TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[ReadynWaiting]

Bab-what is happening at ur appt? I need to be prepared to ask for all things to be checked and don't totally know what I should be asking. Ren gave me some things to ask.
Mrs-i think that dream sounds great and hopefully is a glimpse in to ur near future.
I would like to know what the 21 day fix is.

 

[BABTTC123]

Ready- honeatly I am a little unsure... I know that I am going to discuss having her badger my insurance to have them approve certain meds to take care of the symptoms of pcos, and then we will discuss what my options are for fertility treatment and how we will bill it. I am hoping that she will bill it as pcos treatment, which it is, and that we can possibly find a loop hole with my insurance so that I can at least get partial coverage. We will see what happens with that part of it, but I expect to be paying out of pocket for the meds.
I am going to do some research on what I should ask her in regards to the fertility testing. I have a slight idea but am still very much lost #_#

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ok so the 21 day fix is an eating program. It has containers that are coordinated for carbs, veggies, etc and what you fit into that container is what you can eat for the day. It also has a 30 minute workout for everyday so it isn't a diet, it is a change in lifestyle and eating habits. I should have mine in on Friday, I am pretty excited to start it. I have included the links so you guys can look it over and see what it says better than what I am explaining it to you. https://www.beachbodycoach.com/amandabond24 this is the link to look around and see what all they offer now I am only doing this https://www.teambeachbody.com/shop/-/shopping/21DayFix?referringRepId=488131

I am not doing the shakeology, I need to eat lol

Bab-I am going to dr next week and will have to discuss the whole insurance thing with him too, not looking forward to it. I hope you get answers and get everything figured out.

Ready-I would be sure to have them check your FSH, estrogen and progesterone I think those are the three most important hormones in ttc, I am sure you are aware of this already.

I am not 100% sure I am going to try this month. I am sick of the waiting and hoping game, I think I need a break plus we are having a big party for dh on Nov 1 and it will be in my tww and I will want to drink and I won't drink if I know I am in the tww. I know I sound like an alcoholic but I really don't drink very often and that is why I want to so bad at the party. All my friends will be there and I don't want to be Sober Sally, she just sucks!! lol Anyways so I guess we will see. I will go to dr to make sure I am open anyways but not sure that I will bd or I won't make it a priority anyways, dh doesn't know and will be upset if we don't "try". He is really wanting this and I get it, I want it too but he doesn't live his life 2 weeks at a time and wait for those damn lines on the damn tests. Can you tell I am over it? lol Any who hope you gals have had a great week!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-i totally get the not want to try any more. I ov'd Mon and we only bd fri and sun b/c I'm so over it.
I also get that not wanting to live by 2 week increments. ..I hate it. I start my personal training tomorrow and therefore a new diet lifestyle. The fact that I'm not happy with the ttc I am eating crap to make myself feel better...its not working.
A friend from work has been ttc for over 10 yrs and just had her first ivf last week. I am hoping and praying it works for her. I would take another bfn to give her a bfp. That is way too long to wait for a baby. I couldn't imagine.

 

[BABTTC123]

Mrs- it sounds like a good program! I need to learn how to portion more, but I think my body naturally does it on occassion :3 the past week I haven't been able to hardy eat at all! Not going to lie, I actually like this! Lol but I know that soon I am going to crave anything and everything x( I can feel it beginning... haha
I can sort of relate to beING tired of ttc.. I TRY to take breaks when needed but it usually fails because I can't stop thinking about getting pregnant!! I am having a hard enough time ntnp right now.. January is too far away but hubby insists that we wait before full out ttc again. :'(

Ready- Glad to hear that you are looking to start a healthier lifestyle as well! I need to buck up and work out again lol I haven't touched a kinect game I bought earlier this month to work out to lol
I hope your friend conceives! I see a lot of women who try for that long and it scares me that it could take that long for me, or just never happen I over think about this stuff though...

Afm- af is officially gone! She left the other day but now everything is back to normal and ready for action! Let's see if I can sneak in some bd close to ov time hehehe

 

[Mommy_DK]

Hi everyone! So glad to be back and read everyone is doing well!

