TTC after miscarriage before AF

[TinyLynne]

He might regret that option! Lol. One month later.... He will be going crazy! Lol

 

[mssk]

Lol yes I bet he will, that's how it goes TTC is like pulling teeth but, I know as soon as we get lucky I'll be sleeping it off and he won't want to leave me alone.

 

[mssk]

Well. OPK's are officially ordered along with Preseed because I have seen some of you lovely ladies rave about it I though what the heck I'll give it a shot! Hopefully it works for out for this cycle!!!

 

[TinyLynne]

We got pregnant both cycles that we used preseed, after 5 months of not getting pregnant!!

 

[mssk]

I really hope it does the trick for us! I am so excited to try it.

 

[mssk]

Cried all night and day. I have been trying to stay away from area's like FB because literally everyone is pregnant. I'm not cruel I am so happy for them, but I do get jealous when I see their pics and they are as far along as I would be if we hadn't lost the babies. An old work friend and just sweetheart of a person just lost her daughter at 22 weeks. All I can think is how terrible I feel for being envious of her pregnancy. I am so sorry that she has become one of us, I wish this never happened to her. And I am just overcome with grief for her and her family. Even though we are not close at all anymore I know that I share that emptiness with her. But, I was still at a loss for words. I sent her a message saying that she might find comfort in this site. I hope it was okay of me to suggest it so soon.

 

[mrsmax]

You stopped her from feeling alone. That cannot be the wrong thing. i hate that anyone has to go through this. l

 

[Babylove100]

Ah mssk I'm so sorry for your friend. Just heartbreaking.

My friend recently announced her 2nd oregnancy, then sent me a message saying she's sorry she know it's hard for me, I was actually really angry as yes it's hard for me but not because she's pregnant, I find it hard because I am not, I hope that makes sense. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't feel guilty for feeling upset and don't confuse jealousy with sadness at your situation. Sending x

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- so sorry for your friend. I was also jealous of a friend who was pregnant, but fortunately she had a healthy baby girl a couple of weeks ago. Don't beat yourself up for a horrible tragedy that's not your fault. Being there for her now is what counts. And these threads are great, even if she's not ready to come here yet.

 

[mssk]

Thanks ladies, I never heard back from her. But, then I didn't really expect to. I hope when she is ready she finds her way here

AFM- Got my OPK's and preseed in the mail yesterday!!!! WoooHOO!

 

[mssk]

Cycle day 6 already! Yesterday was only spotting and today spotting only when I wipe. It is weird having longer cycles after 3-4 day cycles with no spotting afterwards. But, things seem to be getting more regular. What cycle day should I start using OPK's? I was thinking cycle day 10, just so I can cover all my bases lol.

 

[xanzaba]

Last cycle, I started on day 10, and had a horrible wait, but then this time I started on day 10 and had a positive 2 days later and O'ed one day after that. So you never know, but cd10 sounds like a good starting place. When do you "normally" O?

 

[mssk]

Before the losses I O'd cycle day 14 or 15. The last few cycles I have had confusing cm. It seemed fertile on and off from cycle day 10-25. I think this last cycle I O'd late I had pains around cycle day 21-23.

 

[mssk]

So, I decided to take an O test today for a starting point. I know this is negative. But, how does this work, should they get a little darker each day until positive. I thought the line would be lighter it is even darker in person, does this mean I am within a few days of O?

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- it can depend how high your baseline level is and how quickly it goes up. Usually mine look positive for a day or two before O, so it's frustrating. It's unlikely to O before cd10 or so. It takes about 10 days for the egg to mature.

AFM- I have a nasty little pimple on my chin. It's only 12dpo, so a little early for my kiss of death, but not holding out hope at this point...

 

[mssk]

Thanks Xan, good thing I ordered a million tests. lol at least if I test everyday it will feel like some type of progress.

FX'd that--that darm pimple is because you have a BFP coming and not the witch!

 

[Babylove100]

I usually start testing around cd10 too. I find they seem to be quite strong at the start, then suddenly completely negative then they get stronger again until finally positive. Not much help sorry! Got all things crossed for you!

 

[mssk]

Cycle day 10 tomorrow. I have been looking forward to the double digit cycle days. I just pray that I ovulate this cycle

 

[mssk]

This is why I get confused, at least now I know I am not crazy though...TONS of EWCM today and the line on the O test is even lighter than the other day. At least it makes sense why I have been getting confused. Hopefully we get a + test soon. But, we dtd today anyway just to be sure

 

[mssk]

Cycle day 14 today and after all light OPK's I had one almost as dark as the control line!The pressure is on!