TTC - ectopic survivor - one tube!

[Dtrisha]

After EP since January. But we didn't really try in January or February. We just didn't prevent it. March was actively trying by just BDing more. So not sure how long you can actually say we have ya know ?

 

[breakingdawn]

I would not worry about seeing a doctor until you have been REALLY trying a full 6 months. Most doctors will even say a year. But 6-9 months is what I would say... before really getting tested and going through all that.

 

[Dtrisha]

Yeah cause I know that will be more stress. I'll give it a few months but if my yearly comes around I might as well as when I'm there. But I think it's around August

 

[mod19]

Trish your dr may want to ensure your tube(s) is clear. Or suggest something along the lines of clomid. Neither was stressful for me, it was actually more of a relief that I could finally move forward instead of being dead in the water.

How has everyone else been?

Afm-I'm definitely feeling a lot better and so is dd (poor baby had a double ear infection), and the yeast infection is gone...so yay! I usually use opks from the last day of my period, but I skipped about 4 days while my parents were in town, and picked up again around cd13 or . Well there's no sign of o in sight. None. Unless I o'd early and missed it, but picked up on cd 13 and and the lines have been super light. On cd 19 now I believe. So maybe I really did miss it, or maybe with the stress and sickness I just skipped it or delayed it. Really not sure, but I hope it doesn't hinder my Dr's decision on weather she'll give me clomid again when I ask. The last opk I took on cd8 was darker than I've ever seen one that early, so maybe. Come on AF! Time to start another cycle!

 

[breakingdawn]

My yearly is scheduled for June. If no pregnancy by then I'll probably mention in passing we have been TTC since March but I know it won't be cause for alarm yet. I can usually tell when O is getting close because of CM and it's scarce now so I doubt I'll test too soon. I've never O'd earlier than CD13 - I just don't want to stress too much. I'll start checking Friday! Unless I get weird signs sooner...

 

[breakingdawn]

So.. I am only on CD7 I think. Normally I would not ovulate until CD13/14. Is it too early for pre O cramps? I keep feeling some pain on my right lower side, which is sadly the side of my missing tube. Just hoping I am not ovulating from that side this month but I really feel like I might.

 

[Dtrisha]

Mod- but would they do that already ? I just don't want to waste my time going in if they'll say come back in 6 months we can't do anything.

 

[breakingdawn]

There are two things wrong with this picture. 1) it's only CD8!! 2) I've only felt pains from my right side lately, the no tube side. Is this month a total waste?

 

[Dtrisha]

I've heard plenty of time that people got pregnant from there tubeless side. I wouldn't say it's a absolute waste. And only cd8?! That's super early.

 

[breakingdawn]

I know. I'm hoping that test was a fluke because I'm not prepared for O this early I mean dang my fertile week is still a few days away!

 

[Dtrisha]

Are your periods normal?? Get a BD in if you can in case!

 

[breakingdawn]

They are 28 days spot on! I think we will be okay.. I really don't think it is going to go positive today or even tomorrow. And once it does go positive we have another 12-48 hours at most.... We are going to BD tomorrow night and keep on every other day until O hopefully!

 

[Dtrisha]

Good luck

 

[breakingdawn]

How is everyone doing? Good I hope! I just booked a beach trip for July so I am feeling really excited today! May surge watch is still on!! We are going to begin the every other day BD tonight I believe, I may try and sneak an extra BD in there somewhere if I end up with a super pos. OPK at some point! FX!

 

[Dtrisha]

I wonder why you had that weird surge lol

 

[breakingdawn]

OPKs can go darker and lighter all month, for me anyway.. Not really considered a surge yet until the lines match. I do feel like I will ovulate from my right side this month which sucks. There's a tiny chance my good tube will go pick up the egg from the other side. It's rare but it does happen..

 

[breakingdawn]

Opk today:

 

[breakingdawn]

Oh look... a POAS collage..

 

[Dtrisha]

Looks like you're getting close !

 

[breakingdawn]

I've been a bit more crampy today... Interested to see how CD11 opk looks!