TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Aww thats so lovely Tilly.. Told you!!!! when are you telling your DH????? im SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Excited for you!!!!!! xx

Becks that is so insane we so need to have christmas babies a few of us together.. be awesome!! but that is mad that we are just 1 day apart!! Thats excellent that Brooklyn is doing that so early, my middle daughter was literally running around at 10 months old, she was really petite too so she looked like she was a 9 month old walking haha! My eldest was 13 months before she would walk and my son was a day before his 1st birthday. Babies grow all too quick.. like Regina's little one now.. a month old!! gone way way fast! As for Mooncup, if you buy one try when in shower or bath so its wet so you can practice putting it in and taking it out, im using it for conception too to keep little tadpoles where they should be x

Christmas babies would be awesome! My eldest was crawling at 6 months walking at 9 but usually boys are a little later Casey was crawling at 9 months walking at 14 months. Dd 13 was crawling at 8 months walking at 11 months. Brooklyn is absolutely fascinated by us eating too so wont be long there either. Gunns give it our all this month lol xxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks I have ordered that conceive plus it will be here by Wednesday and im going to use my mooncup plus taking angus castus,baby aspirin,prenatels,omega 3,evening primrose oil, Vitamin B complex etc.. have you seen the votes in my link? and the comments? I've told OH he has a busy cycle I go to see my consultant during the TWW gulp! xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Lisa I'm 41 and Sean weighed 8lb (3.65kg) ill be 42 in November . Hope everyone is good today SO it certainly sounds like you will be busy fxd its your month xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Girlies, I started this AF friday evening, it was light then normal now really light.. im in agony with it but hardly no flow... only thing different is I have been taking aspirin this past 4 weeks, could that alter my flow? im worried im not making enough lining as I didnt get pregnant this month or is it because I was pregnant n lost in Jan and feb? >>confused<< im normally lot heavier than this. Hour later... OMG its heavier than heavy now argh!!!!

 

[Oasis717]

Spoke too soon Tanya!! Xxx

 

[Soanxious]

yes spoke way too soon... is it normal to pass clots bigger than a 50p ?>??? x

 

[Oasis717]

I have ALWAYS done that since my teens if its not ok its been going on s long time! Xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Maybe thats why im in so much pain this time... eek! not normally like this.. oh well..hopefully its getting rid of some excess lining making it beautiful and perfect for new baby in couple of weeks!! x

 

[Oasis717]

Hope so! That would be wonderful im always really heavy for two days its mad here with Brooklyn crawling we have to constantly move stuff esp ds 5's toys, thought I had ages yet lol xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Wow Becks he is on the move early !!!! He will keep you on your toes

 

[Soanxious]

Now he is at this stage Becks the weight will fall off you, you wont have time to keep still haha! x

 

[Oasis717]

Lol bloody hope so! Xxxxx

 

[tillyttc]

I took the day off yesterday lol had a duvet day with films and ate choccy buttons lol ! Did another test today and line is super dark compared to friday so thank you fir your reassuring words ! Also why at 10 dpo would I get a good line on a 100 mui test is this a good sign never got that in jan in fact my lines barely went darker ! They are much darker this time and af not due till Wednesday . Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Its a great sign Tilly but from experience id say stop testing now else any variation will drive you mad xxxx you're a 100% pregnant. Massive congrats xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Yes Tilly you're pregnant... now enjoy it.. No more testing! lol... super dark means good!! : When will you see DH next???? x

Becks I moved my cycle back 1 day because I had read that you should start a cycle when your only just spotting but when your more than spotting so now I have moved it back a day if I got pregnant this month my EDD would be my daughters Birthday 27th Dec haha! My conceive plus arrived today so thats in my top drawer ready for High fertility week, and I have the saliva ov kit on route will be here by wed. Im going all out this month.. FX my Flow is soooooooooo heavy..im still in agony.. not had one like this in I would say a year or so? just hoping it means good things, do you know anyone that had a very heavy AF and go on to get pregnant next cycle? x

I just purchased 90 days of FF

 

[tillyttc]

Hubs is home about the 20th may will be 12 weeks then so hopefully he will be here for the scan ! Got my first midwife app next thursday just wish I could relax lol . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Oh so he will see you with a little bump.. awwww how sweet are you going to start taking weekly side angle photos in a mirror of your bump for an album? my daughter done that that will be nice if he can make it to the scan

Worrying is understandable, but I have a vibe that this is a strong pregnancy xx

 

[crysshae]

Tilly - A very dark line before AF is due is a wonderful sign!

Tanya - Sorry AF is being so mean to you. Mine was longer this month...which I thought was strange since there was only 19 days between the last 2 cycles. I'm hoping that's a good sign too.

Becks - Brooklyn is growing up too fast already, huh? I bet he looks adorable crawling around.

Regina - When do you plan to start trying again?

Fi and Lisa - Hope you are well.

We had a nice busy weekend. Walked a lot Friday evening in the nice weather. Went to a chili cook off Saturday during the day and then dancing and sitting around a fire with friends that night. Took the kids bowling and to dinner yesterday. Now it's time to catch up on rest and housework since it sat all weekend. Lol.

 

[Left wonderin]

Cry mmmm after I convince the OH He is under no illusions of my intentions to give Sean a brother or sister . ( I tell him and everyone else at every opportunity ) but it is done in a jokey way w have not yet had " the talk "

I suppose I have to firstly wait for AF to return and not sure when that will be as I'm BF . In my head I'm thinking in and around the 4-6 month mark so 3 to go lol ! But as soon as AF comes back ill be poas and charting just to get a sense of where things are at . Tbh we have not DTD since Sean arrived , I'm still bleeding on and off and my c section scar is still healing . But soon very soon !! Need to go on a shopping expedition first to get rid of the comfy " granny knickers " or there will be no action coming my way any time soon

 

[Oasis717]

Regina thats how we feel and Brooklyn is 5 months now so im hoping it will be soon xxx
Thanks Crystal he looks so sweet but im constantly diving on the floor as he keeps flipping over too so I keep having to put my hand under his head! Xxx
Tanya I read that you must only count a proper flow as cd1 not spotting so thats what I do. Im back on the diet and exercise and taking multi b vitamins too and we are going to give it our all this month, we havent been trying 100% last two months (for us anyway) so this is 3rd time lucky we shall see! I read yest that if you dont conceive within 3 months at 42 having sex regularly you should see a doctor but we are going to give it 6 xxxx