TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[Mommy_DK]

Peach- hey girly! Sorry about that little spotting that is going on after bd I know that is bothersome, I use to spot very noticeably after bding and my gyn told me it was normal and would probably fix itself...... I tend to be dry sometimes and the friction would cause little bleeds here and there so we started using lube and the spottig stopped, she also said it could be the positioning of the cervix that will cause some spotting after bding. So if it isn't coming out in large amounts and isn't all the time I wouldn't worry Hun, mention it to your dr of course just so she's on the same page. Fx crossed for your test date!

Ren- how's it going honey bun??

Mrs- I really hope your doc can help you figure those dates out! Any updates ?

Baby- I'm so sorry for your bfp babe *big hugs* I am right there with you, I tested early AF isn't due until the 7th but I tested Saturday and this am both BFN....... I am going through it. . I'll go ahead and try to test on the 7th or 8th if AF doesn't show but I normally pick up hormones quickly I feel like it would show in a test by now. All of your symptoms sound really head on. And as for the dreams I truly do feel like they are signs, yours sounds like a warning sign for the future, maybe to just be careful of who you let care for your baby or to just be mindful of your surroundings. I've had dreams before I had kids that I left my kids in the car and someone stole them , I have never ever left them in the car for that reason. My mom use to leave us in the car all of the time to run into the store or into a friends house and I see a lot of people do it but because of that dream I NeVER ever do , not even to hop out and check the mail or even pump the gas they ALL get out and come with me. So yes I would take that dream as a sign for sure. I keep having dreams of a little baby boy all wrapped in a blue blanket and I'm just holding and starring at him but maybe he isn't mine ); my best friend is pg with a boy due in December. Hopefully my dreams will reveal something more! Like if I should keep trying or not

AFM- I let my anxious ways get the best of me this weekend and I tested and got two BFN. I don't mean to give off any negative energy but I am just feeling like maybe I should just stop. Maybe I'm suppose to be doing something else or something bigger is about to happen. It is stressful and discouraging when you try and try and get nothing..... I could be putting this time and energy into something else, don't get me wrong it was worth the try for sure. But if this isn't a BFP I may throw the towel in for a while and refocus my time and energy and just enjoy the 3 babies God already gave me. Sorry if that sounded negative , I just needed to vent

 

[sharsam1]

Hi ladies I am currently at 14dpo of my 2ww! I woke up this morning bad af cramps but no af and I am like clock work....I don't wanna test yet because I don't wanna get my hopes up. I'm pretty sure I ovulated from the right strong ovulation pains with clomid. Most of these cramps are on the left and I notice my breast are tender but not as sore as they usually are b4 af. These cramps are pretty bothersome afraid I am out and the witch is just teasing me by not showing up in the morning! Uggghh.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

You guys see anything?!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

?

 

[Smommy013]

Peach if it was only a spot of blood it may have not been from your cervix.
Bab- sorry to hear about the bfns and it was def weird about the dreams though
Mrs- sorry, I don't see anything but 11 dpo is early!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Thanks Smommy, I'm just shooting in the dark I think. Out of progesterone pills so we'll see when af shows. I'm 12dpo so prob by tue or wed, for sure by Thursday. Hope she's gone by next Sunday!!

 

[MolGold]

I see something! That too on my phone fx Mrs.B! I'm unsure of the color but do test again with fmu.

I'm in the same boat as you. I got a faint line today that I'm unsure of. Fx it's a sticky bfp!

 

[BABTTC123]

Peach- my fx that this is a good sign for you I have a feeling that it is!!

Mommy- Sorry to here about the bfn's as well :hugz: thankfully you are still a week away and have plenty of time for those hormones to rise!! I don't think you should stop ttc unless you honestly feel like it is the right or best choice for you and your family. My dream is to have 4 kids and it sounds like yours is similar, so don't give that up just yet!! and thank you for the reassurance on mine and my friends' dreams. When I was younger I had a few dreams where they came true (aside from the whacky dream stuff, like me turning into a dog..) one that stands out is that I dreamt my neighbor kid and I were walking home Fr school and as he approached his house a big black PitBull came out around a white van and started attacking. Do in dream fashion I morphed into a dog and fought it off lol
the next day I had track practice so I didn't see this happen, but my dad had told me that the neighbor kid was attacked by the neighbors PitBull and that a FedEx driver had to beat the dog off. FedEx vans are white btw. I darn near s**t bricks and told my dad immediately about the dream.
Anyways, sorry for the story lol but I take dreams seriously when they stand out amongst the others, especially in this case, but I am not sure what these dreams meant entirely.

Sarsam- It is best to test and see if it is bfp, if not then wait a few days and test again

Mrs- I thought I seen something at first on the first pic, but I couldn't find it in the second one will you be testing again in a few days if AF doesn't show her face?

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Mg- hope it's your bfp!! Post pics!!
Thanks gals I'll prob test again in am with frer.

 

[Renaendel]

Mg, and mrs burch, ooh I hope this is it for you. I am not sure what I see on that, but there certainly could be something on that test! Bab, sorry it seems like you are irregular again.

Mommy dk, doing good thanks for asking. This is officially the longest I have ever been pregnant without a bleed. I get my third hcg drawn tomorrow and I am so nervous. I hope everything is still doubling perfectly.

