Aayla- I would see what the next couple of days bring. You're looking for a sustained higher temp. Easier said than done (don't I know) but one day isn't really all that meaningful either way. Last time I obsessed about a fallback rise (when you have a second estrogen spike after O). Treat yourself to something distracting!
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TTC after miscarriage before AF
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Wow, this is pretty accurate. I woke up in the middle of the night (3am) and instinctively took my temperature (98.2). I went to this website and it said my temp would have been 98.8 if I had woken up at 6. Well, I fell back asleep and woke up at 6 to a temperature of 98.7.
I know it's still early (8 dpo) but I'm cautiously optimistic. I'm thinking of testing at 10dpo, although I've never had a bfp before 13 dpo.
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unfortunately there is no sustained shit. I have a feeling that the opk picked up on whatever hcg was left in my system. I had a good cry about it yesterday. I will still be confirming it with my progesterone but I know this isn't a true cycle. and the chances of me doing it on my own were so high.
We'll just have to see what everything brings. I am hoping a frer will come back negative this weekend. Then I can get in to see my doc sooner. They want me to wait until Oct 2, but I am so scared of missing the first cycle.
We'll just have to see what everything brings. I am hoping a frer will come back negative this weekend. Then I can get in to see my doc sooner. They want me to wait until Oct 2, but I am so scared of missing the first cycle.
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UGH. All I wanted was for my husband to get a less physically demanding job---and he did and I am so happy and proud of him! But, he works so much that DTD is becoming a huge chore and I feel like I have to force it on him when he is home. He is so tired and completely un-enthused. Any way sorry ladies just had to vent. Do you ever go through anything like this. DH and I never have any issues DTD until we are TTC then it feels so scheduled I think we both lose the urge.
Mssk- 
I completely know what you mean. DH and I recently moved to a very different part of the country, I changed jobs, and we are buying a house. The day I had my +OPK he told me he was distracted by work. Aaargh! I completely broke down and explained to him that I was O'ing and we dtd, but it felt so blah.
Well, it'll be worth it if I get that BFP. If not, next cycle is going to be even worse...
I completely know what you mean. DH and I recently moved to a very different part of the country, I changed jobs, and we are buying a house. The day I had my +OPK he told me he was distracted by work. Aaargh! I completely broke down and explained to him that I was O'ing and we dtd, but it felt so blah.Well, it'll be worth it if I get that BFP. If not, next cycle is going to be even worse...
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Exactly by the time we did I was just like get it over with! I hate feeling that way. I know he is tired but seriously it made me so mad! I told him, he can be tired all he wants when we get pregnant and the Dr. puts me on pelvic rest! then he can leave me the heck alone...and watch then he will want to all the time lol. Lets hope this is the cycle for both of us so that dtd isn't stressful anymore....I held my legs in the air EXTRA long this time lol. I think I need a magazine or something for next time because I was pretty bored laying there with my legs up
Lol- that paints a funny picture! I can just imagine someone, legs in the air and muttering under their breath while their DH is asleep and snoring (not to imply that your DH does, but mine does, so I can imagine it).
I have been really short with DH- I just hope the grumpiness has a good cause and a happy ending. Work has slowed down a little and I am feeling more calm and a little guilty...
I have been really short with DH- I just hope the grumpiness has a good cause and a happy ending. Work has slowed down a little and I am feeling more calm and a little guilty...
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Oh no he snores like a lawn mower and sleep talks and laughs in his sleep lol. I have been extremely short tempered which is not like me. But, this whole TTC process has taken a toll on us both. Last month we were laughing about scheduling sex but now I am not laughing. He is a huge joker and when he tells me he has "no libido" laughing I want to kill him lol. And I feel terribly guilty about it because he works 12 hour overnight shifts and has a 1 hour commute so he is literally sleeping or at work. I need this to be the cycle I am getting overwhelmed! AF was so long I think O will be later than usual any way.
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I also had spotting right before O was my first time ever seeing this, im reading articles on it now to see what, or why. and then two days later I got my CM. I didn't use OPK but im sure it was O I felt the pains as well.
Hey ladies I'm back with another question. So my dh and I decided to start trying right away after 9/9 mc. I was supervised to see that I ovulated cd15 this month ( according to +opk and thermal shift). So my question is should I expect my LP to be shorter or longer this cycle? I'm asking because I have been having af like cramps yesterday and today (6dpo & 7dpo), yesterday I had a temp dip and it rose back up today and thought it might be implantation dip but it might just be wishful thinking. Just curious because I have never had af cramps this early but I also have never had a mc.
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Carlimar- It is hard to say. Everyone's bodies are different and I learned that every loss is different. After our first loss in March there was no change in my cycle. I ovulated cycle day 14 and got pregnant right away, unfortunately, that pregnancy ended in a miscarriage as well (blighted ovum). So your cycle could be normal, longer, shorter, it is kind of a wait and see matter. The fact that you ovulated on cycle day 15 makes me think that you are on track for a more "normal" cycle. Remember after a loss it is very easy to symptom spot. I noticed after our second loss that I felt cramps on and off without AF showing. I was also looking for signs of anything AF or pregnancy. I know it is hard (I am about to give you advice that I myself never take lol) but try not to stress yourself out about it. You will get there. I hope that this is the cycle for you and your DH to end up with a happy and healthy pregnancy 
Mssk- Thank you so much for responding, I'm driving myself crazy with all these symptoms. I guess I just want to be pregnant again so badly. I am going to try and relax and not stress anymore over it, going away this weekend and hopefully that will help 
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I mc at 5w0d 4 weeks ago, ovulated on cd14 as usual and am now overdue AF. I'm trying really hard to stay calm, but my temps are still up and I'm going to test tomorrow! I've read quite a few people who got pregnant immediately after an early mc... I just hope that, if I am, this is a sticky bean. I want a baby more than I can explain. 
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Feeling upset...
My temp dropped today and my boobs don't hurt anymore. BFN was therefore not a great surprise but I really want af to hurry up now so we can move on to next cycle. Or, if I am pregnant, show me a positive!!!
Anyone experienced late af after a very early mc? When can I expect to get it?
I've still got creamy cm and cervix is high, soft and closed. No sign of anything at all. If I didn't temp, I'd be sure I was pregnant, but the dip this morning was a teller for me. So sad, I'd really got my hopes up yesterday
My temp dropped today and my boobs don't hurt anymore. BFN was therefore not a great surprise but I really want af to hurry up now so we can move on to next cycle. Or, if I am pregnant, show me a positive!!!
Anyone experienced late af after a very early mc? When can I expect to get it?
I've still got creamy cm and cervix is high, soft and closed. No sign of anything at all. If I didn't temp, I'd be sure I was pregnant, but the dip this morning was a teller for me. So sad, I'd really got my hopes up yesterday
