TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

Dance wow up and walking around that is good news I'm sure you are so relieved its all over !! How is our little lady today ?

 

[Oasis717]

Lisa that's great that you're up and about great sign. The midwife that came to see me the day after I had Casey found me shaking with pain and was appalled at just being sent home like that and told me forceps can be more painful post op than a section, I haven't had a section but I was in real agony and it took weeks to recover, maybe I was unlucky but she immediately sent for strong painkillers which only took the edge off if I'm honest. It was an awful experience so if I can avoid forceps ill be over the moon. How us your little one today? Xxxxxx

 

[Xanth]

Glad to hear you're up and about Lisa. Hope I'm as good as you although my friend works on the ward so I'll probably have no choice lol.

Have you got a name yet? Xxx

 

[crysshae]

That's great that you are able to get up and move around, Lisa. Hope you and your precious little one are doing very well.

 

[josie1234]

Hi Lisa, take it easy hun, how are you feeling in yourself? Hope the little lady is doing well, bet your family are so chuffed. Has it sunk in yet?

Xanth, hope it all goes ok, I will be thinking of you. After such an emotional journey, your LO will soon be here xx

Becks - not long for you, it will soon be here. It is so exciting. Take it easy with all that walking, it must be getting harder as time goes on.

Regina - how's things with you?

I was looking on the first page, quite a few BFPs on there, very promising. Due another BFP.

Not sure if I am in this month at all, don't even know when or if I ov. Doesn't look good on my chart. I will only see DH for 5 nights in September which is really rubbish as he is on some courses. Feeling a bit down about it, think Oct is slightly better as get to see him for 15 nights. Oh well, nothing I can do about it so just got to get on with things and hope for the best.

 

[josie1234]

Crystal - how are things with you? How are you feeling about your chart? I will keep watching it, what's the temperature ribbon thing?

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo, it is getting harder but I'm quite proud I'm managing so well still and can still climb those hills 15 nights sounds promising! At least you will have enough time then to concentrate your efforts so to speak it must be tough with him being away and ttc. Don't feel down, October is only round the corner and you're right we are definitely due another bfp or two!! Xxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Crystal - how are things with you? How are you feeling about your chart? I will keep watching it, what's the temperature ribbon thing?

I'm doing well. I don't really know what to think about my chart just yet. I've been doing really well at saying NO to testing, but I gave in today. BFN of course.

Oh...I can't see the ribbon, so I forgot all about it. I was on my phone the other night and came across it and accidentally tapped the button that posted it to my home page. I need to try to find it and remove it.

I hope your chart becomes more clear soon and that O happens when your DH is home!

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Becks. You are doing well keeping up the walking. The 15 days is not all together. It is a few days here and there. And also I do worry how I would manage if I did fall pg with him away. Maybe I should stop worrying and just deal with things as they happen. Trying to stay positive. Can be hard. But you lovely ladies show there is hope.

 

[Oasis717]

It's normal to worry Jo, easier said than done not! But whether a few days here or there as long as its the right time that will be all it takes you will get there xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Jo, it only takes 1 sperm to get pg, so though 15 nights out of 30 is not ideal, all is not lost!

Remember PMA

Our little girl is very quiet and hardly cries, probably saving it up until we get home.

I am so tired I could sleep standing up!

 

[dancareoi]

Jo, it only takes 1 sperm to get pg, so though 15 nights out of 30 is not ideal, all is not lost!

Remember PMA

Our little girl is very quiet and hardly cries, probably saving it up until we get home.

I am so tired I could sleep standing up!

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Crystal, Becks and Lisa. Just feeling sorry for myself. I will snap out of it. Tomorrow is another day xx

 

[josie1234]

Hope you manage to get some sleep Lisa. When are off home then?

 

[Oasis717]

Always here for you Jo xxx x Lisa you poor thing you must be exhausted! Xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Slept much better last night and so did baby, which meant not much feeding. She has fallen asleep now today feeding!

Still have the bad pain but no morphine since last night but will try something else today.

 

[Creative]

Hope you get the pain sorted.
really glad you both got a better sleep.
When are they letting you out?

 

[dancareoi]

Hope you get the pain sorted.
really glad you both got a better sleep.
When are they letting you out?

Looking to go home tomorrow. That will mean a total of 18 nights in hospital!

 

[Oasis717]

Hope the pain eases for you soon Lisa, that's a long time to be away you will be pleased to get home I betxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Although its not nice being in hospital at least you have been looked after and had time to rest. Hope the pain is easing. 8 ladies and babies this morning for buggyfit so I am really pleased. OH home so happy happy. Have a good day xx