TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Soanxious]

Thanks Girlies but not feeling it somehow... dunno.. I know im only 7dpo but just not "feeling it" and cramping stopped early hours this morning... Oh well

Im worn out long journey 5 dogs we too 5 from wales to southampton thought it was other way around but we even took 10 week old baby staffy she was adorable and all blubber..

Jenn I am ever so happy for you

Regina so glad AF is kind.. and when you get more time in a few years you can get more doggies!!

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya loads of time yet my symptoms didn't start til 9/10 dpo. Xxx
Jenn how amazing im so v happy for you xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hopefully you are wrong Tanya. So nice of you to rescue dogs. We got our border collie from Wood Green Animal Rescue. Came from Ireland originally. Yes my DH winds me up sometimes too. He is defo victor mildew. Grumpy, whinges and talks to himself lol. So at least I get peace for 4 days when he is away. He is a morning person and talks a lit. Me and D'S are not!

Hope you are wrong Tanya.

Jenn fab news so pleased for you.

Off to sleep now. So ooohhh tired. 😴 catch you all tomorrow xx

 

[Oasis717]

Night all xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks Girls... this time im mega busy with new job and im off to west wales for a few days end of week for OH birthday... not normally this busy

Wow you dog travelled far to be with you then

Night Night Becks


x

 

[Oasis717]

Trying not to get too excited but those temps are fantastic Tan!! Xxx

 

[crysshae]

That chart is looking good Tanya.

It's so good of y'all to help rescue dogs.

My beta from Friday was 12,114. Doubling normally!

 

[Oasis717]

Fantastic news Crystal xxxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

**UPDATE**​

02/07/14 ENDED RELATIONSHIP FOR GOOD.

I STARTED A NEW JOB AND WAS ASKED BY THE 51 YR OLD WOMAN I NOW WORK WITH TO GO DOG WALKING ONE WEEKEND TO MEET HER HUSBAND AND FRIENDS AS SHE KNOWS I HAVE BEEN A RECLUSE AND HAVE NO SOCIAL LIFE, I CAME HOME SO HAPPY THAT IM MAKING FRIENDS IN THE TOWN I LIVE IN AT LAST AND HE WENT OFF THE WALL...

TO CUT A LONG STORY SHORT.. I SHOULD NOT OF SAID YES TO GOING WITH HER WITHOUT ASKING HIM TO COME ALONG TOO.... (HE HAS TONS OF HIS OWN FRIENDS THEY GO DRINKING AND AWAY FOR STAGS I NEVER COMPLAIN)

HE ACCUSED ME OF HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH THE FELLA THAT COLLECTED BEES FROM MY HOUSE.. AND ACCUSED ME OF HAVING AFFAIR WITH THE HOUSE REPAIR MAN WHEN MY WINDOWS AND PATIO DOORS WERE BROKEN.

IM NOT LIVING LIFE AS A RECLUSE ANYMORE....

HE'S NOW GONE.. HOLIDAY I BOOKED AND PAID FOR I JUST CANCELLED BUT LOST ALL THE MONEY

MY EX HUSBAND DONE SAME TO ME AND IM NOT HAVING SOMEONE ELSE DO IT...

HE'S NOW SENDING ME SUICIDAL TEXTS.. SAYING HE HOPES HE DOES NOT WAKE THURSDAY ON HIS 40TH B/DAY AND WANTS TO DIE AS LIFE IS NOT WORTH LIVING


SERIOUSLY!!!!!! DOES HE THINK THAT WILL MAKE ME TAKE HIM BACK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I am now 9dpo(midnight) and I have just done a pregnancy test after I took my keys off him and asked him to leave.. its a BFN and im relieved.. it was fate preventing another baby coming into this.... x

 

[Soanxious]

Crystal I am Ever so happy for you!!!!! xx

 

[josie1234]

Crystal so happy for you.

Tanya - what a nightmare. I hope things work out for you one way or the other. It is good that you have plans that are making you happy. With my 1st OH, I thought I was happy and plodded along and when he decided to leave when D'S was 3, it was the best thing that happened for me as I realised that I wasn't happy. He was controlling, possessive and totally changed me as a person. I couldn't talk to certain people, if I went out, he asked 1001 questions. It was a nightmare when I look back but didn't see it at the time. I hope you are ok hun xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Afm - woke up with really bad headache. Taken tablets just waiting for them to kick in.

 

[Soanxious]

Jo in 2 yrs since I met him I have gained weight and become depressed and a recluse.. now I realised he made me like it... monday my 1st day in work he kept texting me and ringing me I replied im busy... driving 400 miles... and he went mad... like he didnt trust me....... all went belly up because of new job but he started 2 weeks ago accusing me of having affair with fella that collected the bees.... all because I spoke to him about bees...

im better off single. I brought my 3 kids up single.. and wont date again.. took me yrs to meet someone and really thought this was love and my forever happy ever after.. how wrong was I....

hope your headache eases soon xx

 

[crysshae]

Hope your headache eases Jo.

Sorry about everything going on Tanya. Hope it all works out for the best for you.

 

[josie1234]

I hope you don't mind me saying he sounds quite insecure/possessive. Which is not a good combination. It sounds like you are doing well and enjoying a new lease of life. I always believe what will be will be - fate! It's sometimes good to take a step away from the situation to see things properly. You will know if you are meant to be together, if you miss him and the good points outweigh the bad. Thinking of you xx

Thank you, headache easing a bit but now hungry so got up and had food lol. Think is me now awake! Decided yesterday I am going to register to do spartan race. Got a couple of girls I know interested so it is something to focus on and train for. 5 km run with 25 obstacles. It is in sep so need to crack on with running. Have a look on YouTube video for spartan sprint. Looks scarey but wanted to do it for years. I did register to do it before but then I got pregnant. So I was scared to register again but here goes.

 

[josie1234]

That meant to say 15 obstacles.

 

[tillyttc]

Soanxious iam sorry your going through so much crap at the moment ! Look after mind body and soul and everything will fall into place behind , why do men always make it about them . Xxx

 

[Sparkle125]

So sorry you are going through all of this.

AFM: I just had to go home and throw up. Here we go! I didn't do that last time. I was just nauseated all the time. Is it bad that I am happy about it?!? I got more blood work this morning. They are monitoring my estrogen and progesterone. Of course I'll get a read on hcg as well. I am 7 weeks today.

 

[Oasis717]

Tan im so sorry my girls dad was exactly the same and its no way to live in the end after years I finished it but he continued to try to control and abuse ne and I enlisted the help of a domestic violence group. They fitted a panic button in my home and gave me masses of support. I didn't think id ever be happy again til I met dh. You never know what's around the corner. Hope you're ok. Good for you you're starting to go out and be you again. They take that away and change you. I was terrified of my ex so stayed far too long xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Sparkle in the nicest way im glad you're ill lol great sign xxxxx
Jo I hope youre feeling better xx
How are you Crystal and Tilly? Xxxxx