TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Soanxious]

Oh thats new for you? Im Not sure, I only get a brown tinge when I get implantation, its normally a brown streak once maybe twice at most.

Yeah I just feel odd... like I wouldn't get behind the wheel of the car now.. as I feel floaty... maybe a virus or my hormones dropping... and I feel Blurgh!

 

[josie1234]

Yes different for me. Really crampy. Very odd.

Hope you sleep ok and feel refreshed tomorrow. Going to try to sleep. Will look for your update tomorrow. Sleep tight x

 

[Soanxious]

Oh... lets hope its something positive Jo x

Goodnight chat tomorrow....

 

[Sparkle125]

Jo -- Thinking of you tonight. So sorry that the news wasn't what you hoped for. Hope you are doing ok.

Hope everyone else is doing ok.

AFM -- I started my injections yesterday. I take one in the morning and 3 in the evening. They are going fine. I am happy to say that mood is fine too. I am really trying to take it one day at a time. I am listening to a guided meditation that is specific for IVF too. It is broken down into specific days. The funny thing is that I *was* listening to it at night before I went to sleep, but last night I kept falling asleep in the middle of it! It is very relaxing, but I kept waking up and having to rewind to see what I missed. I literally fell asleep 3 times in the 15 minutes of the meditation. Tonight I switched my time and listened to it after I gave my evening injections. Guess I know what to listen to in the future if I am having trouble falling asleep! Tomorrow I will weigh in to check on my weight loss. Saturday I will go to the doctor to see what is cooking in my ovaries! We'll see! Check in soon!

 

[tillyttc]

morning ladies, well being the silly woman that I am I caved this morning though well you have been good so treat your self lol wish I hadn't ! I have a line its faint not a squinter but faint ! iam not calling it bfp cause I aint really sure will try and hold my pee for at least 4 hours may prove hard but will try ! I can see it at arms lengh but scared that its a shadow lol but keep you all updated when I know oh yes and bb are abit sore but that is quite normal for me about this time eeeek . xx

 

[tillyttc]

Ok waited three hour been up since 4 ? Done another line is stronger its on a asdas 4 days before period due one ! Iam at 9dpo just five days to go ! Cm had gone like a stringy white stuff tmi sorry . Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Tilly that's fantastic im so excited for you xxxxx

 

[tillyttc]

No point doing a digi as its to early but I so want to ! Lol gonna test again at about 10 am just to see if its still there lol . Xx

 

[Oasis717]

I dont blame you! I would tooxxxxx according to Countdowntopregnancy if I conceive this cycle my due date will be 25th Dec lol xxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Ok held it as long as I could but had to go mmmmmmm barely visible wth ? X

 

[Soanxious]

I told you Tilly... and that other stuff your seeing is normal too.. YAY!! congratulations hunny woo hoo!!!!!!

 

[Soanxious]

Glad you figured out a good time to listen to it all sparkle, sounds complicated with medications but all worth it for a Sticky Bean xx

Digital tests pick up a few days AFTER normal tests Tilly, you are pregnant.. Enjoy it.. test with a digi after weekend Does DH know yet???

Im about to bleed too Becks, i've got intense pain thats making me vomit and brown discharge when I woke, so in a few hours I will bleed.. so I will be a day behind you.. funny thing is... My Eldest daughter was born Dec 27th hahaha!!! I would love to be pregnant this month of all months and have the baby around Christmas and that would be the greatest Christmas gift ever to give my OH plus I would get pampered more than me having to do all the pampering around Christmas haha! so good luck to us all this cycle Becks I would really love a few of us to all be pregnant the same time and its great having TWW with new friends

I am upset obviously that I am not pregnant this month but having got pregnant Jan and Feb im thinking maybe my body needed to take a break and prepare the lining of my womb ready for my sticky bean next month... I have now added evening primrose oil today to my meds so in total taking
Baby aspirin - evening primrose oil - Omega 3 - Prenatal Vitamins and I will buy some vitamin B6 later today if I can get out (in so much pain) I also own a mooncup which I use for AF so I have been reading up that people use soft cups to conceive so Im thinking I should be able to use my mooncup. I had always used tampons but was worried about toxic shock etc and one day for a trail for a soft cup through the post so I tried that and it was good, when I went to boots they only sold mooncups and for £18 I thought thats expensive!! but in 13 months since owning it its saved me a fortune on monthly supplies and its less messy, no accidents and excellent for going swimming...They were so good I bought my daughters 1 each too they last around 3 years. I paid that £18 once and now i've been reading up on it helping me get pregnant.. I am also buying preeseed as we speak on amazon Have I missed anything??

 

[tillyttc]

Have not told him yet as I want to be 100% sure first just done another after holding pee for three hours and its hardly there now dont know what to think ? . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Tilly you are early dpo.. you have shown a BFP... normally only FMU shows a pos so early so the fact you keep POAS and still showing a result is POSITIVE.. deep breath.... keep it to yourself today... and in the morning, when you have a nice concentrated wee... take a test... and it will be there still.. I knew as soon as you had implantation show the other day.. my gut said... shes pregnant.. same happens to me everytime, this is why I knew I wasn't pregnant this time, also *Tmi* the discharge you have now is probably thick white and if your in the bath it goes streaky.. its what I get before I do a test... if you have a positive now then your pregnant Today.. cherish it. I learnt that the last time, even though I lost mine I cherished them for that moment hour day they were there...
Below is the link to countdowntopregnancy they post pregnancy tests, click the same DPO you are and look at positive results there.. you will see yours is the same if not stronger than some there
https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/index.php

 

[Soanxious]

Can people share this post/link around with pregnant and people that have got pregnant please, I am hoping to get a nice amount of votes to help people that are not able to get pregnant. Hopefully 1 person that tells us how they got pregnant may help one of us that can't get pregnant xx

link below V

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/p...ive-gels-helped-you-get-bfp.html#post32079407

 

[tillyttc]

Thank you soanxious trying to keep calm not telling no one apart from you ladies on here cause you all have been a huge support which is most appreciated . Xx

 

[tillyttc]

Just wanting a strong coloured line in jan it didnt get very dark at all and I lost that one . Xx

 

[tillyttc]

Mine was smep and taking pregnacare ! Hubby stuffed his face with plain choccy and bananas lol both known to improve the quality of sperm and quantity lol it true !. Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Mine was smep and taking pregnacare ! Hubby stuffed his face with plain choccy and bananas lol both known to improve the quality of sperm and quantity lol it true !. Xx

Will be forcing OH to eat plain chocolate dipped bananas later hahaha! I have already got him on the male vitamins and I have the conceive ones and I text him every day in work.. "Have you taken your vitamins" like a nagging wife haha!

Tilly we understand how you feel, and we too are POAS addicts, but honestly so soon you wont get darker through the day only lighter as your weeing more and less concentrated, You have a line, thats positive, tomorrow you will test again and it will either be the same or very slightly darker... and that will be enough then, and then POAS Sunday morning lol... but it is no use to you to keep doing it all day because you can save those tests for your reliable morning wee's that will last longer

I didn't tell OH until almost a week after I found out, and he only found out then because I needed him to get me a certain medication as I was ill and he almost got one that was not suitable for pregnancy so I had to tell him over the phone whilst he was stood in the chemist, I felt bad... but we hold it in ourselves to not upset our men if it does not go the way we want.. what are we like!!

We are all here for you as we have been where you are today.. xxx

 

[tillyttc]

Hubs was also on vitamins and also he was on baby asprin lol he also wouldnt let me move once bd was done made me have a nap as our bd time was always in the morning lol . Xx