TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Morning, been up most of the night with the storms, soooo tired. Off to take Buggyfit class but can't see anyone turning up. Hope you all have a good day xxx

 

[crysshae]

Dawn - I hope your appointment goes well today.

Thanks for the babydust, dance. Goodness. That is a lot of insulin. It must be difficult.

Left - Sorry you're feeling so icky but happy you are at the same time!

Hope your day goes well too, Josie, and that you can find some time to rest after your sleepless night.

Sending baby dust to all the TTCers.

 

[bash73]

Finally some answers...Met w/new doc, what a wonderful man!!!!!! Thank God, I found him. He agreed w/the idiot doc that it was one pregnancy. Seeing as nothing was in my uterus he agreed "ectopic" but not in my tube. New doc, can I call him "Mr. Wonderful"?, found a mass near my right ovary. He's not sure exactly what it is, however, he said it could be residual or persistant tissue from the ectopic. And He found the mass, not the ultrasound tech. I'm probably the only person to ever be happy to hear that a mass was found inside of them. Now I have to see his son tomorrow (mr wonderful only handles OB patients doesn't do gyn surgery). He's not positive that I will need surgery but his son would do it if I do. He was soooo positive. He kept saying you're 39 years young. When you get pregnant I will probably change your blood pressure medication. He is sending me for a bunch of blood work to check DNA, antibody's, etc. Hoping I can start trying by the time I'm 40 (47 days to go).

 

[crysshae]

That's wonderful, Dawn. I'm so glad you found a doctor you like and can trust. It's great that he and his son work together. You definitely won't have to worry about making sure each doctor knows what's going on. I hope everything turns out well with the mass without complications and you can start trying again very very soon!

 

[Left wonderin]

Dawn he does sound like Mr wonderful HEHEHEHEHEHEHE I'm so glad it was a good experience for you go mr wonderful 39 years young I like his thinking 47!days to 40'we will have to organise an on line party hehehehe

 

[dancareoi]

Dawn sounds like you've found the right man.

47 days until the big 40! A spring chicken!

 

[josie1234]

Dawn that's great, must be such a relief to have someone that is not fobbing you off and being positive. Just what you need hun, so pleased for you.

 

[bash73]

Ladies, it is such a huge relief and the office staff at both the father and son's office were soooo nice. Nobody sounded over worked (i'm sure they are) but just a pleasant experience so far. Next appt is tomorrow w/Junior for a consult and turns out "dad" will be in that office too on Wednesdays (woohoo). If they mention surgery, I'm all over it. I want this to be behind me already this has got to be the longest "non pregnancy" everrrrrrrrr. I know it's not but for me it's an eternity. Everyone, stay well, chin's up and prayers and baby dust for all!!!

 

[dancareoi]

I can believe it my 'baby' leaves primary school tomorrow after 7 years, where has that time gone.

He is feeling a bit down about it as all his friends apart from 1 are off to the same school in September and he is going somewhere else, so be is a bit sad that he won't see his school friends again .

Hopefully we will manage to keep in touch with some of them, I will still see their parents as like me, they still have kids at the school.

I know I'm going to cry !

 

[crysshae]

Awww! These things are definitely bittersweet, and the time goes by much too fast. I hope he is able to keep in touch with old friends as well as make good new friends quickly.

 

[Creative]

At our local secondary school they deliberately separate friends when they go into year 7. There is always some hoo haa from some mums and children, but it works really well and the children mix with their new form members very quickly because their hand is forced. I am sure he'll make some great friends.
I cried when mine left juniors and seniors (i never though t I'd be going to go through it all again in a few years!)

 

[josie1234]

He will make new friends and hopefully keep in touch with the old ones too. It is always emotional.

 

[bash73]

Not sure if I wrote on this but HCG is down to 4 as of 7/24 and I'm scheduled for surgery on Tuesday to have the "mass" near/on my right ovary removed. Finally this saga will end!!! Not looking forward to the pain again and no exercise but I have a totally different mind set this time. Praying that my tube and ovary are fine and nothing needs repair or removal (there was no mention of that from the doctor but it crossed my mind).

 

[crysshae]

Good luck, Dawn! You're almost there! I pray you have a safe, uncomplicated procedure and healing.

 

[garfie]

Good luck Dawn BIG - hope you're soon back on your feet



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[josie1234]

Good luck Dawn, hope it all goes ok for you.

 

[Left wonderin]

Hello everyone , boy its quite on here lol...... Well the start of a new week , I wish I didn't have to go to work lol....... Have a great day everyone

 

[josie1234]

Hi Regina, how are you? Yep, very quiet on here, no news is good news though eh? Well not much to report from me. My cycle seems a bit all over the place, don't know what is happening and have no OPKs at the mo. Not sure whether to get some or whether it is too late for this cycle. DH is off work now and on leave for his next 4 day shift so that is good. Got a job interview tomorrow for a fitness consultant job at a gym but it is 37 hours and wondering where I will get the time as I'm still building up my business but see what happens. If its meant to be, then it will be. The hours are variable which confuses me so see what hours they are and things might fall in place. Not sure how it will impact on my fitness classes, personal training, boot camps and buggyfit (I admit, the last 2 are very quiet, still trying to get word around).

Hope everyone else is doing ok.

 

[bash73]

My surgery is set for tomorrow. Had 14 tubes of blood drawn today for genetic testing. That was a LOT. Never had that many at once before. HCG down to 4 and hoping today's draw gives me a zero. So I haven't O'd and i'm cycle day 15. I guess it doesn't matter since we can't try now.
Josie...I'm a Personal Trainer and Group Ex Instructor. That's a lot of hours on top of what you're already doing. Good luck!

 

[crysshae]

Wishing you good luck and safe procedure Dawn.

Josie - I hope everything works out with the job the way you want it to.

AFM - They apparently saw something on my screening mammogram and have called me back in for a diagnostic exam. And I should be due to O within the next 4 days.