TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

I am worn out just looking at Beck's chart.

Yep looking forward to seeing temps tomorrow. Good luck to us all.

How do I get chart to show on signature? Got the link but want the chart.
Cd 44 tomorrow.

 

[crysshae]

Lol!

When you click "get code", copy the "chart thumbnail" option.

 

[dancareoi]

Since Caitlin has been born we have DTD only once! By the time they're all in bed I'm too tired to do anything.

TBH at the moment I've lost all interest too. I'm putting it down to hormones as still BF and no AF so they're probably all over the place still.

Over the last week Caitlin has started waking in the night again. She thinks its funny and starts smiling whilst I'm trying to feed!

I need sleeeeeppppppp!

 

[dancareoi]

Becks, definite OV yesterday for you, high chance of bfp too!

Jo and Fiona, stalking your charts, waiting for those temps

 

[Oasis717]

I dunno Lisa I think my thermometer has gone ka put! It read 97.86 then because it gave me different readings yesterday I repeated it and it gave me 5 different readings the last being 97.2 so who knows what my temp is today soooo v annoying, have ordered another but I'm stuck with this one til then! Xxx

 

[garfie]

Another bfn and a temp drop does
Any one believe in signs look what was on my front door this morning - a feather

 

[Oasis717]

Ah Fi I am sorry hunni, it could well be a sign I do believe in such things even just to let you know you have support from those lost xxx x

 

[Soanxious]

Another bfn and a temp drop does
Any one believe in signs look what was on my front door this morning - a feather

Sorry to hear that my test is not getting darker as wished.. still a line but not dark. Think mine has gone x

 

[Left wonderin]

I believe in signs ! This time round I found a white feather on my pillow the last month I got my AF before my BFP . I was devastated that month but not usually being one for signs this feather immediately took on meaning for me , I kept it and still have it . It will make up part of the memory box for this LO . I took it as a sign from my LO not to give up hope and low and behold next month I got BFP . I then found two more feathers in random places throughout the month xxxxxxxxx

 

[garfie]

Oasis - That's nice to know found out yesterday the woman (on another thread) we got our BFPs together (I lost mine) gave birth to a girl yesterday - maybe this was my angel saying hi

I suppose it could have been there yesterday and I never noticed



X

 

[Soanxious]

Oasis - That's nice to know found out yesterday the woman (on another thread) we got our BFPs together (I lost mine) gave birth to a girl yesterday - maybe this was my angel saying hi



I suppose it could have been there yesterday and I never noticed



X

Awww Filling up xx

 

[Oasis717]

Hmm maybe my thermometer is not broken I've googled it and apparently you take just the first temp and disregard the rest as your temp starts to fluctuate even by breathing! I've just got the same temp twice now so I don't know, v confusing but hoping the first temp I got was the real deal as ovulation would have been yest then xx

 

[Oasis717]

Yes Fii really do believe that sending you lots of love hunnix.
So anxious I'm so sorry that lines not darkening up for you, have you considered asking the docs for a blood test? Xxx

 

[garfie]

So - I agree with Becks can you not get your HCG tested hun - also was the test from the same batch (every test has different concentrations of dye some have more than others) is it the same sensitivity?

Finally is it FMU? - remember hun it's still early days.



x

 

[garfie]

Left - I remember you saying something about this in the dark distant past - right I'm off to get my feather off the door and put it in the box with all my pregnancy tests (sad I know but I've kept every single one of them)

One day I will have to get rid of them - as they won't be an heirloom my boys would want to keep



X

 

[Soanxious]

Yes Fii really do believe that sending you lots of love hunnix.
So anxious I'm so sorry that lines not darkening up for you, have you considered asking the docs for a blood test? Xxx

In the UK they don't do out bloods here, we take a test if positive and stays that way we get to see a midwife around 8-12 weeks and a 12 week scan.. Im worn out now x

 

[Soanxious]

So - I agree with Becks can you not get your HCG tested hun - also was the test from the same batch (every test has different concentrations of dye some have more than others) is it the same sensitivity?

Finally is it FMU? - remember hun it's still early days.



x

We don't get our bloods done here in Uk if we ask doctors for it they dont really bother they say just wait... not nice im seeing a Dr on Friday though. Im just really nervous because of my last MC in october and my boobs dont feel as heavy and tender

The tests are not from same batch but from same company (tesco) my test last Oct with same company was very dark

I just hope it is very early days and its a little bit slow on giving me more signs x

 

[Soanxious]

Left - I remember you saying something about this in the dark distant past - right I'm off to get my feather off the door and put it in the box with all my pregnancy tests (sad I know but I've kept every single one of them)

One day I will have to get rid of them - as they won't be an heirloom my boys would want to keep



X

I think your feather was a sign.. its lovely xx

 

[Oasis717]

So anxious I am uk and once I'd experienced losses my doctor was only too happy to test my blood for hcg and progesterone levels, it's not routine no but if you ask I'm sure under the circumstances your doctor would be happy to, he only has to fill out a form, I would ask if it were me xxx

 

[crysshae]

Fi - I'm sorry AF got you.

Becks - Hope that means your thermometer is working right.

Jo - How ya feeling?

So - I agree with the others. I would ask for blood tests too.