TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Lol! Blame Becks. Your temps are great and that's a really really good line for 10 dpo. Not even a squinter!

Regina - Have fun! Sean is beautiful.

 

[crysshae]

And I just woke up so that means it's the middle of the day for you. Wonderful line! Hope everything being different is a sign it's gonna be sticky!

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks Crystal... it's SMU too... as I wasn't planning on testing so wee'd my fmu down loo... Yeah blame Becks!!!

Im not gonna build hope's up yet... im so emotional x

 

[Sparkle125]

Oh Tanya! I understand your hesitation....but looks good so far! Crossing my fingers and toes!

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks hun.... just putting it back into head eat healthy and forget about anything else..lol..

I just got to get past Wednesday... that is a milestone for me.. sad I know...

 

[Oasis717]

Hah I knew it!!!!!! Omg Tan im so so so pleased for you I totally understand you being wary but that's a fantastic line for 10dpo as Crystal said. I had a feeling you was when you said really bad pmt!!! Congrats luv xxxxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks Becks x

Im still feeling really irritable.. OH is only looking at me and I am snappy.. so I've hidden away all day lol..

The photos here make it look off colour.. you can see it better on the FF page https://www.fertilityfriend.com/tg/...entryId=31824&returnUrl=/tg/galleryBrowse.php

It was a pink line plenty of colour.. I was shocked with a smu 10dpo I really didnt expect that.. I spoke to OH earlier he don't know about this yet... and I said well af due Wed or Thurs so shall we do a Digital thursday.. his reply was.. no lets wait another week!!!! I was like pardon?? he obviously does not have poas addiction LOL.. but I know what he means.. he dont want me to see another chemical xx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks.. are you going to wait till af is due to test seeing's as you have NOT been ttc this cycle x

 

[Oasis717]

He def cant have poas addiction lol. Tbh how ive not used opks this cycle I do not know! Me and dh spoke last night about not ttc and how rubbish we are at it and we both agreed that under the circumstances (my age) perhaps the better option would be just to let nature take its course. In a more relaxed way. Still no opks or bd on specific days etc but we will do what we have been doing. Bd when we want and what will be will be. I told him about you last night and how happy I am for you and how I so want this to be your sticky lo. I am so rooting for you and the irritability is a great sign! Had it with Brooklyn. Yes wont test until 15/16 dpo from now on. Hard as it is I know its the only way for me Still bloody waiting to o. Think the cp has messed my cycle up even more xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Thank you Becky, and I so wish that you are able to get pregnant soon and doing it the way you are now is how I was last year... I was ntnp when I fell pregnant in Oct.. I didnt even start charting taking temps till feb this year but managed to get pregnant twice by then we were bd every other day min.

This and last cycle I used conceive plus during bd and the mooncup after bd to keep it all there... I laid down all night I put a blob of conceive plus in the mooncup and placed it inside so I kept as many as possible next to my cervix

I am just hoping this is my sticky 9 month baby...

They say online these professionals that is... if a couple are ttc they have 20% of getting pregnant... since October I have been pregnant 5 times.. does that make me super fertile? just hope I got a good egg... been taking omega 3 for 3 months now along with my other stuff... stopping my co enzyme q 10 and my vitamin B compound.

Becks what are you taking now vitamin etc wise? I ordered Soya Isoflavones 100mg yesterday.... God Forbid this LO does not stick then I will be starting on them too.

Your temps going up do you think you will get crosshairs tomorrow to say you ov Friday? xx

 

[Soanxious]

Has anyone heard off Tilly? hope she is ok

 

[Soanxious]

Oh I have decided I need to stop temping... im scared to death of it dropping.

 

[crysshae]

Becks - hope your cycle settles. That's the way I feel about waiting. Don't wanna put it off due to age.

Tanya - temping will drive you crazy.

Happy Mother's Day to the Canadian and US moms or moms in the making!

 

[Soanxious]

Wow Crystal thats an ovulation peak n half LOL... nice though... yeah gonna stop temping... x

I also keep trying as I can't afford for my eggs to get any older. x

 

[Soanxious]

my 5th massive wee of the day.... had to do it...

EEEEK!

11 dpo and 5th wee must be strong? never had a digital tell me I am pregnant before.. seems more real...

shaking!!!

 

[tillyttc]

Iam here have been stalking lol but trying to put a lid on being pregnant dont want to jinx things I know silly really !!!!! OMG soanxious you got your bfp thats fantastic fingers and toes crossed for you , iam nearly three months and have felt like crap since I found out its fantastic got my 12 week scan in 8 days ! Hope everyone else is ok today and I do keep looking in to keep upto date . Xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Aww there you are Tilly.. I am so glad that you are ok and that you have a beautiful little baby growing still.. so excited.. I know what you mean about jinxing things.. I have not told my OH about this... I told him we would do a pregnancy test Wed/thursday.. I went and just used that digital LOL.. oops!

Will buy more tomorrow and do a test for him Thurs.. just hoping this one sticks this time... as I lost one last cycle...but it wasnt as strong as this one.

It seems to be when I tell him im pregnant we end up losing it.. so realistically I want to tell him when I go into labour LOL... x

12 weeks wow! its gone way fast for me but obviously not fast enough for you

I bet your DH is over the moon too.. will he be home for the scan? x

 

[tillyttc]

Lmao just trying to imagine your hubbies face when you go into labour lol oh by the way iam a liitle bit pregnant hehe , yes hubby home next sunday scan on tuesday and iam having a consultant lead pregnancy due to probs in the past so seeing her on the Thursday ! They dont see why I cant have a home birth aswell which I feel happy about ! I just take it day at a time and try not to analyse to much lol . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Oh that's fantastic that he will be home and even better you may have a home birth.. I would love a home birth with a pool

It's horrible that we can't enjoy pregnancies after mc... but your doing Faberoonie hun xx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Tilly that seems to have gone quick. Maybe not for you. I am so chuffed for you. Good luck for the scan xx