TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

I'm doing well. Still plenty of energy most of the time, although my sore pelvis and groin don't allow me to use that energy for long.

Excited he'll be here soon, but I always miss being pregnant too. Lol.

 

[Left wonderin]

Hello everyone and its so so lovely to meet you sj you kinda remind me of someone I once knew . Congratulations on the BFP so happy for you !! Hope you will stick around and keep us updates

Becks more progression !!! How many moe sleeps till I can say the " c" word ??? Lol....

I'm so happy for you ladies I just can't tell you how much . Now I can live vicariously through you , knicker watch to labor watch !! Yipeeeeeeee

 

[Left wonderin]

Those lines look great Becks !!

 

[josie1234]

Woo hoo hi T. This is getting so exciting. I am trying to contain myself but I could literally could leap about.

Thank you for the kind words for my sister. Also slightly worried about the stabbing in street. I keep myself to myself and hopefully it's just the loonies between themselves. Hopefully get locked up.

I think I defo need to see doctor. Cramping gone. Woke up at 4 am with really bad stomach pains but think it was just wind ha ha. Sorry if tmi. Still no sign of AF. What is going on???

 

[dancareoi]

T lovely to hear from you.

Crystal your grand baby is gorgeous. Not long now xx

Becks and T, sending both of you lots and lots of sticky vibes.

 

[Oasis717]

I was the same, I stopped temping as you can see, I just marked the date of the "Bonk" out of habit more than anything, then a few days later I checked to see if I was to ov.. then forgot to do it and then a few days later after some tests it was higher again.. I gave up on it to a certain degree...

I made appointment as consultant said I should straight away as to take the aspirin 75mg once a day and 5mg folic acid as soon as I got a BFP and book in for a 6 week scan..

I have only told OH and yet again our secret.. but I only told him Sunday Evening. Im going wee by wee not week by week... dreading every twinge... my boobs are SO SORE!! and even though they dont "look" that much bigger they feel heavier if you know what I mean. And on fire on the sides and moving up to my armpits.

Because Im on meds my Dr said I needed to see them to discuss reduction, then booked me to get a call from a midwife, normally it's 8 weeks but they will contact me a bit earlier he said due to losses.

Personally im not thinking that far ahead but needed to book the time off..

I would try and pop along to superdrug for your last tests leading to Sunday then Becks.

that 15 DPO was well strange.. as my wee shot across the window(of the test not bathroom ) the positive result came up BEFORE the control line... never happened to me before..

Im not testing again...too scared. so take my hat off you you still testing. I really hope it is lots darker by then for you xx

Hope everyone else is well xx

Yes I might try to get a couple of Superdrug tests, with Brooklyn when my Superdrug test was dark as the control the Asda test was still only half as dark! At least I've seen good progression though but like you I'm not getting excited yet. I've woken up today and boobs are v tender to touch, also have a rotten cold I've still not even let myself believe I'm pregnant, despite the tests, not yet. Xxxxxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Yay for sore boobs and a cold! The things we wish for. Lol.

 

[Serenjay]

Hello everyone and its so so lovely to meet you sj you kinda remind me of someone I once knew . Congratulations on the BFP so happy for you !! Hope you will stick around and keep us updates

Becks more progression !!! How many moe sleeps till I can say the " c" word ??? Lol....

I'm so happy for you ladies I just can't tell you how much . Now I can live vicariously through you , knicker watch to labor watch !! Yipeeeeeeee

Thanks Regina im dreading every twinge and wee break..bet Becks is the same.. Hope you're doing ok xx

I'm doing well. Still plenty of energy most of the time, although my sore pelvis and groin don't allow me to use that energy for long.

Excited he'll be here soon, but I always miss being pregnant too. Lol.

I missed being pregnant the 1st shower after giving birth but so worth just looking at them...the tiny fingers and toes xx

Woo hoo hi T. This is getting so exciting. I am trying to contain myself but I could literally could leap about.

Thank you for the kind words for my sister. Also slightly worried about the stabbing in street. I keep myself to myself and hopefully it's just the loonies between themselves. Hopefully get locked up.

I think I defo need to see doctor. Cramping gone. Woke up at 4 am with really bad stomach pains but think it was just wind ha ha. Sorry if tmi. Still no sign of AF. What is going on???

