TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Those symptoms sound awful promising Becks, and that is an awful dark evap. How long did it take to come up?

 

[Oasis717]

Bout 8 mins but I've done like 7 since and two faint lines and 5 negs! Crap! Xxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Becks how did you do this morning for me stark white as per ! Mind you my days app saying iam only 5dpo ! So dont know why I feel disappointed gotta give my little eggy a chance lol hubby dropped a bomb shell last night I knew he wasnt going to be home to try in april ! Which was bad enough but now he cant do may either , to many men away for him to come home ffs not happy ! Didnt want to talk to him after that feel like the company he works for rule our lifes dont they know we are trying to have a baby selfish gits . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks if he is taking so long to get well maybe doc needs to see him? maybe he might have an inner ear infection or something with his cold virus? my Granddaughter did 2 weeks ago...they are horrible things, its awful seeing your kids so ill AS for the tests well Becks we are separated at birth I took 4 tests yesterday wasnt sure if I saw a very faint line too light for camera... then this morning I got this one and its similar to yours...

My symptoms are constipation - bit of a blurgh taste in mouth but my bbs are less painful. And I have acid in my tummy...
I've woken up after 6 hours wide awake now normally I like my sleep lol. its given me a headache FF is giving me 40pts today... dont know how much people look into them...

Has anyone ever suffered with Tinnitus? its been annoying me the past few days coming n going.. grrrr not sure if it's because I am sneezing from pollen but it wont stay away...

 

[Soanxious]

Bout 8 mins but I've done like 7 since and two faint lines and 5 negs! Crap! Xxxx

What are the likelihoods of false positives? xx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks how did you do this morning for me stark white as per ! Mind you my days app saying iam only 5dpo ! So dont know why I feel disappointed gotta give my little eggy a chance lol hubby dropped a bomb shell last night I knew he wasnt going to be home to try in april ! Which was bad enough but now he cant do may either , to many men away for him to come home ffs not happy ! Didnt want to talk to him after that feel like the company he works for rule our lifes dont they know we are trying to have a baby selfish gits . Xx

Oh Tilly that's so sad not allowing him home may either.. I feel sad for you xxx

And 5dpo wont show a pos ... hey... im sure you will get your positive and by the time he does get home you will be showing from your pregnancy with a little bump

 

[Oasis717]

He's only been bad 3 days really Tanya, I don't think it's anything other than the cold and cough and his teeth as he's ok during the day he just has the raging hump at night if he wakes up! We took him to docs a little while ago as he'd had his cough 2 weeks. Will def be taking him back if it carries on. that's positive to me!!! Xxxx
Tilly mine are stark white again this morn I'm getting fed up with these tests as I said I won't be buying anymore . Really sorry your dh won't be able to make it home got ttc xxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh and I've had a bit of tinnitus for years now. So annoying xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Oh I really do hope he is better soon... nasty viruses n teeth.. Meh! is the house finished now? are you back to normality?

As for these tests they are a nightmare, I will buy a shop cheapie tomorrow... wont buy an expensive one until after af. I thought having lots of ic tests would fix me but no LOL.

If mine is Pos then I will do same as last time.. and not tell OH straight away.. going to leave it a few days... will test again tomorrow. x

This tinnitus is annoying as it comes when I am tired.. and then thats all I am concentrating on lol. So last night I fell asleep with headphones in watching and listening to Sons of Anarchy to drown it out..

 

[josie1234]

Hi all

Sorry that time is going slow for those in the TWW. If only we could wait until AF is due eh?

Tilly - so sorry about your DH hun, big hugs. Fingers crossed you will have caught that egg this time. xx

Becks - hope Brooklyn is feeling better soon, bless him. FX'd for you too xx

Tanya - good temps. I am not sure about false positives. Time will tell hun but FX xxx

Crystal - how are you today?

Lisa- hi hun, good to hear from you, how are things with you?

Regina - how are you doing? Sean sleeping ok? Looking forward to more pics.

How is everyone else? DH came back home from his course yesterday he was in 24 man room with bunk beds lol. He has to do the second part of course next weekend. He goes back to work this Tues.

 

[Soanxious]

Jo - It does my head in some days with my OH snoring and I wear wax ear plugs so I can't imagine what it was like to sleep in a room with all those men... did he manage sleep? EEK!

Fingers crossed for you getting a better cycle this time will you be having acupuncture this month? I forgot..are you on Angus Castus? I forget who is on what.

AS for my chart this is my first ever one so not sure what mine will and should look like.. wish I had started doing them sooner they are interesting..I like looking at others

 

[Soanxious]

Tilly have you thought about joining FF and doing a chart?

 

[garfie]

Wow ladies I step out and do things with the kids for the weekends and I come back to all these ICs

I want to say they all look positive to me - BUT I have also been fooled with these tests before - so my advice ladies guard your hearts for now. Keep testing but when that line gets darker - then test with a "posh" test for a deff confirmation.

Becks - Glad you are all getting back to normal - is the house ceiling done now, did you manage to clean up all the plaster

Tilly - A chart is a good idea and then we can all stalk

Tanya - Your temps are looking good hun - fingers crossed

Regina - Your pics of Sean are adorable - how's he doing?

