TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Is my chart showing something weird? I'm just now coming up on O. And DH's allergies have been bugging him the last few days.

Regina - Ditto what the others said. Rest every chance you get.

Fiona - I think you ovulated a couple days later than your crosshairs show...so only 10 dpo? Definitely not out if that's the case.

Jo - It would be wonderful if your cycle ends in a BFP. Fingers crossed for you!

Becks - That would be cool to have them so close together. How do you feel about that possibility?


Lisa - I hope you're doing okay.

 

[Oasis717]

Scared and excited at the same time Crystal lol but I'm sure it will take a lot longer to fall as I'm now 42 and a year older xxx

 

[josie1234]

You never know Becks!!

Crystal, very interesting. Let's see if your temp goes up, hope so xxxx
What's the thing with your DH allergy, is it connected to your cycles, that would be good lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Brooklyn loves being Superbaby with daddy xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Becks - he is a little star, looking like a proper little boy (if that makes sense), growing up so quick eh?

Love the musical theme in the background.

I have made a document of my charts since Jan 13, just so I have it to hand if I have to see a specialise. If you have time to have a look, I would appreciate your thoughts. I don't seem to have any cycles the same.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo I know what you mean lol he's lost all the newborn look that's for sure, that's a decal in the background it's a butterfly with music flowing out. Dh and I are mad on music I will have a look at your charts xxx

 

[josie1234]

Morning all. Thanks Becks. Looks lovely. Hope you all have a good day.

AFM Cd 42 today.

 

[Soanxious]

Hi im new here, im 41 last Dec and I have 3 grown kids, 23,19 and 14 i've been with my partner for 2 years now and he has no children so we wanted one, it took me till last October to conceive and I never had problems before but after a week I mc. We were heartbroken, well I just tried straight away and on the weekend I got a faint 2nd line and I feel nauseated, im so anxious and I should be happy, I keep looking at the test wishing it to be a stronger line but the first day of my last period was only 17th December so I shouldnt expect it any darker should I? im a worrier and feel sick im worried so much, just hoping for some reassuring words as I have only told my partner and I have no one to talk too.

 

[josie1234]

Hi soanxious. Welcome to this thread. I understand the worry. Once you experience a mc, you do worry. But this thread shows that there is hope and always someone to chat to who understands what you are going through.

It is still early so I would keep testing and see if the line gets darker. Take pics to compare. Good luck hun xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks josie1234 just im a total worrier anyway now my heart is pounding out of my chest and I cant calm down, no sleep no food in days. this is my test xx

 

[garfie]

Welcome soanxious - we can all fully understand where you are coming from

But......... no food no sleep come on mama you've got a little bub in there growing - you must take care of yourself and little one.

Can't you eat because of nerves? - or are you being sick? - if it's nerves eat little and often and if it's sickness I'm sure one of the ladies who has experienced this can advise.

Get some rest too



X

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks garfie ,I think its nausea from all of it, im trying. Im of to doctors now to see what I can do about getting food into me, I had been unwell last 14 days with sore throat so not really eaten much since then, then the nausea kicked in Thursday so I waited a few days to test.. I am drinking OJ and taking my baby vitamins drinking water and trying toast and simple things.. any advice on nice meat free foods when feeling so rough would be brilliant xx

 

[josie1234]

Yes Garf is right. Look after yourself and try not to worry. Easier said than done, right!!

Eat little and often. Like I said take another test to see if line is darker. Early days. Do you keep track of when you ovulate? Sorry I cant read prev message as on my phone, when was AF due?

 

[dancareoi]

Soan, welcome to our family xx

I was where you are this time last year. Getting pg was only the start, once pg the worrying starts big time !

There are a lovely bunch of ladies on here to offer help, guidance and a big cyber hug when needed.

I posted my first faint tests on here and drove myself round the twist, but that looks a lovely line.

Stalking all the charts. Jo I think you actually ov a few days after we originally said!

 

[crysshae]

I hope his allergies are not connected to my cycle! That would not be good at all! It's been 4 days since we DTD, and it looks like I probably ovulated yesterday. It's been a weird month. I've been nauseated a lot and irritable. I've had much less CM than usual too...so my chart will mostly be going by temps. If O is confirmed yesterday, I'm still in with a chance, but not the best chance.

Soanxious - I'm so sorry for your loss and your worry. I hope this is your rainbow baby! We all know exactly how you feel. I know it's hard to do anything but worry, but like Fiona and Jo said, you must try to take care of yourself. I hope you get wonderful news from the doctor. Do you know when you ovulated? Did you test for the first time today?

 

[Soanxious]

Yes Garf is right. Look after yourself and try not to worry. Easier said than done, right!!

Eat little and often. Like I said take another test to see if line is darker. Early days. Do you keep track of when you ovulate? Sorry I cant read prev message as on my phone, when was AF due?

I keep track with a phone app, I had AF dec 17th and was due last Saturday 11th im going to test again on Wednesday as I am going a bit OTT on testing, I done 4 all the same.

 

[Left wonderin]

Well ladies my final week in work the girls in work had a lovely lunch for me today and made me this fab cake

 

[Soanxious]

Well ladies my final week in work the girls in work had a lovely lunch for me today and made me this fab cake

Thats lovely.. nice to be spoilt.

 

[josie1234]

Regina - that's lovely, what a nice cake. Bet you are glad to be finished eh? Time to rest.

Soan - I hope time goes quick for you and you get a nice big thick line. I am not sure on meat-free options when feeling sick, do you eat scrambled eggs, could have them on toast, not too heavy to eat. ginger biscuits, sips of water.

Lisa - thanks for your stalking. Do you think so? I do not have a clue. Trying not to POAS as sick of the BFNs!!! Driving me crazy. I have got my 2 superdrug preg tests in the drawer. Might see if I can hold on. I was sort of thinking I may have ov on CD 32, just from the temps really, which would be put me on 10 DPO. Hopefully you are right and I will get a BFP very soon, lol! How's Caitlin today?

Crystal - not sure what to make of your chart but FX you are still in with a chance hun.

Fi - temps still up, looking good. We are due another BFP.

AFM - DH went back today as he has a training day tomorrow (grrr) before his night shifts start. So had less time at home this time. So won't see him until Sunday morning now. I am now CD 42 today. Hmmm, how long is this cycle going to be? Like I said, I don't mind if it ends in a BFP but seriously if AF comes after a long cycle again, I will not be happy lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Have you got any symptoms Jo?? xxx.