TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

I totally agree cd12! Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - Awww! Didn't take him long to say both.

Tanya - Yep. CD12 it is.

 

[Oasis717]

I know so that's daddy, mum mum and ish for fish he says now! Xxx

 

[dancareoi]

I was on a PAL thread last year and I stalk and post occasionally. Some sad news today and I am in tears.

One of the PARL ladies (6 mc and no children) had an emergency c-sect 2 days ago due to detached placenta at 27 weeks. Baby wasn't breathing for 20mins so they think he's brain damaged.

She's held him and changed his nappy, but she says they will probably be saying goodbye tomorrow.

I am praying for little Isaac Jacob.

Why is life so cruel?

 

[Soanxious]

Oh that is so sad.... will say a prayer for little Issac Jacob too x

 

[crysshae]

Sending prayers for him too.

 

[garfie]

Morning Ladies

to your friend Lisa - that must be awful - with Willz his brain damage didn't show until he was a bit older - I just couldn't imagine having to say goodbye - even with all the troubles we have/had

Sorry I didnt come straight back with my results - of course I've been googling like mad and from what I can see they are no better and no worse than they should be.

What do you ladies think?????

HCG - Below 1 (deff not pregnant)

FSH 13.7

LH 9.7

TSH 1.6

Estradiol 458 (4465)

From what I can understand I don't have PCOS - my reserve is diminishing and I don't have thyroid problems. Of course according to my dr - everything is normal!!!!! - hmmmm yep real normal not to have AF show after 57 days

Today is our village fete - so I will try and get back on later - maybe I should wear white trousers



X

 

[Soanxious]

Yeah white trousers always does it or a white dress...

well normal is good.. so can he not bring ov and af forward with meds???

Hope you have a good day at the fete




Hi everyone... hope all is well.. how are our pregnant ladies???

Lisa hope your friends baby will be ok.. miracles to happen

FF tried to put my ov date past another 2 days on the Wednesday.. I was like WTF I had Creamy and Sticky cm then so thats no way ov!!!! its because my temps were high from our mini heatwave here before ov.. so I had it to over ride it to Research.. and obviously that chose the correct day... so now im happy to have my crosshairs...

Im going to be testing July 3rd on OH birthday... 10 dpo

 

[josie1234]

Lisa - saying a prayer for little Isaac, yes life is so cruel, my heart really goes out to him and his family. So sad. Hope a miracle happens xx

Fi - At least your numbers are not high so that is good. But yes, still doesn't explain why cycle is so long, hopefully it is just for this cycle. I hope so. Is there anything you are doing/or taking meds that are different this time or maybe it might be stress, fingers crossed it is a one-off. Did the doctor give you any advice or will they be giving you something to take or seeing you again?

Tanya - at least you know your body eh? FF is sometimes confusing.

Becks - Brooklyn will soon be stringing a few words together lol. so cute.

AFM - busy day yesterday helping decorate new centre and moving equipment. It is a new gym opening up where I will be personal trainer but it won't have treadmills and that in, it is more functional training. I am so excited and it is starting to look good in there but still lots to do. Hopefully opening soon. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Realfit-conditioning-and-education-St-Neots/232048010161235

 

[Soanxious]

hi Jo glad things are progressing on the job front.. bet you cant wait to get started

yeah how can they expect me to make babies with creamy and sticky cm? DOH! its just the temps that threw them off... it was so hot here and the fan was on constantly.. but my temps were higher than normal plus I had a drink 2 nights before ov and then I got my temp drop as normal.

 

[Oasis717]

Lisa that's absolutely devasting I don't have enough words to say how sorry I am for them I just pray a miracle happens. I can't even begin to think what they must be going through. Life can indeed be so cruel xxxxx
Tanya so glad you got your crosshairs. 5 dpo already and here's me waitingto o once again! Xxx
Crystal how are you feeling? Xxx
Hi Fi I hope you get an end to your cycle soon xx
Jo how exciting so what type of training will it be? Boot camp? Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Fi - Glad your levels are good. Maybe your body is just sorting some things out.

