TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Nah no signs lol! And only a couple of bh so far today but they don't start til the evening. I bet I go over! Xx

 

[josie1234]

See what happens, he may decide to make a surprise appearance, fingers crossed lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Lol I know that's the thing that's just no knowing! With dd12 I was fine one min then the next the contractions started so you really just never know xx

 

[HomeEdMom]

R - Sean is a lovely name for a boy!

Oasis - wishing you luck & patience.

As for me - my temp went up again, if I take out my yesterday's low it's a perfect slow incline but obviously O is not on the horizon. Incredibly frustrating for me as my pg tests are still positive. I'm 43 and hubby is 51, I just want to get down to business.

 

[Creative]

My feet are like balloons. we spent the day doing the "baby shop" buying everything in one go.
Why on earth did I think that was the best way to do it? I'm knackered!

 

[Creative]

R - Sean is a lovely name for a boy!

Oasis - wishing you luck & patience.

As for me - my temp went up again, if I take out my yesterday's low it's a perfect slow incline but obviously O is not on the horizon. Incredibly frustrating for me as my pg tests are still positive. I'm 43 and hubby is 51, I just want to get down to business.

Mine took 5 or 7 weeks to come back neg. It was soul destroying but once it happens it's all go!

 

[HomeEdMom]

Garfie - IMO I don't think you O on day 9, your temp isn't high enough. Also if you take out that w for your Cm it will take that off. I find on a normal cycle I have a little "almost there" surge day 9 and go on to ovulate on day 13 or 14..... It's food for thought.

 

[HomeEdMom]

Please add me to the first page .... HomeEdMom (Amanda) 43, DH 51 ... TTC after M/c

 

[Creative]

Amanda our ages and our OH ages are very similar. I'm 44 and OH is 51 also. Have you got other children?

 

[HomeEdMom]

Creative, TY. I have 4 children, 17,10,9 & 8.
Here's my tests ..... It sucks!
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[HomeEdMom]

Creative .... Where are you from in Yorkshire ? I lived in West Yorkshire for a few years in my 20s.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Amandaxxxx sorry your tests are still positive. After my second mc last year it took many weeks to get a neg and I understand how that feels. Really hoping they go neg fir you soon xxx

 

[Creative]

Creative .... Where are you from in Yorkshire ? I lived in West Yorkshire for a few years in my 20s.

I live in South Cave which is a village in East Yorkshire on the way to Hull. By birth I'm a westie!! I was born in Bradford.

 

[dancareoi]

Amanda, after my second loss last year it took ages to get a negative hpt.

I got really stressed out because my consultant wanted me to have a uNK killer cell test(had to pay £360 for this) I had to see them for this approx 4 days after OV. However I missed OV as I was still getting positive opk and hpt from mc. I wasn't able to TTC until after test was done.

When that hpt finally turned negative I was so happy. Strange really as a negative hpt would normally make you sad!

I had the uNK test 2 months after mmc and next month I fell pg.

This shows that you can OV when hpt still positive. With the hpt I used up the digi ones I had that show the weeks, the weeks did reduce so I knew hpt levels were falling.

You will get there, but I know the frustration you feel of just wanting to get on with things.

If it were up to me I would have another, but DH was happy after our first two and has said definite no to any more. I know he's right, although I love being pregnant, towards the end, the first few weeks were a constant worry, so I have to follow my head and not my heart and call it a day.

I will add you to first page.

 

[garfie]

Lisa - The talk is so hard - we have also had it, we keep asking ourselves how many times do we put ourselves through the emotional as well as the physical pain - I say just one more time at the moment I have my way, how long that will last

Amanda - We seem to spend so much of our time waiting waiting waiting

Josie - How are things with you today

Creative - I know where that is - I live over the water from you

Left - I bet you are still up there floating around

Becks - Any news today?

AFM - Yet another positive - I took out the watery cm, it made no difference - not sure if I will O this cyle at all - although FF has got me down for 7DPO. If I do O I will have to begin my TWW all over again



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[josie1234]

Hi Garf I know what you mean there is always hope but how long do we go through the emotional pain. I am ok thanks. Waiting for Friday to see DH. Hope your chart makes sense to you soon. Heres my opk for this morning.

 

[Creative]

Creative - I know where that is - I live over the water from you



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Where are you?

 

[garfie]

Creative - Just outside Louth

Josie - I will put my OPK up in a mo - deff positive again. Hope you get your positive soon hun



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[Creative]

Creative - Just outside Louth



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if you cross the bridge let me know and you can come and have a cuppa!

 

[garfie]

5th positive opk ;(