TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

Not quite sure why the Viking is in there represents your fighting spirit ladieso

 

[Soanxious]

Fi that is excellent news hun.. Congratulations xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Regina I can manage the worry once I know its a viable pregnancy but two losses inc a blighted ovum with no symptoms at all mean im bound to worry til I know theres a lil bean there not just an empty sac. Had quite a bit of pulling on my left side tonight. Gunna grab a couple more tests tomorrow might help me stop worrying. Or not! Xxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Your temps are still great tho Becks... when was af due? x

 

[dancareoi]

Fi, big congrats xx

I so wish I could join the TTC club again, but too late for me now!

Think I'm having my mid life crisis, feeling old and no more babies!

 

[Left wonderin]

Beck I know i remember the torture of the first 8 weeks before I got my early scan ! Every day was an eternity filled with worry ! Sometimes ya wonder why we do it to ourselves but then say look at the end product and remember every second of worry is worth it in the end ! Hang in there girl the days will turn to weeks and the weeks months before you know it xxxx

Dance and your so not old !!! Your 7 month old will see to that lol !!! You have been catapulted back to you 30s lol !!!!!

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya im taking it af was due around yest/today. I had a 27 and a 30 day cycle b4 but I was always 28 and mostly regular give or take a day so I think im 4 weeks today. The pulling in my left side has been there all eve plus sharp ligament pain when I turn so its something new I guess! How are feeling. Hows the bleeding etc. Hope youre ok. Youre gunna be right behind me im sure!! Xx
Lisa youre not old! Xxx
Thanks Regina. I know. This first bit is the worse for me. Getting pregnant is just the first hurdle then theres weeks of worry and symptom spotting I keep telling myself Brooklyn is perfect but im a yr older now so.... I dunno. Just v worried right now xxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

I've stopped bleeding now Becks, my fertile days are 28th-2nd according to FF so will test with OPK around then. x

 

[Soanxious]

When are you trsting again Becks? I know you're going too x

 

[Oasis717]

Yes hunni and im gunna loose it I think test was the lightest yet and still no symptoms. Temps are still up. Pretty devasted. Dunno what to do no cramps or bleeding did both tests xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Oh Becks I hope your wrong about the outcome hugs to you xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Unless the tests are faulty which dont think they are hun I think its over tbh. Thanks though xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Unless the tests are faulty which dont think they are hun I think its over tbh. Thanks though xxxx

hope you are wrong, thinking of you xx

 

[garfie]

Becks - What tests are you using - IC or superdrug? I tested this morning on an IC and there was hardly a line but from the same batch and same urine I tested again and bam there was the line.

BIG hun I hope they are just dodgy tests



X

 

[Oasis717]

Theyre Asda own brand. With my lack of symptoms its not worth spending atenner on a digi. I knew from finding out that something was wrong I have v specific pregnancy symptoms and I just dont have them. Feeling pretty devastated tbh. I dont think the tests are wrong. Thanks for your support everyone. Guess its just a waiting game now. Xx

 

[crysshae]

Becks. I hope it's just the tests were bad.

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you Crystal. I wish that was the case too I think dh is getting Superdrug tests tomorrow but im expecting the same result if im honest no cramps. Not a drop of blood and high temps. Our bodies can be cruel cant they xxxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Temps are looking great Crystal. Could be implantation dip. Really hope so xxxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Thanks Becks. I hope the super drug is super dark!

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks love xxxx