TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Becks - hope you enjoyed your movie and had a lazy day with not too much nausea.

Lisa - hope the heaving has gone. Had lots of snow here too but roads are ok at the moment.

Crazy - did you have a nice lazy day?

Garf - how's things going cycle bud? I had pos opk and ewcm today. Cramps and heartburn. Yesterday was worse, serious moods teary etc.

Left - how's things? How's everyone else. Hope you are all ok.

 

[josie1234]

Morning all, hope you are all ok. CD 7 - feeling quite nauseas today, don't know what's up with me with all these symptoms the last few days. Honestly, I am trying not to symptom spot and definitely not this early but feel really weird. What is going on?????

Not long til DH has to take sample in (Friday) and then the plan is to book an appointment with doctor once results are in. Don't know whether to book appointment before then to find out if there's anything I could be doing/taking before then. Haven't spoken to her since my results came in.

Hope you all have a good day xx

 

[dancareoi]

Morning all, hope you are all ok. CD 7 - feeling quite nauseas today, don't know what's up with me with all these symptoms the last few days. Honestly, I am trying not to symptom spot and definitely not this early but feel really weird. What is going on?????

Not long til DH has to take sample in (Friday) and then the plan is to book an appointment with doctor once results are in. Don't know whether to book appointment before then to find out if there's anything I could be doing/taking before then. Haven't spoken to her since my results came in.

Hope you all have a good day xx

Hi, does seem strange this month for you. If your temp hadn't gone down I'd think you were PG and the bleed was implantation.

I got positive OPK when I got positive HPT, it its your temp which says something different.

When did to last do HPT, is it worth doing one just to rule it out?

 

[dancareoi]

Aw when will it stop Lisa! I've been slightly better today, but nausea from dinner on again, boobs are literally killing today, they've hurt non stop since 4 weeks, they stopped hurting at 3 months with ds so hoping might be the same, had a lazy day today just doing housework etc, too cold to go out, just about to watch a horror film with dh, I love a good horror! Xxx

Slightly sicky again this morning.

Made the mistake of putting my progesterone pessary in before I started heaving. I then felt it slip out and had to push it back up again

 

[garfie]

Morning Ladies

Sorry I didn't manage to get on here much over the weekend 1) I loose the lappy to hubby 2) I loose my phone to son 3)one thing left for me - housework

Lisa - How are you feeling - more relaxed yet I can't wait until you tell your children mine would have guessed by now

Becks - Your symptoms are well strong lady - I can't believe you are already planning the next one

Crazymam - That's what Sundays are for lazing around

Left Wondering - If you run you will catch up to us - so is there just threee of us left ttc and all about the same in our cycle? - how weird is that

Josie - Morning hun - wow you are getting some strong symptoms - is that even possible this early? I had two weird things happen in one sitting I went from watery (so thought not yet) to EWCM with streaks of blood - so I guess the egg flew out but my temps have not reflected that yet

AFM - Just trying to keep busy until Wednesday when I have the FS appointment I am excited but also nervous as maybe he might say like the rest it's your age and just keep trying Hoping he has a miracle cure in his bag



X

 

[Left wonderin]

Garfie if he has will you pop one in your bag for me ?? Oh and the rest of us ttc on this thread ... I'm am in stitches with the image of your egg shooting out as if out of a cannon lol.......

Well today me cd 6 and time to poas ))) Opk here we go again oh and it's my third morning temping , keep waking up early to do it than even the alarm . Think I'm afraid ill miss it lol....

 

[josie1234]

Well I am just about to get ready for work but thought I would pop on here see how you all are. LMAO at the thought of the egg flying out. so funny. I've ordered some digi HPT so will test then. Left - are you doing your chart on fertility friend, if so, pop it on here so we can all have a look. Good luck for Weds Garf, hope it all goes ok and gives you some positive vibes.

Lisa - TMI lol. There's a lot of things falling out on here lol. Yeh, I know my temp doesn't seem to correspond and also having AF a day early too. Very confusing. Oh well, time will tell what is happening. Suppose I better get ready, take care everyone xx

 

[josie1234]

What's your thoughts?

 

[Oasis717]

That is very close Jo! For some strange reason my opks never went positive when I got pregnant, I did try! I know a lot of people's do, had a slightly better day nausea wise yest but still bad in the evening and had force something down, I find the best time to eat for me is the mornings when I actually want to eat well ladies it's the dreaded 11 plus 4 today, when I lost my little one last year, very mixed feelings today, so very sad for my angel, nervous but grateful for this little one, when I passed 11 weeks with no bleeding it helped as that's when I believe I started the mc last year, you never ever forget do you, or ever stop wishing it didn't happen, I still want my baby back every single day, I think I always will xxx

 

[garfie]

BIG becks I know exactly how you are feeling hun - just be kind to yourself today and try not to get to upset - I think about all 3 of mine all the time especially as all my friends FB statuses seem to be saying "on way to hospital" I do feel a bit sad but I know my day will come (I hope)

Does anyone here know about FSH and LH levels was looking up mine to help someone on another thread and at the time when mine were done I thought ooh at least I don't have PCOS but now on closer inspection the numbers are a bit to high

Josie - Time to BD again (for us both I think) my charts always up hun in my signature - let me know if you can see it



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[dancareoi]

Jo, Regina and Fiona

Becks, you are doing great this time, but I know how you feel, can't help but worry all the time.

