TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[Renaendel]

Age':35
Electrical engineer
I am from Montana by Yellowstone national park
I will have been married to DH 7 years this next week, but met him and we started dating in March of 1997. 17 wonderful fantastic years.
We didn't know it back then, but I wasn't physically able to have kids because of the polyps in my uterus. Now we finally can!
We have one "child". Who is our siberian cat named Ashelia.

 

[lizlovelust]

I'm 25! OH is also 25, I am currently working at a Mitsubishi dealership and going to college for graphic design! OH is currently a manager at a hotel and be starting college for funeral directing! We have been together for three years and have been trying for a baby for just under three years. We are engaged but do not have a set date yet! We have two fur babies my kitties Antoinette and Sebastian!

Oh and we live in St. Paul Minnesota!

 

[MolGold]

I am 28. I am a Business Consultant in Logistics domain.

I met DH in 2007 at work - we were both engineer interns there. We got engaged in 2009 after we found out we were expecting. We lost the baby and I postponed the wedding to get my masters degree in Business, but mostly to help get over the loss.
We got married in 2012. TTCing actively for last 6 months. And we are from India.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

So nice to read every ones stories. How did you guys meet your DH's?

I met DH at my cousins house. My cousin was having a bonfire for his birthday and they had invited me over. My cousins brother, my other cousin, and dh are best friends and have been for years!! ( I never knew this, we aren't the closest. Dh is a year older than I am and we went to the same high school. I was a "cool" kid and he was and still is a "farm" boy.) Well this was back in 2010 and I still liked to drink more than I should and DH started hitting on me and next thing I knew I tried to jump over the fire causing a minor burn on my hand and dh took me into the bathroom and put preparation H cream on my burn!! I know, you guys didn't know it works on burns too!!! hahaha jk it does NOT work on burns!! Again we were drinking heavily. It was also around dh's bday and he asked me that night if I would go fishing with him the next day. Well I woke up on the couch with him at 530am and went home! SO he text me the next day and I did not remember what he looked like, yes I know scary! lol So I said no because I had finals that week and I needed to study. Anyways he asked me out three more times and I said no each time making up several excuses. Well one night I was home alone and nothing to do it is now around Halloween and I wanted to go to a spoke house. He just happen to text me and asked if we could go out, I said yes but I wanted to go to a spoke house. So he took me out and he met with the people that worked the spoke house and told them my name and as we walked in they were all saying "Laura we are waiting for you, come out to play Laura" VERY SCARY!! I LOVED IT!!!! So then we moved in together about 1 1/2 years later and got married in Sept 2013!! We are coming up on our 1 year anniversary!! I don't know what I would do without him in my life, he is my rock and my world!! I can 't wait for him to be the father of my kids. He will do whatever it takes to provide for our family and I love that about him!

 

[DragonflyLvr]

Cd 50 18 dpo yet no sign of AF, no spotting and several BFN's so confused and soooooo tired. LOL I wanna nap all day. Anyone else in this boat?

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-I love your story!
Afm-I had split up with my fiance about 4 months previously and was out at a pub with my friends. I was sitting on the patio with 2 of my friends when this guy started to talking to me. He turned out to be a friend of my friend's friend. We talked for the rest of the night but then went our separate ways. The following wknd I was out and we ran in to him again, this led to more talking and cell exchanges. So began txting and calls back and forth, hang outs and get togethers but nothing serious for a few months. A year later he moved in with my son and I, five years later we have been married for 3 with dd (18 months) and trying for another. He drives me crazy but he's my crazy and I couldn't ask for a better father for both of my kids.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ready-So cute!! It is awesome how we find people and they become the loves of our lives!!

 

[lizlovelust]

Any idea about my chart ladies?

 

[Renaendel]

I think you have an anovulatory cycle and may need provera to get it started again.

 

[lizlovelust]

Thanks ugh this sucks

 

[lizlovelust]

Wow this chat died....

 

[lizlovelust]

Every stinkin chat I join dies! I'm cursed

 

[lorojovanos]

People just get busy Liz, don't take it personal. But also, with you being on here for so long, and people really getting to know you, we're aware of your story and give you advice all the time that you don't seem to take. I won't speak for others, but from myself, when I see you go through the same thing month after month and ask the same questions, and I've given you a straight suggestion and you just ignore it or continue on doing the exact same thing, it's frustrating. You can't keep doing the same thing month after month and expect a different result

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Hey gals hope everyone had a great weekend!! We went camping and on the lake again. Love my summer life!!

Liz-Loro is right, we get the same questions from you all the time and it just kind of gets frustrating we we try to help but you don't listen. We are not doctors and do not know what else to tell you. You need to call your doctor!! I wish you the best of luck in getting pregnant and hope it all works out for you, we just can't keep answering the same question all the time and we have no idea about your cycle. I am sure it is frustrating, as we have all been through not being able to get prego. I think you need to try not to dwell on it so much and seriously call your doctor!

 

[lizlovelust]

I've been tryin different things, I've tried clomid, I've tried primerose, I've tried the BD every other day, we've tried soft cups, I can't force oh to go to the doctor as he's so wiery of them.

 

[lizlovelust]

I just go elsewhere where the ladies will actually be welcoming instead of snoody brats like yourselves

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Liz-I never called names. That isn't fair to call me names. I am trying to help the only way that I know how to. I understand that it is frustrating, unfortunately there isn't much that we can advise you on medically, we will try to help support you through this rough time but we can't help you with your cycle is all I was saying. I am sorry you thought I was being rude.

 

[DragonflyLvr]

Sometimes when people don't get the answers they seek and no one can answer the way they want they end up lashing out at others. Don't worry Mrs. You weren't rude at all. Some people just like to instigate issues because they have no control over their situation so they like to blame others for their short comings.

However, I also believe that all in all we are here for support and people need to realize we are not a medical forum or can adequately give medical advice. I would say if your husband isn't willing Liz to go get help then you need to speak with a counselor with him, him being weary of a doctor is no excuse for you to lash out at the ladies here that are trying to support you.

And yes, I am sure other forums of chats will tickle your fancy because it will be a whole new group of people who don't know your story that you can tell it to and have people show you attention, but, when you continue to ask the same questions and keep doing the same things, they too will stop answering your questions and you will call them snobby and then you will move to another chat and the cycle will start again.

best of luck to you dear, again go to doc and make the hubby go until you really know what is going on medically no one can help you.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Wow, what happened here? Sorry I have bee. Mia, new job+ volunteering all weekend equals no down time for this girl.
Liz-sorry u r feeling frustrated. I don't answer some of the questions as I don't have the answers.
Mrs-u have been anything but rude, u r actually ways very supportive.
We have somehow managed to get on similar cycles so this past week has been pretty uneventful. This week is go time!

 

[lorojovanos]

Liz, I was not being snoody either; you should know me well enough by now. Look how wonderful that Clomid cycle worked for you. I'm just saying, how many cycles did you actually take it? Your temps are so erratic and I suggested you try vaginal. I'm advising you on what I have seen over the last few years being on here with you and every cycle getting the same questions. I do want you to get what you want and if that's having a baby, then please listen to those of us who have been there and at least try what we've suggested. Only very very rarely do things work the first cycle or two of doing it.

And now going back to read your comments about being snoody brats? Really? How old are you? All anyone is trying to do is help but I personally feel like I'm beating my head against a wall...