so looks like everything is ok.

I feel like I am just waiting for AF and disappointed as this month have not been focussing too much on ttc like I normally do. Feel like its never gonna happen, having a bit of a down day today. I know I shouldn't as things could be worse so need to keep smiling and stay positive. It will happen one day.

 

[dancareoi]

We have been trying since we got married 2008. I didn't really know as much as I do now about cycles and ttc.

I did get pregnant in 2012 when we had forgot about trying, lots going on in our lives then so it was a great surprise and to be honest was really shocked when it happened. But unfortunately not mean to be. So, at least we know I can get pregnant. We got tests and that so looks like everything is ok.

I feel like I am just waiting for AF and disappointed as this month have not been focussing too much on ttc like I normally do. Feel like its never gonna happen, having a bit of a down day today. I know I shouldn't as things could be worse so need to keep smiling and stay positive. It will happen one day.

I know how you feel. It is so disappointing, but once Af had arrived i was down for a couple of days and then started to look forward to next OV.

My consumtant in RMC was very surprised we caught so quick as at our age he average time to get pg is 6-9 months. So your time will come xx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Lisa, I know, once you feel AF is coming you just want it out of the way so you can start again. Its been over a year since the MC so hopefully it will happen sometime.

 

[dancareoi]

Thanks Lisa, I know, once you feel AF is coming you just want it out of the way so you can start again. Its been over a year since the MC so hopefully it will happen sometime.

I know it's not much of a consulation but at least you know you are compatible and can get pregnant. Xx

 

[Creative]

Thanks Lisa, I know, once you feel AF is coming you just want it out of the way so you can start again. Its been over a year since the MC so hopefully it will happen sometime.

I know it's not much of a consulation but at least you know you are compatible and can get pregnant. Xx

And we are all keeping our fingers crossed and wishing you lots of baby dust!

 

[Oasis717]

Karen what beautiful pics, the cutest lil nose bet you are over the moon, so happy for you xxxx
Driving welcome, you most certainly do fit in here, very sorry for your loss, I, like you, managed to fall on the second cycle this pregnancy so that's a great sign and I'm nearly 28 weeks so I hope that gives you hope I fell second cycle then first cycle last year but sadly lost both angels, it must be third time lucky xxxxxxxx
Jo I'm so sorry you feel af is coming, your turn definitely will come as the other ladies have said, it's natural to feel down as af approaches but try to think of each new cycle as your fresh start and you have EVERY chance of success, wishing you so much baby dust xxxxxx
Afm I'm coping really well in this heat surprisingly and no sign of the dreaded spd so am really pleased as i was in a lot of pain with ds 4 pregnancy at this point with it. My hips are also better at night too xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks ladies. Becks, glad things are getting easier for you hun. Well, its not over yet so I will snap out of my doldrums and get my jobs done. Hope you all have a good day xx

 

[crysshae]

Good luck, Josie. If AF does get you this time, fingers crossed for your BFP next cycle.

 

[josie1234]

Thank you Cry. Its such an emotional roller coaster, I have been ok this cycle up til now, lol but I have kept myself busy today (spending money!) so I feel a bit happier. Tomorrow is a new day and no AF as yet.

 

[Oasis717]

Lp is great though Jo that's really positive My lp was always 14 days so that's a great sign xxxxxx

 

[bash73]

Driving...we are sorta in the same boat. Sorry for your CP...I was on a rollercoaster from the end of April until June 10th with being told I had a CP then, a vanishing twin, then "you're going to miscarry", then had a D&C to be told, nope "it's ectopic". I feel for you, truly I do. Now I'm waiting for my HCG to be zero. I was at 16 on Saturday. Starting to feel crampy and PMS is kicking in because I want to eat everything in sight. I figure within the next week AF arrives (please God). But my doc (who really isn't my doc anymore) said the same thing. The "good news" is that the egg and sperm met, that's a huge deal. At the time, I wanted to tell him to go you know where, but now I have to keep thinking positive thoughts. I'll be 40 in less than 2 months and my DH is going to be 49 later this year. If God wants us to have a baby, it will happen. (Remind me that after we try and I want to pee on a stick every day...LOL). Keep your chin up

 

[garfie]

Hi Ladies

Still stalking - but when you haven't commented for a while it's hard to dip your toe back in - well I'm dipping

Bash - Sorry you are still waiting hun - I reckon the witch will fly in at the weekend for you and then are you starting straight away? - I'm still waiting as well - but ordering some PMA for when the time comes

Josie - 14 days is great hun - wish mine was so reliable - mind you though who knows what will happen next month, wonder if my cycle will lengthen?

Cry - Hi hun and a belated welcome - so sorry for your losses - but as the other ladies have said we all understand where you are coming from BIG

Karen - Lovely pics hun well done for staying on team yellow although I have to say I think it's a - no I won't

Lisa/Oasis - How are you ladies doing? getting big now I imagine - maybe time for another bump pic - pwetty pwease

Left - Not long until your scan now hun - how are your symptoms hun

AFM - Not a lot to report - trying to keep busy just when I think I'm getting over it ( a little) something comes along and BAM I'm back in the hole - today was just because on television someone said I'm pregnant with a big beam on her face - I knew she was as I watch the series but still ouch a punch in the gut

Did my test today still positive 2 weeks post DNC will test again next Wednesday



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