At diabetic clinic again this afternoon, had a couple of high readings but not too bad overall.

I think we will always look back at our losses with sadness, but I look at it other way with the one I lost in July 09. After this I was PG again in the sept and my DS was born May 10.

If i had not had that loss, my wonderful little monkey would not be here today.

Yes I would have a child, but this bundle of joy we know and love today would not have been given the chance of life.

 

[Creative]

That is a lovely way of looking at it!

 

[dancareoi]

That is a lovely way of looking at it!

I find I helps.

'They' say everything happens for a reason. At the time we can't see it or understand it, but when we look back it all makes sense.

How are you doing? are we going to see a ticker yet?

 

[Creative]

Fine. I am just a bit on tenderhooks. I keep grinning like a cheshire cat at my little secret. We have decided to hold off a few weeks telling the children as even though they are 21, 19 and 13, they were really cut up last time it all went wrong. Not sure it will be possible to keep it from them as 13 year old is very sharp.
I've got some nausea and yesterday morning ended up vomiting at their music concert (in the loo's!) They are all off for the hols so will be having a very long migraine I think to try and keep them off the scent.
I can't believe it finally happened.

 

[dancareoi]

Fine. I am just a bit on tenderhooks. I keep grinning like a cheshire cat at my little secret. We have decided to hold off a few weeks telling the children as even though they are 21, 19 and 13, they were really cut up last time it all went wrong. Not sure it will be possible to keep it from them as 13 year old is very sharp.
I've got some nausea and yesterday morning ended up vomiting at their music concert (in the loo's!) They are all off for the hols so will be having a very long migraine I think to try and keep them off the scent.
I can't believe it finally happened.

We feel the same with our kids. When we lost our one in jan last year, we had told everyone, including the kids. So telling them what had happened was the worst thing we have ever done, the were 10 & 7 at the time, the youngest is too little to know what's going on.

We never ever want to put them through anything like that again, so are holding off as long as possible. Although we think our 8 year old DD suspects something!

Ours don't break up Until Thursday.

 

[Oasis717]

My 12 year old still doesn't know, or my son Casey 4 of course, Georgia (12) just thinks I've been run down lately and as I have something called fibromyalgia I've just said that is worse lately, but it's been hard sometimes when I've felt so ill! We're not telling either of them until 16 weeks but I think by then I'll have to hide my belly lol. I'm still not at that place of acceptance yet with my mc last year at 11 weeks, I hope to be someday, but it feels so raw still, and the trauma of how horrific the actual loss was is still with me. They told me on the ward they see many mc there but mine was one of the worst, I'm still not over how it happened, let alone the fact it happened at all, that is a lovely way to look at it Lisa, I hope someday to be able to do the same xxxxx

 

[crazymam]

I couldn't face work today, was up four times last night to pee, woke this morning and was so tired I felt sick. had breakfast, seen kids off to school and went back to bed and slept for another two hours! Still feeling sick and feel like my boobs are exploding already! I have an docs apt today , think I may just have to accept that I am going to have stay on sick until I get some energy back.
My main concern is last time I was as wiped out as this I was carrying twins

As for miscarriages, you never forget. I had my first when I was only 27, then went on to have a beautiful little girl. I still have a twinge of sadness come the time the baby would have been born but as Lisa pointed out I wouldn't have had my beautiful daughter if I hadn't miscarried.
Everything happens for a reason and you have to tell yourself that to get through the difficult times.

I really feel like being sick today though, closest I have ever come in any pregnancy , really fancy some toast and jam too ...x

 

[Creative]

I've had sickness with all of mine except the last one. I am relieved to be experienceing it this time as iit feels more positive.

 

[josie1234]

Becks - hope you are ok today, thinking of you. No, you never forget. I am hoping I am in your situation by June when I lost my LO, having a little turtle to nurture. Is that what Lisa called it, I can't remember. After the heartache, it is nice to know that there is hope.

Garf - what were your numbers? My LH was 8.2 and FSH 33.1. This is when the doctor said I wasn't ovulating? But then prog test said I was. Yes, always BD anyway lol. Doctor said to try to relax, not even think about when ov, just bd every other day, try to take the stress away. But no, still testing lol. I can see your chart hun.

 

[josie1234]

Lisa - lovely way at looking at it, trying not to look at what has happened with sadness. Still have times when I cry just talking about what has happened. Things will never be the same and I never thought I would be happy or back to my normal self after it happened but this thread shows there is hope. I cried my eyes out telling my DS what had happened so I understand why you are waiting.

Crazy - you must need the rest hun. Maybe its twins again???

Creative - hope you are keeping ok and the nausea is reassuring in a mad sort of way.

For anyone I've missed, good luck. Having to keep going back and forward pages to comment on what people have put, lol. Off to do some housework, catch you all later xx