TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Thanks love, I read that about Darkstar how wonderful, I think after so many losses its so hard to believe and I'm scared to hope case its bad news, this is the worst time I know my tests were good weren't they, keep telling myself that! Xxxx

 

[Moomaymisty]

Im really praying for you... I so cant wait to see a happy message monday and a scan piccie x

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi moon and welcome to this thread of lovely ladies its so nice meeting new people I think you will fit right in we are a bit sad here as one of our friends are banned hope she is doing ok .
We didn't get a great 12 week scan either , with us they were more concerned with getting measurements as Sean was measuring ahead . Mine was even worse than yours !!! Ill post it . So happy all is well with your lo welcome to the 2nd tri !!! Hope It feels real now its time to begin to enjoy xxxxxx

Becks I'm thinking little pink lol..... I'm sure everything will be just fine on Monday , those tests were really strong positives xxxxx

Here was my 12 week scan with Sean

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies I'm so so hoping for a good outcome Monday really can't come quickly enough now! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi all, how are you? Becks, I really hope that you manage to have a good weekend without too much worry and that Monday comes round quick with some good news. Remember, every pregnancy is different and your lines were good so try to keep positive (easier said than done I know).

That is awful about the scans, what a worry especially for new mums, you did right to complain. I am just curious whether this is T?? If it is a member new to the thread, welcome.

I feel so tired today, I have worked extra shifts in the gym this week. I am not used to it lol. I did contemplate maybe going for a full-time job in the gym but I am not sure if I could hack the hours. One thing is for sure, I certainly need some more money when I get back from Oz (the work I am doing is just not consistent enough as it is casual work and not guaranteed amount each week). But hey ho, I will worry about that when I get back lol.

I have so much to do to get organised for going away but I ended up falling asleep for over an hour on the settee. DS has gone to the cinema with his mates so he won't be in til late. OH back tomorrow.

What are your plans for the weekend? Regina I think that scan pic is ok, don't you? Bet Sean is so cute.

 

[Left wonderin]

Lol Jo I CAN'T see anything in it AT all !!! Nothing ! T was banned again so we heard . MOO is some one closely related to her if you get me lol...

 

[josie1234]

Yes I get you x

It is faint but yes I see.

 

[Moomaymisty]

Oh Regina why do these people aim at taking pics that we cant see or make out what they are when they only have to wiggle scan and see them clearly.. It seems so unreal being in 2nd Trimester.. im 14 weeks Monday!!! EEK!! I have a bump.. mixture of baby and constipation LOL

Hi Jo I dont know how you find all that energy... Im still so jealous of your trip to oz

We are getting Boy vibes with this baby.. OH thinks boy but I think he would love a daughter... as myself if I had a choice it would be a boy.. as girls are a nightmare as teens.. my son is lovely LOL. Plus I so love the name Harri.

 

[Left wonderin]

Misty lol.... Are you gonna share bump progression photos with us ? I know we have only just met so it might seem a bit rude of me to ask lol ...

 

[Moomaymisty]

Hahahaha.. I will take a pic tomorrow... think its mainly constipation!!! im so bunged up even after microlax.. if I get worse im off to hospital for a proper enema.

How is everyone? I went out and had a salad in Harvester last night.. OMG the heat attacked me and I was so weak.. first meal in weeks... was just a salad and breaded mushrooms.. and now im blocked... meh!

 

[InVivoVeritas]

Moo, I'm glad the scan went well even if the picture isn't the best I've ever seen. How's the sickness going?

Becks, just one more sleep -- hang in there! Are your symptoms getting any stronger?

Me, I got a BFP this morning (or this middle of the night), and I'm on the high before the real terror hits.

I had spotting and a BFN at 11dpo before this BFP at 13dpo, and I'm worried that my hCG numbers must be low. In my experience late BFPs never mean anything good.

Let the roller coaster begin.

 

[Left wonderin]

Exciting congratulations not bad news !!!! I'm guessing your bleeding was implantation and hcg not detectable till a few days after !!! Wahoooooo another BFP for our thread !! Is it only me, Jo and Garfie waiting now ?

 

[Left wonderin]

On that note cry and sparkle how are your LO doing ? Would love to hear an update

 

[InVivoVeritas]

Thanks Regina, I'm trying to feel positive but I know the next four weeks will be extremely stressful. I'll see my GP for progesterone tomorrow, but in the past that has masked a MMC, so no bleeding won't be any reassurance.

Are you still WTT or are you back on the TTC roller coaster?

 

[Left wonderin]

No WTT still , won't have any update on that position till after my next endo appoint,ent in may I'm living vicariously through you all lol

 

[Oasis717]

Moo, I'm glad the scan went well even if the picture isn't the best I've ever seen. How's the sickness going?

Becks, just one more sleep -- hang in there! Are your symptoms getting any stronger?

Me, I got a BFP this morning (or this middle of the night), and I'm on the high before the real terror hits.

I had spotting and a BFN at 11dpo before this BFP at 13dpo, and I'm worried that my hCG numbers must be low. In my experience late BFPs never mean anything good.

Let the roller coaster begin.

Thank you, my symptoms were much stronger yest but today back to normal except the moods, they are SO bad! Congrats on your bfp, I know only too well what the next few weeks will be like its so hard to stay positive but we must try! I'm so happy for youxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Invivo (Kim?) sending sticky dust your way.

Moo glad scan went well.

Becks, good sign there's no bleeding, must be the longest you've gone. 7 weeks today?
Thinking of you today and hoping you have a perfect scan. What time is it?

 

[InVivoVeritas]

Becks, thinking of you and your scan today. Really hoping that you see a strong heartbeat and an active little wiggler.

Thanks for the sticky thoughts, Lisa. I'm over my initial euphoria and deep in paranoia.

I picked up my progesterone today (not my usual GP so had to fight to get it), and my scan will be April 21st, when I'll be 7w1d. Hope I can stay sane that long!

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you. I literally thought I was going to have a panic attack waiting to go in its the worst feeling ever, I told her you won't see anything I'm just not ill enough but after the longest 10/20 secs waiting she said well there is something there look, turned the screen and there was the tiniest bean with a thumping heart. So shocked and overwhelmed and my worries have been replaced by others but for now all is OK. Measuring 6 and half weeks not 7 meaning o was around cd20 not 16 and I got that positive around 7dpo which is worrying me a bit as they're not early tests. Hope all is OK. She didn't say it wasnt just that crl was 7.4mm around 6.5 weeks not 7 xxxx

 

[InVivoVeritas]

So glad to hear it, Becks -- first milestone past and now you can move on to the next worry!