 

[Mommy_DK]

Mrs- UuUUmMM is it just me?? Maybe I'm looking at it wrong but that sure as heck is a BFP the way I'm looking at it!! Please let us know tomorrow??! I can't see that not being a bfp ..? Congrats Hun

Bab- Yes I always get so serious about my dreams it drives my DH crazy when I'm trying to figure it out, like the time I dreamt he was cheating..... Hhmmmm.... Lol but I hope your dream was just something like watch out for this or that, it'll come to you soon , Dont let it bother you too much because it normally doesn't happen exactly the same way as it does in our dreams as you know from the dream you had with the dog (scary) lol and Thank you so much for that little piece of encouragement I really really really want nothing more than to have more kids especially because DH and the kids really want me to have more , so for the sake of them of course I'll try a little longer I'm just feeling like crap right now . Are you feeling any better? Anything else going on?

Ren- Yay I'm brightened up a bit with your updates I hope your levels are up where you need them to be and I'm SO glad it's going great! You'll have a happy healthy baby to squeeze in 8 quick months



I bought 3 FRER tests so I'm going to take one on Wednesday that way I'll be more sure of a yes or no.... I'll still test on the 7th too IF AF doesn't show of course

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mommy-I know exactly how you feel. I would love more but as each month goes by with bfn after bfn I think maybe I should stick with what I have and enjoy every min if it. As sept is here my focus is healthy eating and exercising and letting things happen as they may.
Mrs-how did that test dry? Can you take a pic and post?
Ren-I can't wait to hear the next draws numbers, I just know this is it for you!
Peach-I have had that happen before but couldn't tell you why. Fx'd it's cuz you have extra blood pumping through there b/c you have made a baby.
Sorry if I missed people, ds just came in like a whirlwind and I lost my train of thought. Who had the faintbfp? Can u post a pic?
Afm-af came sat as I knew she would. I told dh he needs to cut out the smoking and get his sperm healthy. There is no senses that I make changes if he doesn't as well. I also said if it doesn't happen soon I'm going to stop trying. I'm going to be 37 in feb and I don't want to be 40 with a baby. I don't feel "old" but I am getting to a point where I know I won't want to have any more.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Here it is dry and inverted

 

[Mommy_DK]

Ready- Yes girl, Same boat pretty much, I've made changes but DH hasn't, he smokes , stays up extremely late and doesn't take his vitamins so it's not making much sense on my end either. And I just joined the merrit gym last month it's about time I start using it. I started but then stopped because I wanted to focus all of my energy on TTC , I'm in pretty good shape but I could do better and am curious to see how this body can look , I'd like to explore my full potential so I'm with you on the active healthy lifestyle change and letting things happen if and when they happen

Smommy- hope all is well !

Mrs- I def see a line I just don't understand why it's white.... Or is it just me? 11dpo is early so maybe that's why it's so faint/white...? You should test with me Wednesday it may come back darker then

 

[PeachDaisy]

Mrs - Def see something. Test again in a few days and share again!! FX this is your BFP!

MG - Post pics!!!

AFM - I had a tiny spot of blood in my cm again today. No BD though, so I don't get it! And it was only one time when wiping. This is all soooo weird! My boobs aren't as sore today so that has me worried of course. I'm still sick...my throat is killing me and I have an awful cough. I just wish it were the weekend already so I can know what on earth is going on!

 

[Renaendel]

I see that for sure now mrs!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-That's a pink line girl!!!! I sure hope u r going to poas in the am cuz I am dying to see that line again....eeeee I hope we have another pg lady on here.
Mommy-It's very frustrating when they don't cooperate. Dh thinks we just need to do it every day and bam it will happen. Little does he know that all of his bad habits are working against us. I'm not saying he is all to blame but if I am making changes he needs to as well. We discussed it again tonight and I reiterated that if it doesn't happen soon I'll be done trying.
I'm with you on seeing how I can change my body. I have all my greens, protein and lemon water ready to go.

 

[MolGold]

Ready sorry for AF..

Peach I hope it's a shy bfp in there!

MrsB I do see something.. Does it have color?

Ren can't wait for your hsg numbers.. Yay!

AFM I tested again today with another cheapie and got the same faint 2nd line bit it's pink and fat. The line is darker than in the picture and I hope the tests get darker.. I ordered clearblue plus hpts that should arrive tomorrow. It still hasn't sunk in that this may be my bfp

Fx and to everyone!

 

[Mommy_DK]

Peach- Are you going to the dr or do you plan on calling about it? Don't worry I'm sure it's nothing or a bfp on it's way !

Molgold- Looks good ! I'm sure it'll get darker , How many dpo ?

I just tested again with one of the FRER tests and a bfn , I was hoping for maybe a slight positive but not at all. I should have ovulated on the 23rd according to my Fertility friend I was fertile from the 20th to the 22nd so do I count dpo from the 20th or 23rd? I guess either way would be too early ?

Ready- I am dreading that convo with my DH about giving it a break or accepting it for what it is, he really wanted this and it makes me feel horrible I can't fulfill it for him. But cheers to us! If this isn't our cycle we still have being sexy and fit to look forward to!

 

[PeachDaisy]

Hey ladies! Well yesterdays spotting has a reason now, AF showed her ugly face this morning. Ugh! If I have that spotting after BD again this cycle, I'm definitely going to schedule an appointment with my OBGYN.