TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

So - did you get a phonecall back. Big hugs xxxxx

 

[Sparkle125]

Hey Ladies!

I am back from Vegas and trying to catch up on everyone. I managed to have more fun than I thought I would. I saw Blue Man Group and Britney Spears and won $125 playing Black Jack. Not a bad trip!

I really hope every one is doing well. I'm sorry to see that there have been some disappointments over the past week. I feel for each of you and hope for better news next month.

AFM: AF came early, so I have an appointment tomorrow (Sunday) with my doctor to check and see if the cyst is gone. I am so hoping for good news. I don't really know what to expect since most often I have not received good news at these appointments. If it is gone, I will be able to start my IVF cycle. I am so ready to start this cycle. This will be the last cycle using my own eggs. Crossing my fingers and toes!

 

[tillyttc]

morning ladies ! started spotting this morning and have never been so happy to see her , so relieved my body has gone back to what it should be doing , roll on ov and hubby being home the poor sod wont know whats hit him lol !
Tanya hope your ok plz let us know how your getting on all praying that its good news and you have that sticky one this time ! sending you all the baby dust in the world hun . xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Great news Tilly! Hopefully now your dh will be coming back right on time xxx
Yes Tanya hope you're ok hunni xxx. Haven't stopped thinking about Regina!! Xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Hi Tilly, Thanks... its just so upsetting, as for you thats great news x

No Josie, i've not had a call back yet I will ring them back now. x

Yeah Becks I hope Regina is ok, maybe too loved up with baby to pop on

AFM I have had an awful night the pain was unbearable, i've been drugged up on painkillers and passing large clots. Im telling my OH about how many women here are still managing to have babies so there is hope .. hugs to you all xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

The pain is awful Tanya you think so much about the emotional pain we sometimes forget how bad the physical pain. Both my losses in 2012 were terribly, terribly painful I'm so very sorry you are having to go through this. The doctor gave me stronger painkilling medicine, it was a Sunday and I rang the emergency docs and they faxed a prescription through to our local Asda. It was such a relief. I'm so hoping it eases for you soon. Xxxxxxxxx

 

[josie1234]

I hope the pain eases off soon Tanya, can you get stronger painkillers hun.

Tilly - that's great, bet you can't wait to see DH.

Hope Regina is ok and looking forward to the pics.

AFM - not good. Me and DH had a big argument about lots of things, mainly about the fact he had gone out and I am sat on my own. He went out 3-11 so obviously I was sat stewing about it all night. He came back in and I had a right rant at him. I said I was sick of it all and wanted a break. He said he nothing to say so went and slept in spare bed. I went to do my classes this morning and he has gone (he is on days tomorrow so was going back today anyway). No note, no text, nothing.

 

[Oasis717]

Oh Jo, you must be so upset, I'm so sorry, there's a lot of pressure ttc and sometimes it just gets too much. I really hope you sort it out, I'm sure he'll be in touch v soon. Xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks a lot Becks, your post meant a lot to me. Yes. But the thing is, I have been so fed up with everything, it has all built up. My hormones are all over the place so I am moody and depressed. Him going out was the last straw and I basically said I wanted a break. And you know how it is, he won't text and I won't text so we will just have to see.

 

[crysshae]

Tanya - I hope you can get some pain relief very soon. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

Jo - I hope y'all are able to sort things soon. Hormones and stress can be the worst combination, and this cycle has definitely not helped you with that. I hope DH understands that and you will hear from him soon.

Tilly - Yay for AF being on time! Good luck!

Sparkle - Fingers crossed the cyst is gone.

AFM - AF showed this morning, so onto the next cycle.

 

[garfie]

Jo - BIG hun - I'm sure everything will work out - he has gone off to his cave to sulk I don't think people realise how much TTC puts a strain on your relationship (I do if it helps) look at us a New Year and we came through stronger - so I am sure you will to hun

AFM - The acu I think helped with the best night sleep in a long long long time still woke up with this cold - it's got a hold alright

Will try and catch up properly with all you ladies tomorrow as having a little rest, doing dinner and then hopefully taking the boys to see Lego Movie (they haven't really done anything half term - first nana let them down then their dad) so once again it falls on us to deal with the fallout



X

 

[Oasis717]

Hope you feel better soon Fi, glad to hear the acu helped! Enjoy the film if you go xxxx

 

[Sparkle125]

Jo - Big to you. TTC is such a roller coaster of emotions. Married or single, it is full of highs and lows and takes a lot of strength to move forward.