It's exciting and scary!!

And what on earth has happened?? hope you're ok and your sister? I've been awake since 4.5am xx

T lovely to hear from you.

Crystal your grand baby is gorgeous. Not long now xx

Becks and T, sending both of you lots and lots of sticky vibes.

Takes her share of Sticky vibes and snuggles them lol thanks hun xx

Yes I might try to get a couple of Superdrug tests, with Brooklyn when my Superdrug test was dark as the control the Asda test was still only half as dark! At least I've seen good progression though but like you I'm not getting excited yet. I've woken up today and boobs are v tender to touch, also have a rotten cold I've still not even let myself believe I'm pregnant, despite the tests, not yet. Xxxxxxxx

I took the clearblue as it was left over from the trail, it's the first time ever I have had a positive result with them, Think I have 1 more left and 1 superdrug left but I am not touching them.. too scared.. I fell asleep not long after I left here last night and woke before 5am for no reason.. MAJOR ANXIETY!!

Still dreading wee times... hope your doing wellxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies xxx Well same here today T! I've been holding my wee for 5 hours to test but last two days its making me cramp if I hold it that long (had that with Brooklyn) so today's tests were with 3.5 hour hold and the Asda cheap strip was ever so slightly lighter and the Superdrug test (dh bought me 4 today) dunno if its dark enough for 17dpo, its no where near as dark as your 15dpo, I know I prob shouldn't compare cause I don't know for sure when I o. I'll be glad to stop testing on Sunday I hate all this obsessing but if I don't test I'll be imagining all sorts xxxxc

 

[Serenjay]

WOW thats a great line.. and for a 3 and half hour hold I think that is great.. try an evening or FMU with other tests... im keeping my fingers crossed xx

 

[Oasis717]

Yes I tested at 4.30 after 3.5 hour hold whereas I had been testing at 9pm after 5 hour hold but its just too much! My fmu is terrible. After Sunday no more testing else I'll get obsessed with it! Xx

 

[tillyttc]

Fab line oasis got great colour to it can't wait to see tomorrow's hehe . Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Tilly! Xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Becks that is a super line , v dark !!!! And your not even sure when you ov ,d they are most definetly getting darker for sure ........ Eeeeek can't contain my excitement


T, a + on a digital girl time to get to the doctors so so happy for you !!!

 

[Oasis717]

I did another Asda strip just now and it was darker than yest , the one at 4.30 was slightly lighter think I'll stick to testing in the eve! Thanks Regina xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Any pics ????

 

[josie1234]

Great line. Becks.

T - great news. The stabbing was in the house opposite. House got raided and guy arrested for attempted murder. Wish my OH lived at home and not away. My sister and her hubby have split up he said he didn't love her anymore. But update. ...They have been talking and he said he still loves her and misses her but she said she doesn't know what she wants. Think they will need to really make the effort if they want to sort it out. She said she wants time on her own.

I have left Realfit, the gym I was working at. Told them tonight and it was my last classes there. It was getting too much and more and more things were being added on and I just wasn't enjoying it. I was getting really stressed out. I think it's cos I also had other stuff on too. I have to finish the 6 sessions pt but that's it. Feel relief but sad to say bye to the customers and I got a few hugs. Don't think my hormones are helping either . Will ring doctors tomorrow.

 

[Left wonderin]

Jo make sure you do make appointment with doc tommrow . Go have a good chat with them , if they are not nice to you tell us and well go round and sort them out !!! Lol...
But seriously go I'm sure there will be something they can give you to make you feel better and maybe kick start AF .

I'm feeling blah about waiting ! Time is dragging !! AF also due in the next couple of days so guessing that's also alot got to do with me feeling sorry for myself lol.......

How many more sleeps for me Becks before I can say the "c" word ??

 

[Left wonderin]

Oh and Jo good decision about quitting if it wasn't making you happy . Life is too short !

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Regina I will. I did ring this afternoon but doctors are shut on weds afternoon. Will ring tomorrow. I know it is the right decision. Will try and find a venue to see if I can do pt and look at other options too as will need more money coming in. But thanks I will let you know if I need the bnb ladies to sort the doc out. Lol. No doubt I will cry!