TTC after miscarriage before AF

[xanzaba]

I know what you mean. I woke up with a pimple on Wednesday and just knew it was over. One single pimple, usually on my chin, is my kiss of death.

 

[Justme43]

Oh ellie I am sorry honey.

I had an early miscarriage too and AF showed up 2 days shy of 5 weeks. However, aside from a few slips we were being careful.

The m/c really upsets our hormones and everything else for that matter. So anything is possible. Hang in there sweetie and don't lose complete hope.

 

[ILoveme29]

Good day Ladies, I went to do my scan and labs today, waiting on that phone call hoping for good news

 

[Justme43]

Good day Ladies, I went to do my scan and labs today, waiting on that phone call hoping for good news

You will have good news.... rooting for you honey.

 

[mssk]

Good luck ladies! Ellie don't count yourself out yet it is still early and your cycle might just be a little off.

AFM- I really hope that I ovulate this cycle. I decided not to buy opk's this cycle as an effort to relax a little. But AF was super long 8 days with spotting included I didn't get much EWCM except on about cycle day 11-13. And again day 19. We bed 11-13-15-19 so hopefully we get lucky. With things being late I think we will bed 21-23-25 as well. Fingers crossed for us all. I hope this is it I broke down the other night knowing it been 6 months since our first angel left us and 4 months since our second angel left for Heaven. I can't believe it has been 4 months and we are still TTC with no luck. I need it to be this month. I feel so empty

 

[xanzaba]

Oh, mssk Here's to this being your cycle

 

[mssk]

Thanks Xanzaba I am getting really discouraged.

 

[Teeny Weeny]

I'm sorry you're discouraged honey. However, I know how you feel. It's been just over 6 months since our loss and nothing. We've tried really hard and not getting anywhere.
I'm sure our rainbow babies are just around the corner. Xx

 

[mssk]

Thank you Teeny Weeny. I really hope happens for both or us really soon

 

[mssk]

TinyLynne- I wanted to let you know that I think about you every day. I hope that you are doing okay.

 

[xanzaba]

Yes, Tiny, I hope that you are okay and that you come back and join us when you are ready.

 

[Babylove100]

Well AF finally showed today (cd35/cd1) I've never been so pleased to see her! Fx for this cycle!

Hope your all doing okay.x

 

[mssk]

Finger and toes crossed for you babylove

 

[mssk]

Cycle day 22 I think I may have O'd yesterday lots of watery CM. But, we didn't get a chance to bd. Ughh I already feel out this cycle. If we don't get pregnant this cycle I think it is time to go back to the OB's office. We did bed cycle day 19 though do I really hope that those swimmers were still kicking in there. Please have got to that eggy little buddies. Oh gosh listen to me I have lost my damn mind.

 

[Babylove100]

Haha mssk! Know that feeling! Git everything crossed for you!!

 

[Justme43]

Good Morning ladies -

mssk - hang in there honey. I know it can get discouraging but just keeping pushing forward.

Teeny - My fingers and toes are crossed for you and I hope you get your rainbow soon. . Hang in there!

Babylove - lol- I know what you mean. Last week AF showed up for the first time and I was thrilled. She is on her way out now (barely spotting).

I am looking forward to officially ttc this month. Now that Af is almost gone - I am a little nervous but I am more hopeful.

Babydust to you all and I am praying we all get our rainbows before the new year.

 

[xanzaba]

Hi Ladies- had a little mental bump in the road, but I think I'm getting back to being ready to do this all over again. DH is out of town, which will be nice to not think about bd'ing, and the timing is right. Then I'm going out of town in 2 weeks for work. I think a little change of scenery is just what I need.

Here's to new, clean cycles. And quick tww's.

 

[mssk]

I know how you feel Xan. TTC can be so overwhelming. But, the payoff will be worth it in the end. I hope your work trip helps to perk you up

 

[mssk]

AFM- well ladies...I think I am finally in the tww. O was hard to track this cycle but I am sure I at least did O this cycle. So I checked my cervix today after having some mild cramping. Cervix is super high same as it was about a week after AF but now it is so high I can only feel the tip of it (My cervix is retroverted so I cannot feel the opening unless it is lower) but it feels really soft. CM is creamy dry and tacky, what do you think? Good sign? My cervix did not go this high after AF last cycle it was medium and firm. I hope we got the job done this cycle, DH's new job has made it very hard TTCing as he is never home or sleeping. Today is cycle day 25 with O definitely on the late side. Fingers crossed so tightly!!!

 

[Justme43]

Hey ladies - I need to catch up - was out of commission yesterday. Good news is AF is finally gone so I can get to "getting down".. Also, we set a date April 23rd so the countdown officially begins.

So excited to finally be planning the wedding again, the m/c put things on hold but now I am ready to get back to it.

I'll check back later to catch up. I hope everyone is well.