TTC after miscarriage before AF

[xanzaba]

Good luck, mssk. Hope bd'ing is well timed!

 

[Babylove100]

Cycle day 14 today and after all light OPK's I had one almost as dark as the control line!The pressure is on!

Yay! Good luck mssk!!

 

[xanzaba]

OMG- Babylove, congrats!!! I can't believe I missed this. How're you doing?

 

[Babylove100]

Ah thank you! So far so good!! Got everything crossed this is the one!!!

 

[xanzaba]

You've got my everything crossed as well

 

[mssk]

Thanks Ladies!

Baby Love congratulations!!! You'll be in my thoughts!

Hopefully in a few weeks we will all be chatting about pregnancy symptoms!

Side note I hope preseed helps us succeed this cycle. But, even if not I liked it I am very sensitive to lubricants but preseed did not bother me at all last night. Which was a nice change. I highly recommend trying it! Thanks Tinylynne for the suggestion and I hope that you are doing well!

 

[mssk]

I just got a huge positive! But, my husband is already on his way to work. I hope yesterday and tomorrow morning will do the trick! Is O suppose to happen 12-36 hours after a positive or is this O right now?

 

[Mlynn3D]

Hi ladies! I too am TTC after a miscarriage. We were not trying, but had a surprise that ended in MC at 6weeks. The baby never developed at all- I did not even get a BFP on a FRER until almost 4-5 days past AF.
But we are now non-officially TTC as in we have not protected at all since the MC and DH knows I am super fertile.
I am out of OPKs and my thermometer is broken so I am charting based off CM and CP. I am thinking I am anywhere between 1-4 DPO right now and plan on testing starting Saturday because I just can't help it.

I don't know if we will be continuing to TTC if AF shows so I am REALLY praying I am one of the blessed ladies that gets pregnant with no AF.
My last M/C I got pregnant the first cycle afterwards so that would be nice too

 

[mssk]

I'm sorry for your loss Mlynn. I hope that this is the cycle for you and that the witch stays away for you. I'll keep everything crossed for you

 

[Mlynn3D]

I just got a huge positive! But, my husband is already on his way to work. I hope yesterday and tomorrow morning will do the trick! Is O suppose to happen 12-36 hours after a positive or is this O right now?

O is different for each woman, some O on the day of the +opk surge and some O after. The best way to know is to track with BBT and the OPKs as well, but either way, get to BD girl!!!

 

[mssk]

Well I had some cramping the day of my + and the day after. But, yesterday I had some serious O pains. We ended up bding cycle day 13, 15-16 (day of the + opk) it was more like 16 since it was at 1 am on cycle day 16, and today cycle day 18. So officially in the TTW again. Will be 2dpo tomorrow. So let the finger biting begin until test time lol

we also bd the 9 &11th those hopefully one of those guys did their stinking job lol

 

[mssk]

Just POAS because I have them and I can lol. I am so doomed this cycle I kept telling myself to show some restraint but it didn't work. I literally just had to print out and mark a calendar of when I am "allowed" to test again.

 

[mssk]

I know that I am probably losing my mind to symptom spotting but I am so nauseated right now. I didn't even realize it, I am shopping for DH online while he is at work and I had to run to the bathroom because I all the sudden got very light headed and nauseous. FX'd

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- hopefully it's a good sign. They say that you can't have symptoms until implantation, but there is so much they don't know. So, fxed!

 

[babyjourney89]

Hi guys!!! I miscarried at 11 weeks and 1 day. Currently trying to recover emotionally and waiting for my body to start functioning again. Can you guys tell me how long should i wait to ttc again.

 

[xanzaba]

babyjourney- I am so sorry for your loss. Medically, I think they say wait 2 cycles to recover folic acid and iron. Emotionally, do whatever feels right. If it helps to start right away trying again, or to take some time, do what is right for you. My loss was at 14 weeks and it took 2 cycles to get back on track anyway. I had some bleeding so there was no sex during the pregnancy, and bd'ing with my husband was very healing.

 

[babyjourney89]

My bleeding stopped 3rd of this month and its been hardly 7 days. I have started checking OPK's and didn't get positive so far. I wonder how much time would it take. Its hard, Painful and frustrating.

 

[xanzaba]

I believe I had my first period 45 days after the MC, and 28 days after the bleeding stopped, but I'm pretty sure I didn't O that cycle. The next cycle I O'ed late. It was hard being off for so long, but knowing that abnormal is "normal" helped me to stay calm-ish. I hope you have an easier time than I did

 

[babyjourney89]

Thank you xanzaba for the support.
I'am feeling a lot better than yesterday. Fortunately, bleeding stopped a week ago. Other than that i get crampy every now and then, having tons of discharge (Sorry for TMI). I don't know if these are post-miscarriage symptoms or pre-AF.

 

[Babylove100]

Hey babyjourney, so sorry you find yourself here.

My 1st af after the mmc was 34days, and I'm pretty sure I didn't ovulate that cycle. I definitely ovulated the cycle after as i got a bfp, but sadly mc at 5+3. I then took a break ttc for a couple of months. We started ttc again in August, but August and Sept cycles were very odd, Aug was only 20days and Sept was 34days. Then I got my current bfp in October!!! I'm pretty sure my body needed some time to get over everything and I hope thats not the case for you and wishing you all the luck that you get your sticky rainbow soon.x