TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies, got it strapped up and it doesn't hurt so much, it's gone purple and black, at least I'm colourful! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Becks hope it doesnt stop you getting about.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo, I'm not too bad til putting my shoes on! Never mind xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Slippers !!!

 

[garfie]

Left - I have my fingers crossed for you hun

Becks - So sorry that must be so painful right now

AFM

I HATE HATE HATE my defective body I am so upset and angry right now and waiting for a phone call back from the recurrent m/c centre

It turns out that the defective test (or so I thought at 9DPO) was not a reject I just probably didn't have enough hormones because on 11DPO got a lovely positive no squinting necessary

My plan was to give it the weekend and then go in and have HCG level drawn and again on Wednesday and then tell hubby.

It didn't go according to plan - I went to bed on Saturday evening and woke up with strong cramping (thought this is okay just baby snuggling in) how fckn wrong was I - got up to use the loo (spotting) ok this happens more cramping throughout the night flow got heavier the rest is history as the say

So it seems I can get pregnant (well every 5 months) but holding on no chance

The saddest thing of all - having to tell hubby it was all over again - he saw the test and told me to contact Sheffield today and see what they suggest so now I'm waiting

I will try and do personals later

 

[Creative]

Left - I have my fingers crossed for you hun

Becks - So sorry that must be so painful right now

AFM

I HATE HATE HATE my defective body I am so upset and angry right now and waiting for a phone call back from the recurrent m/c centre

It turns out that the defective test (or so I thought at 9DPO) was not a reject I just probably didn't have enough hormones because on 11DPO got a lovely positive no squinting necessary

My plan was to give it the weekend and then go in and have HCG level drawn and again on Wednesday and then tell hubby.

It didn't go according to plan - I went to bed on Saturday evening and woke up with strong cramping (thought this is okay just baby snuggling in) how fckn wrong was I - got up to use the loo (spotting) ok this happens more cramping throughout the night flow got heavier the rest is history as the say

So it seems I can get pregnant (well every 5 months) but holding on no chance

The saddest thing of all - having to tell hubby it was all over again - he saw the test and told me to contact Sheffield today and see what they suggest so now I'm waiting

I will try and do personals later

Garfie, That is really sad news. I do hope that the hospital will be able to help you and give you the answers.

 

[dancareoi]

Left - I have my fingers crossed for you hun

Becks - So sorry that must be so painful right now

AFM

I HATE HATE HATE my defective body I am so upset and angry right now and waiting for a phone call back from the recurrent m/c centre

It turns out that the defective test (or so I thought at 9DPO) was not a reject I just probably didn't have enough hormones because on 11DPO got a lovely positive no squinting necessary

My plan was to give it the weekend and then go in and have HCG level drawn and again on Wednesday and then tell hubby.

It didn't go according to plan - I went to bed on Saturday evening and woke up with strong cramping (thought this is okay just baby snuggling in) how fckn wrong was I - got up to use the loo (spotting) ok this happens more cramping throughout the night flow got heavier the rest is history as the say

So it seems I can get pregnant (well every 5 months) but holding on no chance

The saddest thing of all - having to tell hubby it was all over again - he saw the test and told me to contact Sheffield today and see what they suggest so now I'm waiting

I will try and do personals later

So sorry Fiona. Hopefully hospital can give you some answers and help you

 

[crazymam]

Garfie so sorry for you
Fingers crossed the hospital can do some tests now though and hopefully give you some answers and more importantly some help to make them stick. At least you know you can get pregnant, so guess you are half way there, stay positive xx

 

[josie1234]

Left - still keeping my fingers crossed. Good to see temps still staying up.

Garf - thats rubbish hun. Really feel for you. Hopefully things will start moving forwards for you and can get help for a healthy pregnancy. At least you know you can get pregnant. You will get there hunny xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Fiona. I was tested for uNK killer cells. These are something in he womb that attack the fetus. If you test positive they can treat with steroids. Could you ask your howl to test for this. I was under a special clinic and it couldn't be done on NHS. Worth trying everything.

 

[Left wonderin]

Dance I've heard of them , isn't it like a over advanced immune system that see the implanted egg as a foreign body ? Fiona as I said in the other thread I'm thinking of you , it's not fair I'm sure you are fed up and so sad . We are all here for you so you don't have to go through this all on your own . ( at least in cyberspace ! )

AFM : 13 DPO .... Felt a little queasy this evening but not counting my chickens could just be AF gearing up to show her ugly face ! 2 days to testing unless AF arrives tommrow . I have one cb digital test left and have decided when I use it , it will be for my BFP

 

[dancareoi]

Morning all.

Becks, how is your toe now?

Jo, have you started opk yet?

Regina, what is your usual LP?

Fiona how are you doing?

Crazy and creative, hope you are both feeling bad! Meant in the nicest way!

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Lisa, hope you're ok, it's not too bad as long as I don't touch it at all! Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Dance good question , before mc it was 28 - 29 days , since mc have had 32, 23, and 29 day cycle . So hoping it back to 28-29 days . That's why not testing till tommrow . Temp dropped slightly this am still testing in the am if no show today

 

[Oasis717]

That's only a tiny drop How much later did you take your temp than normal Regina xxx

 

[Creative]

I've had another awful night. I keep being sick all night every night as well as all day every day.
The only thing that I "can" eat at the moment is salad cream, pickles and celery! and I can't get enough of them. When I panick that my wee is pink, can you remind me that I've eaten two whole jars of beetroot in the last few days!

 

[Oasis717]

Lol oh dear pink wee!! How funny, I'm so sorry you're feeling so bad, apart from the odd few nauseous days I'm ok now and I never want to go back! Mine got so bad at 7 plus 4, really hoping it passes soon for you, I also went off literally so many foods it was crazy, there were only a few foods I could stomach, I've got my appetite back now and find myself really hungry, I've also put on two lbs which I think from the beginning until nearly 16 weeks is really good! Xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Dance good question , before mc it was 28 - 29 days , since mc have had 32, 23, and 29 day cycle . So hoping it back to 28-29 days . That's why not testing till tommrow . Temp dropped slightly this am still testing in the am if no show today

Regina, your cycle length can alter month to month as your day of OV can alter each month. However your LP stays the same each month and doesnt alter.

Therefore if your cycle length changes this is due to change in OV.

The LP is from the day after OV to the day before AF starts. Mine was 10 days which is a little on the short side, with vitamin and B6 and acupuncture I got it to 11.

We`ll keep checking your chart and waiting for updates with interest!

Creative - glad you are so ill

 

[josie1234]

Hi Lisa - how's things with you? I started opk today, thought I only had one digi left so used that and ordered some more LH strips. Found some more digi ones anyway so all good for later. Opk neg today. Hoping my LP is longer this month taking B6, bit strange how it was 11 days last month.

Creative - hope you get your appetite back soon hun and your wee goes back to normal lol.

Left - its only a slight drop and it is still up there so really keeping my fingers crossed for you and sending positive cyber vibes xx

Garf - hope you are ok hunny xxx

Crazy - how are things with you hun?

 

[crazymam]

I still feel sick as a dog, I am getting up at least 3 times a night for toilet if not more, have a thirst that wont go too.
Had traces of sugar in my urine yesterday so was sent to day for blood tests. I have also put on about 5 pounds already, all seems to be bump though.
had a scare with the twins when they thought I had diabetes but I was just passing sugar in my urine apparently, but they are concerned about my constant thirst this time, and the constant need to pee!
Also still very tired, have no energy still