TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Am really hoping these contractions ease off as ds 4 woke at 6 with a temp of over 100, headache and vomiting. I couldn't bare to leave him like this, I'm the only one he wants when he's ill and I don't think my mil would be able to cope so I'm really worried and hoping I get just one more day xxx

 

[Creative]

Awww that's not fun for either of you!. Hope he feels better soon and that things hold off for you.

 

[dancareoi]

Jo, you have hit the nail on the head, that's exactly right, what now? Feel a bit better now its day time!

Becks, hope casey is ok and you hold off until he's better xx

 

[josie1234]

Glad you are feeling a bit better today Lisa. If you are like me, things always seem worse at night or when I am tired.

Becks - Hope Casey is better soon hun, hold on Brooklyn, stay in there a little longer! Can't believe I am talking to Brooklyn, I am seriously losing the plot lol. There is nothing worse Becks when children are poorly, it is such a worry. Fingers crossed he is ok xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you all. Hate it when he's ill and suffering. He's been asleep all morning just woken to drink and been sick again yes Brooklyn stay put for now xxxxx

 

[garfie]

Quick update at work

No eggy this month

Opk negative



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[HomeEdMom]

Garfie ... That's not fair no egg . I'm sorry. I hope next cycle is kinder to you.

Lisa, I am sorry that DH feels that way, it's so final getting the snip. I hope you find some peace with it.

Becks - what about your LO? Any better?

I know I missed someone sorry.

Me - arg still got a positive pregnancy test today though it's a little paler, looks uneven now .... Maybe ...... And my opk is pale too. YAY. I'm going to opk every day now so I can watch if it gets darker. I have digital OPKs for later but I know they won't work while I still have pregnancy hormones - I already tried lol. I am so impatient so so impatient.

I have a new friend, she is really nice. She is staying in Our village for a year and working as assistant minister at our church. We hit it off and had a lovely morning doing tea and cupcakes. Makes me happy.

 

[Creative]

I have a new friend, she is really nice. She is staying in Our village for a year and working as assistant minister at our church. We hit it off and had a lovely morning doing tea and cupcakes. Makes me happy.

It's lovely when you find someone on the same wave length!

 

[Oasis717]

That's great about your friend Amanda, sounds like you had a lovely mornng ds is still asleep. Can't believe he's slept the day away. Have woken him regularly for drinks etc but he's wiped out. No more sickness since 11 so fingers crossed. Sorry about the hpt. I know only too well his frustrating it is, mine took weeks to go neg but I had a small piece of retained tissue so mine was much longer than normal. I was overjoyed to see a neg come end of nov last year as I mc in sep. I then fell in January and here I am! Miracles do indeed happen xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Becks, sleep is the best thing for them.

Fiona, how do you know there's no egg this month.

Jo, a positive OPK today would be good timing for you.

 

[Oasis717]

Well he's up at last I can't believe he's slept over 19 hours, temp up to 101 but he's eaten a little. Cervical pains are back quite bad but few contractions. Hope everyone is ok xxxx

 

[garfie]

Becks - Hope little one is feeling better - Brooklyn still staying put?

Lisa - Sorry you felt down - hope you are feeling much better

Home - I love making new friends - that's why I do my avon

Josie - Is hubby home this weekend - if so have fun

AFM - As I have had no temp increase and now my cm has gone creamy I never saw any EWCM (I know you don't always have to) my OPK has gone negative after all those positives as well So maybe this is an annovulatory cycle - I suppose there is still a small chance - just preparing myself I guess



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[Oasis717]

No Fi I think he's staying put you knowxxx sorry you haven't got a def ovulation date but you never know xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi all how are you today? Woke up at 5 took a drink and then needed the toilet so took temp 35.9. Fell back to sleep without going to toilet and woke up again at 7. Took temp again 36.4. Realised that maybe taking a drink might have affected first temp reading. Lol. My opk today.

 

[garfie]

Josie - Getting up earlier/taking a drink will have effected your temp hun this is so confusing for us

AFM - I am very confused - I deff had a neg OPK yesterday and now today the sodding thing has gone positive

Will put up a pic see if you ladies agree



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[garfie]

What's going on - am I broken

 

[dancareoi]

What's going on - am I broken

I don't think you are broken, but I found my body sometime played mean tricks on me, getting stressed doesn't help.

Is it worth doing hpt just to rule that either in or out ?

 

[HomeEdMom]

Garfie - you aren't broken. The month I conceived the twins I had 7 positive OPKs in a row then I ran out. I wonder though if you should switch brands and get some that are less sensitive?
I don't know but it's possible you still might o as last cycle you were CD19 and you are only at 19 now.

Josie I'd mark in your 36.4 and see how your chart goes. One off temp won't change things a huge amount.

Becks - you haven't checked in????????

Me - well kinda quiet today. 3 loads of laundry. Kept up with the housework and prepared dinner in advance. My pg test was paler today YAY YAY YAY and my OPK was marginally darker YAY YAY though my temps are still high for me .... but I'm trying to remain as optimistic as I can. On another topic, I have to go chat to my boss tomorrow, I've been off work over a month now and my sick line runs out soon. I was going to reduce my hours a little, just because I usually work evenings and I will be totally honest saying I have enjoyed seeing my kids again at bedtime. I say enjoyed but it was bad circumstances I was home each night. I'm hoping my boss buys it. OH gets a new job next month he says I don't need to work at all if I don't want as he doesn't want anything going wrong in the next pregnancy - sweet.

Here's a question - for anyone. After a MC do you O first cycle before AF or do you just get AF and O next?

 

[dancareoi]

You will OV before Af as some people get pg the first cycle after mc and obviously have to OV for this happen .

Hope this answers your question. Glad your hpt are lighter

Jo hope you get positive OPK today.

Becks hope u r ok and hope casey is better today .

Busy day today. DH and DS have been up to Anfield today to watch Liverpool, so me, dd and other DS have made cup cakes, fairy cakes and a chocate came. My sister came over with my 2 nieces too.

 

[Oasis717]

I'm still here ladies! nothing to report I'm afraid. Walked an hour and half today (my due day today!) and just resulted in strong bh! We've been setting up our aquarium last two days, getting some fish Wednesday, if I'm still about! Xxx