ttc cycle#2 for baby#3 cd1 today. ttc buddies??

[dinky]

Hi ladies. I had a d&c on August 28th so just over 5 weeks ago. That pregnancy wasn't planned I was actually quite scared of having a third but now I've lost that pregnancy I feel like I really want another baby so after the d&c we started ttc straight away. I know having another baby will be financially and emotionally hard but we're gunna give it a shot I'm meant to be a mother of 3! So here I am on cd1. My normal cycles are anywhere from 28-35 days although the 1st cycle after the d&c was 38 days. I have pcos and endometriosis. Anyone want to join me in this cycle?

 

[blakesmummy09]

Hey I'll be a ttc buddy I've just got a positive opk (I think) today so I'm cd15 x

 

[dinky]

Hi blakesmummy! I used to love getting positive opks it's exciting isn't it! I used them when I was ttc my 2nd daughter but I got obsessed with them so I'm trying not to this time lol but I'm sure if it don't happen in the next few cycles I will be back using them and temping again! Is this you first cycle trying?

 

[blakesmummy09]

Yes in a sense, I came off the pill 26th August but I don't think I o last month due to the pill getting out of my system so i class it as my first real cycle as such. I loved getting the + this morning.

I'm all very new to this as my other two children were concieved on the pill x

 

[dinky]

Wow were they? My mc pregnancy was conceived by the pull out method lol not very reliable I know! I remember getting excited over positive opks when I was ttc before. I just listen to my body now as I have lots of ewcm for about a week leading up to o and then when I have ovulated my bbs get sore straight away then af starts around 12-14 days later! My cycles can be quite long tho this last cycle lasted 38 days but I think that was because of the mc. I don't know when I will ovulate but I'm guessing between cd15-20 sometime

 

[Jaxie086]

I will join!! I'm ttc cycle #2, on cd 2 today. I'm about a 25 day cycle. Trying for our first

 

[blakesmummy09]

Fingers crossed we have our month this month x

 

[dinky]

Hi Jaxie! I wish my cycles were only 25 days long your so lucky! How exciting that your ttc your first I remember ttc my first! I loved all that excitement of learning about opks and ovulation and all that. My first ever bfp is a day I'll never forget! Hope you get yours this month!
I'm on cd2 now still got belly cramps and back ache, hate these first few days!!

 

[dinky]

Cd 3 for me now and still have back aches and cramps! How's you 2 doing? X

 

[dinky]

Cd8 for me now. My period finished yesterday it was a day longer than normal and was slightly lighter than previous cycles but that was probably due to the d&c I had, maybe my lining didn't build up as much as it normally does. Looking forward to seeing ewcm can already feel my sex drive increasing so that's a good sign although we haven't actually bd yet! We are off on our hols in a week and I'm hoping I will be fertile during our break! There's been no new posts in here hope your girls are doing ok

 

[blakesmummy09]

Sorry Hun I've been struggling to find the post with my phone. I'm 8dpo now and had a temperature dip this morning after a big rose yesterday, I've got backache too and lost a big blob of creamy cm sorry tmi lol, how are you x

 

[dinky]

Could that be a implantation dip? I bet that's exciting for you! I'm feeling OK thanks just getting impatient already at waiting to o lol I'm not very good at waiting. Then I'll just be driving myself mad waiting for af! How are you?

 

[dinky]

I have noticed ewcm twice today already at cd8! Never have it this early I don't think I'm excited!!

 

[blakesmummy09]

Oooh have you done a opk? It sounds very promising signs Hun for you to ov. I'm really hoping it's an implantation dip, my backache has gone now but I don't really have any other symptoms as such where as last month I had loads and resulted in a bfn lol x

 

[dinky]

I've always found I've had less symptoms the months I have got my bfps! Strange isn't it? No I've not done one I'm not using them yet so haven't got any but I might buy some in a few months time if no bfp! I know when I have ovulated because my boobs get sore so that's the next thing to look for I'm just gunnar bd anyway lol

 

[blakesmummy09]

I don't blame you it's the best chance lol, fingers crossed you catch that egg x

 

[Missy08]

Stalking your thread Hope you both get your bfp's this month! Im currently trying to decide whether or not to try for #3 and I'm having a really hard time trying to make the decision. I just came across this thread and thought I'd read/ say hello!

 

[dinky]

Hi missy I was exactly the same as you. My partner wanted another baby and I didn't but there were times when I was broody I just had to tell myself that we couldn't afford another one and we would have to move and we really like this house! It's only 2 bedrooms though. We want to go abroad on holiday and it would cost more with another child etc, I was really against the idea of a 3rd. But then I acidentally fell pregnant again and was devesated I spent weeks crying. Then just as I was getting used to the idea I lost the pregnancy at 8 weeks and now I can't stop thinking that all I want is another baby! I feel like I'm supposed to be a mother of 3 and all the things I worried about before don't matter in the long run. I don't want to be an old lady and regret not having another so I've decided to just go for it and things will work out

 

[blakesmummy09]

My temp has dipped 😞 Not a lot but got a hunch that this month isn't ment to be x

 

[dinky]

I can't really remember much about temping but I'm sure it's not a bad thing unless it drops below the coverline? Maybe it will be back up again tomorrow but doesn't it dip if you implant?