Jo - Glad to hear the job is coming together.

Tanya - Hope you have a nice present for OH's birthday.

Becks - You're still early in the month. Good luck catching O this cycle.

I'm doing well. Had blood drawn yesterday so hopefully will get results Monday. Doc on vacation the 7th, so scan scheduled for the 10th.

 

[Left wonderin]

Lisa my heart sank as I read your post . I cannot imagine how awful it must be for that poor family . My thoughts are with them .

Garfie .... No are good but WHERE THE F@$# is she ??????????? Taking her sweet time !

Well she arrived here this am and will be gone in time for me to get my well overdue smear ! So no ttc for me this cycle until the results come back .
Jo you must be some fit women !! Can I ask do you excersise for " fun " yourself or is it all through your classes ?????? lol

 

[Soanxious]

Lisa that's absolutely devasting I don't have enough words to say how sorry I am for them I just pray a miracle happens. I can't even begin to think what they must be going through. Life can indeed be so cruel xxxxx
Tanya so glad you got your crosshairs. 5 dpo already and here's me waitingto o once again! Xxx
Crystal how are you feeling? Xxx
Hi Fi I hope you get an end to your cycle soon xx
Jo how exciting so what type of training will it be? Boot camp? Xxx

Yeah got my crosshairs after a fight

I know.. I seem to have avg 27/28 day cycles... so im shooting off from u as we were same CD few months back

Fi - Glad your levels are good. Maybe your body is just sorting some things out.

Jo - Glad to hear the job is coming together.

Tanya - Hope you have a nice present for OH's birthday.

Becks - You're still early in the month. Good luck catching O this cycle.

I'm doing well. Had blood drawn yesterday so hopefully will get results Monday. Doc on vacation the 7th, so scan scheduled for the 10th.

Well Hopefully will get a nice BFp but im 90% not stressing this cycle.. hard to believe I know.. but im not stressing.. not so far.. 5 days left to test.. then I wouldnt of tested only that I want to have a drink if we are on holiday.. but obviously wont if im preggers... bet your glad she is here.. to get smear and move on to BD

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal looking forward to your scan!! Xx I bet I have to wait ages to o but at least ive been on the pregnacare 2 months now xx
Tanya im excited for you xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks I have a funny feeling I wont be getting pregnant anymore... just a feeling I have... don't know if its because I didn't get pregnant last cycle.. but where as I always felt around 70% confident its now around 2% confident

Im ok though.. im learning to say to myself.. you cant do no more than your doing so what will be will be.

 

[dancareoi]

It's difficult to move on. I've had to try and am still trying to realise that is it for us, no more.

Still makes me sad to think Caitlin is my last baby. I look at all the stuff around us and think 'that's the last time ever that'll be used'

I look at pg women and wish it could be me! At the same time though I know we have to move on and be grateful and thankful for the 4 beautiful, fantastic kids we have.

I tend to forget about all the heartache we had and concentrate only on the good bits.

I do miss poas though, so will live it through you lovely ladies.

Have been checking to parl thread, but no news on Isaac Jacob.

This was my DS on Thursday after eating a chocolate cake in the car!



Didnt realise the mess be was making!

 

[Soanxious]

Oh lisa he looks gorgeous but at his hands....

My son would never do that.. he has massive OCD and when he was a baby if he had a bit of food on him he would scream till I changed him etc.. hahaha then when he was old enough he used to wipe EVERYTHING with wet wipes... all his toys.. everything before he played with it..

 

[Left wonderin]

Dance that's so funny !!!! I'd hate to see your car !

 

[Oasis717]

I know exactly how you feel Tanya until Brooklyn it was first time everytime, just one month and no problems then two months for my first lo lost in 2012, one month for the next lo lost 2012, two months for Brooklyn, 3 months for the pregnancy lost this year. It took two months for Brooklyn so don't loose hope xxxx