TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

Hi tiger I'm so sorry to hear about your loss , hope you are looking after yourself xxxx I'm 41 , 42 in November and just had my first baby in February . I'm hoping to start ttc no 2 very soon . Delighted you've joined this thread its wonderful .

Becks that sure looks positive to me

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Regina v excited for you TTC again my mood has lifted at last today that was two days with pmt like mood lol, will see what the mornings temp is xxx

 

[crysshae]

Definitely positive Becks. Lots of baby dust!

Lisa - I'm 40 but will be 41 in less than a month.

Regina - Are your results back yet so you can get started TTC?

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal just did one where the test line is much darker than the control xx

 

[Oasis717]

One just done think that's enough opks now lol xxx

 

[crysshae]

Lol! Probably. So glad your cycles have normalized for you.

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you no temp rise just yet xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Bet you will see one in a day or two !! HOLY crap Becks you sure do have all your bases covered !! Think my oh would need resuscitation if I asked THAT level of performance from him !!! And as for you girl where do you get the time never mind the energy !!!!!!! Lol....

Cry no still waiting for results I'm hoping they will be here and clear by the time ov comes around !! If not its on to September err rrrrrrrrr .

 

[Oasis717]

Lol Regina I know I think I'm good for keeping up! I hope you get your results back v soon and all is well xxxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Lol Regina!

 

[Oasis717]

I just read that out to my dh Regina he did think it was funny lol xxxc

 

[Left wonderin]

Just watched one born every min . It always makes me cry without fail !! And makes me want to have 100 babies !!!!! They are all so adorable ! I do remember thinking while in labour though " this ain't like one born every min " !!!!!!! Lol .... Love that programme

 

[crysshae]

Lol! They just don't show you all that stuff on the show.

My scan was great! We could see the little hands and feet and got to see the baby wiggle around. So cool! We heard the heartbeat too. It was 168 bpm. I teared up watching it and am thanking God!

 

[Oasis717]

Oh Crystal I didn't know you were having a scan! That's amazing news! Xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Still no temp rise! xx

 

[josie1234]

Crystal - amazing. So chuffed for you hun. Xxx

Regina - I don't watch that as I would be the same lol

 

[Oasis717]

I think I was all set to o this week but then the last three days I've had a lot of stress and I wonder whether that's delayed things? Unfortunately my mums not a very nice person and treated me v badly when I was young so because of that and other things she's done inc not being bothered about my children we don't speak, I found out through a family member she's basically blamed me to everyone even though all I ever did was try to help her (she was an alcoholic until I was 30) and I know I shouldn't but its really upset me xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Becks - that's so tough. I know its easy to say but try to rise above it. You have done so well yourself and are a strong person with a lovely family. People who know you will ignore what she says so keep positive people around you hun, don't let it drag you down. Big hugs xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks so much Jo although reading that bought tears to my eyes you really did make me feel better, I know you're right its just so tough but dh says the same, that all the people that matter know the truth and to try not to let it get to me, really am trying to do that xxxxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Jo and your DH are exactly right. All the people who matter know better. It sounds like you have overcome so much and are better for it. Don't let her live rent free in your head. I hope your temp rises tomorrow after a nice strong healthy O.