Jo - Did I see she finally came let's hope you get a more normal cycle this month.

Lisa - How is Caitlin?

AFM - Not a lot to report - went to the Dr's Friday as this nasty cough/cold still hadn't gone - he asked me if I smoked and then gave me some anti biotics. Took the children go karting on Saturday then to the amusements and then we all had fish and chips Willz wittered all the way through the day - sometimes I wonder why I bother



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[Oasis717]

Hi Jo, hi Fi, we are still waiting for someone to come and fix all the finishing off which the plasterer bodge3d as he couldn't wait to finish and get home so just left it in a state, dh cleaned everything before I came home, took him 3 hours and we have to go through it all again when they fix the mistakes, then we can decorate, with all this stress and having to leave home when I was ovulating not surprised im out which im 99% sure I am, no more ics for me!!xxx

 

[tillyttc]

wouldn't know where to start with a chart help ! finally spoke to hubby this morning and has said he may be able to get home on the 7th of may for a week ! that will do me as iam due to ov any time from the 9th to 13th ! think he knew better than to mess with a woman on the ttc mission lol and throwing your toys out of the pram always helps along with a sulk and tears and the phase (you know you have to be here to get me pregnant it would help ) lol as to say I have to call him when he gets to work and we should know then . xx

 

[josie1234]

Hi all,

Yes don't think ICs are the best. Fi is right, just use them and then if you think you have a darker line then try a posh one.

At the moment I am only on Don Quai as ran out of everything else. Need to get some more.

Tilly - go on Fertility Friends and buy a basal thermometer and take your temps every morning before you get up and record on FF. Glad that your DH can get home, defo don't mess with a woman ttc. lol

Tanya - I may do acupuncture again. I rang up docs as I had booked a smear for this week so had to change it due to AF coming. I asked if I could get bloods done again so they have booked me in for tomorrow. I was surprised, thought they would say no, no don't bother you are beyond help lol. So, once I get the results I may email them to acupuncturist. Hope they have lowered, at least that would be something. We will see.

Becks - hope house gets sorted soon.

No, DH did not sleep lol. It is DH's birthday next month he will be 14,we are off to the Gadget Show live on the 11 April. Really looking forward to it.

 

[Soanxious]

Fi I know these ic tests are a nightmare.. personally I think I am not pregnant this month also.. 99% sure same as Becks, but in 1 way its a break from the early pregnancy symptoms I have had Jan and Feb, I was wondering if taking aspirin has done something different to my womb lining and thats the reason I didnt conceive...

Jo thats good they are doing more bloods, lets hope you have some positive results to show that acupuncture helps you.. Is the gadget show in Birmingham? I was going to take DS there too but he decided on new expensive trainers...

Becks I can't believe the numpties have left you in such a mess.. no wonder you have been stressed

Tilly the charting is great, it as all instructions on there and they email them to you plus everyone here will help you.. buy a basal thermometer I got mine on amazon as very expensive in chemists and before you even get out of bed and hopefully the same time every morning take your temp... then add it to your chart, it also asks you about symptoms CM medications etc and it builds a great graph.. I am still learning but getting to understand a bit more daily.. also its very addictive looking at others and stalking LOL... I sat at a few hundred yesterday evening and OH asked... what are you looking at.. I said peoples cycle charts... he said how is that interesting...I said you are not a woman ttc so have no idea how interesting they are... haha!

 

[Oasis717]

I have to agree I love charting and its so helpful to know exactly when and if you ovulate, also it gives you a heads up around af due date if temps are still high, taking temp every morning becomes second nature, we have decided that twice a day just isn't working for us! I know that sounds strange to everyone else but thats just how it is with us and each of the three times I have been pregnant in the last two years was a result of more than that so we have resolved to bd more around my o date next cycle, im just waiting for af now and hoping for a good lp again xxxx

 

[Sparkle125]

Hey Ladies!

I am still waiting for good news until proven otherwise!

Tanya - As far as aspirin goes, I have only heard good things. Low dose aspirin (81mg) is often prescribed to help with lining issues. Aspirin serves as a slight blood thinner which helps blood flow to the uterine lining and helps that lining to thicken nicely for successful implantation. I take it every day because of clotting disorders, and I was taking it when I got pregnant last time. I would keep taking it if I were you.

AFM - Today is the official start of my IVF cycle! I start my oral medication today and my injectable medication on Wednesday. I will go for blood work and to see the doctor on Saturday. I appreciate all of your support. We are all praying for lots of good quality eggs and a plush uterine lining measurement that will lead to a successful implantation!

 

[Soanxious]

Becks I bet your man thinks he has reached heaven when he met you and you both decided to have babies.. wow thats a lot of BD, with a young kids too what do you take to keep your energy up as you sound full of beans.. I want some of it!!!! Bottle it and sell your energy haha!

Sparkle I bet you are Soooo excited to be in your new IVF cycle I will keep fingers crossed n send positive vibes as I do for all the ladies... and as another thread mentioned..we all want SHBFP (Sticky Healthy BFP ) x