TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

That's definitely getting darker ........ I'm just about holding in my scream lol.... 3 days to go isn't that right you said 17 DPO ??? Lol........ Cramps are a good things

 

[garfie]

Becks - woohoo! Are you doing a super drug?



X

 

[josie1234]

Yes I see it!!

 

[tillyttc]

I see it too oh my iam hoping its a big fat ultra sticky one for you and your hubby . Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Becks , I've to go to work now so no testing when I'm gone lol...... Enjoy your day ladies chat later

 

[Left wonderin]

Oh meant to ask Jo , when you went to the doc re cycles etc did they tell you your cycles would be so long and AF infrequent ?

 

[Oasis717]

Lol no not til tonight Regina my fmu is terrible and yes need to get to 18 dpo, thank you xx
Thank you all ladies, they are def getting darker just hope they keep going that way, not getting a Superdrug I don't think Fi but will do a digi if I get to 5 weeks on Sunday xxx

 

[Alien73]

That line is def progressing Becks !!! Watching this space for today's update

Hope everyone else is doing great-waiting for some bump and baby pics

Afm, no news really, just waiting for the 6-something weeks mark for an early scan if I get that far (had a nice heartbeat at 5w6d with my missed miscarriage, but might wait a couple of days longer in order not to stress out if the sac is still empty). Might test with a digital some time this week to see if I get the elusive '3+', but at the same time I prefer not to stress too much...and those week indicators DO stress me out big time, lol.
Very dizzy and brain foggy yesterday, but feeling much better today.

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you yes those weeks indicators are notoriously temperamental! I had an early scan with Brooklyn at 7weeks 3 days, he looked like a little turtle, after 2 losses I cried my eyes out! I hope you get an early scan, I'll be asking for one too xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Regina

To be honest, I haven't been to the doctors again since they told me I was peri-menopausal as I felt really frustrated at the lack of support but this was all about me ttc (not about me being a hormonal psychopath lol). I felt like I was just put on the scrap heap because of my age and their attitude of 'there is no point referring you as you are perimenopausal'. So they haven't really said much about the periods. But this has been the longest cycle yet and I am quite emotional. Still no AF. Cramping has gone down a bit, sore boobs yesterday a bit. Just feel like a coiled spring, ready to explode.

 

[josie1234]

Hi Alien, yes it is hard trying to not to stress but each event is another step closer so try to take one day at a time. xx

 

[Oasis717]

Jo I'm so sorry I hope this cycle comes to an end for you very soon, its awful feeling so emotional isn't xxx
Hope everyone is OK, dh forgot my Asda tests when he went shopping! Lol. So I used my last Asda strip and the difference from yest is great I might stop testing at some point but I need to everyday ATM, I just need the reassurance of the darkening tests xxx

 

[tillyttc]

Fantastic line better than I ever got on those strips I loved the asda ones better the test line was always darker than the control in a few days bet you have a super line on the asda ones . Xxxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Becks that so cool !!! Still holding off with my " offical congratulation " Hehehehehe its soooo hard though !!! I'm fit to burst !!!

Jo god it sounds terrible , and even more terrible how the doctors treated you . I'm not surprised you were upset would you not consider a visit to another GP/ doctor ? They are not all like that and maybe they could give you something to kick start AF if your feeling so bad . Sounds like your living in limbo not knowing what to expect and that's awful ttc or not

 

[josie1234]

Hi, yes I have been feeling really crappy, headaches, cramp, and I suppose I should go and see the doctor but don't like to. Feel like you pestering them over nothing, that's how I feel anyway. Fed up

Well, my sister is going through a tough time, her hubby has decided he doesn't love her any more and they have split up. Gutted for her. Hope she is going to be ok. She deserves better x

Drama over the road too - there was a stabbing there yesterday morning, loads of police and forensics. Then I was at my bootcamp and DS said that armed police had raided the house opposite to arrest someone. Not good. I have told him to keep the doors locked. Crazy. Yesterday my kitchen had a good clean so that I could nosy out of the window. Gutted I missed the armed police today.
https://www.huntspost.co.uk/news/man_stabbed_at_huntingdon_property_1_3930565

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies yes I tested with a normal ic today that I had come off eBay and what a pathetic pale line! Those ICS are crap, I'm really impressed with the Asda strips so think I will stick with those, a pound for 2 is great considering how good they are! Still no bloody symptoms! Xx
Jo your poor sister, she must be feeling so bad and you must for her to and a stabbing? How awful I really hope you feel better soon are you still taking the agnus castus? Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Becks a line is a line !!!! Might be a good idea to stick with the one brand though
Jo damm I'd be going mad too missing all that drama right outside my door !!
Gosh sorry to hear about your sister. Tough times ahead for her did she see it coming? Was it unexpected . She must be devastated . She will definetly need your sholder to cry on , maybe an excuse for a girly get away keep us posted on how she is doing. Also I wouldn't think you would be wasting any docs time ! And he he/ she think it or makes you feel that way change your doctor !!! If I were you I'd make an appointment and have more bloods done to see what's what xxx

 

[crysshae]

What a great line Becks!

Jo - I think you might be better off with a new doctor too. Hope your cycle gives you some relief soon. I'm so sorry about your sister. I hope she comes out of this better for it.

Our newest grandbaby arrived today. He's precious.

 

[Left wonderin]

Oh Cry congratulations you must be over the moon !!!! And so excited for your new arrival

 

[Oasis717]

Crystal what a beautiful pic how wonderful! I'm just going to stick with the Asda strips now I think, I just wanted to get a pos on the other Asda ones though just in case the strips were wrong, mad I know! Crystal I don't know what to do about the vitamins I was taking, 50mg b6, 15mg zinc and 500 vit c, on all of the bottles it says talk to you doc before taking during pregnancy so I don't know what to do now I've just been taking the prenatal xxxx