Hi Ladies, I found this thread and it makes me happy to hear stories about rainbow babies.
My story- last July after 2 1/2 years TTC I had my first ever BFP, I was ecstatic but started bleeding at 5 weeks. I carried the pregnancy to 18 weeks before having a miscarriage. It was devastating, but they found out that I have a clotting disorder that can be controlled by baby aspirin, so it gave me hope that I could control bleeding in the next pregnancy.
Then in April I found out I was pregnant with a rainbow baby. No bleeding, no spotting, but then I had a bad first trimester scan. I found out two weeks later that the baby had Down's syndrome and that she had passed. It was easier knowing that miscarriages happen often with Down's syndrome, and having been pregnant a second time, but I still felt like my world was crashing around me.
It's been about 3 weeks since my D&C and I'm taking my prenatals to make sure that my folic acid and iron levels are high enough. We're planning on trying straight away and letting nature take its course. We'll try IVF if there is no BFP by the end of the year (I am 37).
Hopefully even more BFPs are around the corner. Good luck to all of us!