Fi: So glad you enjoyed the acupuncture! I love it! It is so relaxing and I believe has helped me a lot in this process.

Tanya: I hope you feel better soon. So sorry for your emotional and physical pain.

Tilly: Yay for AF! Here's to a good cycle for you!

Crystal: Here's to a good cycle for you!

AFM: I went to the doctor this morning and the cyst is still there. I am filled with so many emotions right now, but mostly I am mad. I have been put on hold for one reason or another since November. I have received bad news after bad news and it is so hard to remain hopeful. This SUCKS! This whole TTC process is relentless. We have all been through enough already. I am so ready for some good news. I am so tired of all the pain and disappointment. My doctor is consulting with another one of my doctors and I will know more tomorrow about how we are going to proceed. Basically, we have to wait until this cyst goes away on its own. Depending on the plan, it will be anywhere between 2-4 weeks before I can do anything. ARGH!

 

[Oasis717]

So sorry Sparkle, it's a long time when all you want to do is get things going. Really hope it's sooner rather than later xxxxx

 

[tillyttc]

hi sparkle that sucks its not fair iam demanding that making babies should be made easier ! wishing you all the luck in the world that you get good news soon and can get on that baby making train . xxx

 

[tillyttc]

well iam cd1 today as yesterday nothing really happened have spoken to the hubs and hes primed and ready for take off lol and ov kit is at the ready, not sure how to play it really was thinking of bding every other day while hes home any thoughts on this ? xx

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Tilly, I know Lisa (Dan) conceived using that method, for me and dh more seems to be more effective! So we will be doing that this month. I just took a test to measure fsh levels and it was negative so that's good news. Hurry up ovulation for us all! Xxxx
Crystal I'm sorry af got you onwards and upwards though and I'm just in front of you and Tilly in cd! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Fi - thank you. Yes they do like to sulk. Because I said I wanted him to leave and have a break, off he went. They don't fight for it do they. We have been texting today (only because I text first I think but he did say he was giving me time and then was going to text) and going to speak tonight.

I have booked to see the acupuncturist on Thursday. I am excited and nervous about it. Hopefully it will help. FF has taken out my cross hairs with this mornings temp. Will this cycle ever end.

Tilly - good luck with this cycle hun, bet DH is looking forward to getting home lol. I have heard every other day BD but to be honest if it was me I would just go for it. Can't keep up with Becks' activities, we joke on how it wears us out just looking at her chart.

Hi Sparkle, yes you are right, emotions are all over the place and you definitely do have to be strong. I am glad that acupuncture has helped you. How many sessions did you have? Fingers crossed your cyst goes soon hun, it is so frustrating having to wait. Have you heard anything today about how to proceed from the doctors? I really hope you get some good news soon. It's hard to stay positive but we can't lose hope. Big hugs xxx

Tanya - hope you are doing ok and the pain is easing off. Big hugs hun xxx

 

[josie1234]

Just reading up on previous pages

Sparkle - Vegas sounds fab, how long did you go for? Nice to get away from it all eh?

Becks - how is Brooklyn doing?

Lisa - how's the little porridge princess doing? Is Caitlin trying anything else or just loving the porridge? Are you still in Wales?

Crystal - sorry to see that AF is here. Hope you are ok. Thanks for your comments, yes hormones and stress are not a great combination. Hoping that the acupuncture helps me. Fingers crossed for you for this cycle. We are due another BFP, eh?

Hey Regina - hope you are ok?

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Jo, Brooklyn still has his cough it seems to go on and on but the doc assured me it will take up to 5 weeks to go. Other than that he gets bigger everyday and can now roll over, sitting up on his own for a few seconds also now I really hope this cycle comes to an end for you soon. I'm loving the ap sticking to it 100% just done an hours fast walking and hill walking, I've got 1500 calories a day but come in around 1250 every day it's the longest I've lasted on a diet for ages!! Xxx