TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[bash73]

So it's day 5 of AF and although it's not heavy it's still here, thought it'd be departing by now. However, decided to start peeing on the oval stick again (i just love to waste money). Somewhere around the end of next week/weekend I should O. Either way, we will start DTD e/o day once AF leaves unless I O first, which has never happened. How's everyone feeling? It's been over 100 in NY the last couple of days, we're supposed to get relief by Sunday. I don't mind the heat as I will take it over snow any day.

 

[Creative]

Hope it's cooler weather by the weekend!!

 

[josie1234]

Dawn, fingers crossed AF leaves soon. Made me chuckle the comment about wasting money, every month I think, ok more OPKs. Not much BD's this month so far but won't be long hopefully. Spoke to a lady the other day who had been ttc for 10 years and has fell pregnant. Think she has about 8 weeks left to go. Miracles do happen.

Been looking at info for Buggyfit classes and came across this, thought it might be useful info for those pregnant as I know we did talk about maternity wear.

https://www.babycentre.co.uk/a563012/maternity-clothing-directory

Hope you all have a good weekend, yes loving the nice weather.

 

[dancareoi]

Miracles do happen!

Dawn hope Af leaves soon and you can get down to business again.

Nearly time for you to start again jo!

Lots of baby dust coming both your ways

 

[lindouce]

hi , i'll be 41 next month , last month i lost my baby at 6+5 and two days ago i finished af , my doctor told me not to ttc and not to prevent it either this month but if it happens it's ok , this was my first pregnancy after trying for 4 months , so wish me luck ladies and baby dust to you all .

 

[crysshae]

lindouce - I'm so sorry for your loss. Good luck this cycle.

Dawn and Jo - Good luck to you too!

Sending babydust to all 3 of you.

Oasis - Was your glucose test negative?

Dance and Creative - Has the weather cooled down for you?

AFM - Day 3 of AF. I'll be trying again really soon.

 

[bash73]

So I was told to wait until my next cycle to try again. Was to say the least, NOT happy with that response. I'm done w/AF and pee'd on OPK and HPT both negative which is where they should be. And I know that Under 25 or even less HPT will be negative but just proves that last time I had positive and 2 days later dropped to a 12 and before I knew the twelve my at home was negative. Who is this doc trying to kid. He never followed me to zero last time the idiot. New doc tomorrow, praying he tells me I'm fine, and that we can start. If my cycle is back on ached (and I know it might not be) I should get positive OPK mid to end of this week. Baby dust to everyone along w/prayers!

 

[dancareoi]

Lin welcome to our group and sorry for you loss.

Cry sorry Af got you

Dawn, hope new doc tells you what you want to hear !

It had cooled over the weekend but boiling again today.

We're off to torquay on Saturday and next weeks weather looks a little hit and miss!

32 week growth scan today, she's still growing nicely and weighs approx 4.4.

Head way down but not engaged! Bum still in my tummy button and she has one leg on my right side and somehow the other leg is to the left!

 

[crysshae]

Sounds like she's all sprawled out and comfy in there.

AF is a good thing for me this time. I was waiting on it after my miscarriage to begin trying again.

 

[Oasis717]

Crystal ive not had a phone call as yet so I'm hoping it's negative as I was told you get a phone call if positive and hear nothing if it's negative so fingers crossed no news is good news, thanks for asking hun xxxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

hi , i'll be 41 next month , last month i lost my baby at 6+5 and two days ago i finished af , my doctor told me not to ttc and not to prevent it either this month but if it happens it's ok , this was my first pregnancy after trying for 4 months , so wish me luck ladies and baby dust to you all .

Hi and welcome , I'm sorry for your loss . This is a great thread with lots of stories that will bring you hope ( well they did me anyhow ) ill look forward to getting to know you

Cry for AF not long now till your back Tcc and the dreaded Tww

Dance your baby sounds very cosy in there lol..... And Becks can't believe your nearly hitting the 30 week mark OMG !!!!!

 

[bash73]

Welcome Lin...sorry for your loss. We're all in this together. I'll be 40 in Sept and anxiously awaiting to see my new doctor tomorrow morning!

 

[Left wonderin]

Welcome Lin...sorry for your loss. We're all in this together. I'll be 40 in Sept and anxiously awaiting to see my new doctor tomorrow morning!

Bash best of luck with the appointment tomorrow, have you your list of questions for them ?

 

[josie1234]

Hi all, sorry I haven't been on much but I have been lurking. Welcome to the thread lin, sorry for your loss hun, hope you are ok and good luck, sending lots of fairy dust your way.

Blimey Lisa, sounds well comfy in there lol.

Becks - glad that there is no news and time seems to be going so quick for you. Your little ticker is speeding along.

How is everyone else? Dawn - good luck hun. Kat - how are you? Regina - how are you feeling? Tired, sick or anything or are you ok? Sorry if I don't mention all the names, we have got quite a few on here now eh?

AFM - had quite a temp surge but think it was because I was visiting friends and managed to get through quite a bit of wine the night before, oops. No pos opk as yet which is typical as DH goes back for his 4 night shifts tomorrow. But on the plus side, he is on leave the next set so we will see.

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi Jo , I'm doing ok thanks feeling tired , have sore boobs and feeling sick on and off . Dry heaving in the mornings so all is good with me lol.........

It must be sooooooo frustrating when your dates for o/v and your husbands leave do not coincide nothing for it but to get another bd or two in before he goes .but GREAT news he is off next time

How are the classes going ? Are you still as busy ?

 

[dancareoi]

I did wander about your temp spoke jo!

Regina how far are you now! I looses track!

Hi to everyone else.

Becks glad it doesn't look like you have GD .

I have has to up insulin again to 8 before breakfast, still 10 before evening meal and now 36 units in the evening!

 

[bash73]

I have my list of questions ready to go!!! Can't wait to meet the new doc tomorrow, hoping I get answers and a green light! I'll report in as soon as I get home. Until then...baby dust and prayers for all!

 

[josie1234]

Hi Dawn, good luck for the doctors, I hope you get some answers.

Hi Lisa, blimey it must be hard to keep on top of your GD. Thanks for keeping an eye on my chart.

Regina - glad that you are feeling a bit poorly as it means everything is going ok, right? Yeh it is frustrating and it is hard just being together part-time. Trying to organise stuff is a nightmare now, particularly with me doing all my classes.

My Boot Camps have not taken off too well, think it is the hot weather but I have one tonight, my first one on a Thurs and I am hoping that the storm has cleared the air. Bet people won't come cos its wet lol. My Buggyfit classes are the same, quiet but I am still waiting for my posters and I have to get them from Buggyfit. Might speak to local midwives and baby and mum groups. My classes in the gyms are going ok, I have 4 regular ones and am starting kettlebells on Sunday and then covering extra ones when people are away (they are all putting their hols in). So, I am keeping busy. Thanks for asking.

Well, I am going to try and get back to sleep as the storm woke me up and the poor dog was frightened. Hope he is ok. x

 

[lindouce]

thank you ladies for your support it's a wonderful thread , hope everything is going to be fine with us all , and all our worries will end , baby dust to you all and good luck to those who are expecting .

 

[dancareoi]

Sending lots of baby dust to All you TTC ladies.

Well the weather has broken here and it is pouring with rain this morning, still feels very warm though .