I have had my hands full with the kids, my sons bowel condition isn't getting better and I've been taking him to see more drs and he has a new specialist. My daughter is developing the same condition ): and I've been studying for my CMA state board exam and getting ready for the holidays yay!! I love this time of yr!

Peach- Hey honey! Do u have fever ? Chills? I'd go see the doc ASAP! Just to be on the safe side , I hope it is preggo rash! I had a rash with my son on my calves and back it was itchy but then not at all and lasted about one week doc said it was hormones reacting and I dont believe I was showing yet so it was fairly early on . Fx crossed !

Liz- sorry I had a lot going on not to mention a really hard time trying to log back in and change password . I'm sure the being busy part stands true for most of us, life just gets busy ! Hoping through the holidays I get more Down time. Hope you find the answers you're looking for

Mrs- Don't think you were being rude at all, I think you handled the situation well ! And I love love your story very sweet.

Bab- Hey baby doll! I'm glad AF is gone! Sneak in some preseed too (-; hehe

All of your stories are very cute and movie like...Makes mine and DHs story seem so dull and trashy /: lol

Btw I am late by about one week so I'm going to test tonight **Please let this be it** I know it sounds silly but I won't be too disappointed if it's BFN because this isn't our month to concieve a boy. <<<Go Ahead , I know someone disagrees with me in some way about my wanting a boy over a girl lol

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Hi Mommy! I hope no one is judging you because of your preferences? Any luck on the test?

 

[BABTTC123]

Hi mommy!
Test test test!! Why haven't you already??
And I understand where you are coming fron. I want one of each to start, after that I would prefer to have a couple more boys so 3 boys and 1 girl is what I want but I will happily take whatever I am given!

Afm- bd last night I think he is starting to get baby fever because he has been more into things lately :3 fingers crossed that this ntnp can end early!

 

[Renaendel]

No judging here mommy. We can't know your family dynamic, no one can but you what would work best.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Ren how are u doing?

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Hey gals, hope you all had a great weekend!! We have stayed very busy, we are redoing our circle drive area. I'll post a pic! I am super excited about it!

Mommy-I hope no one is giving you trouble, we all want what we want!! I would like a boy then a girl and one more boy, I will take whatever but if I have two girls I am not sure that I will try again for a boy because holly mosses three girls would be a crazy house!! Not that boys wouldn't be crazy too but we have a farm that I could send them to to work out their energy.

Ready-How are you? Did you O this weekend? I am Oing tomorrow so I think you are usually right before me!

Bab-Yay for dh being more sexy! Maybe he just needed sex to be sex and not baby sex?! I know for my dh he doesn't always want to know that sex is for baby sex, there is just something not fun about it.

Ren-How are you doing?! Hope better!! I have a quick question if you don't mind.... So my dr is going to put me on Fermera, if we don't get a BFP this month. What are your side effects and how long do they last? I am asking because I am currently on Progesterone 200mg for 13 days after O and it is horrible. I have to take it at night because it makes me so tired I can hardly keep my eyes open, dizzy, nauseous, I break out like a middle schooler and don't even talk about the mood swings-I get very depressed and cry all the time. Needless to say I hate it. See now I only have to deal with it for 2 weeks then I get a break and I am just nervous that when I start the Fermera it will be like that all month long and I don't know how I'll be able to handle it. I am not a depressed person, I am usually very outgoing and happy so it is really hard for me when I go through that phase.

AFM-I went to dr again today, he wanted me to come back to make sure my cervix was still open and she is in business, so bd tonight, we did this weekend too so fx, but not holding my breath!! Hope you gals have a great week and it goes by quickly.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Here is before and after. Not all done yet. DH is building me a 6ftx6ft table to go in between the benches and we are having clean rock come this week to fill in the wall space, rock that can be walked on and looks pretty. Also dh is building a fire pit, custom with our last name!! i am super excited!!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-that looks amazing! It's nice when stuff gets done to improve your house.
Good news on the cervix, i really hope this is it for you.
Afm-i am 7 dpo and go to see my dr tomorrow to discuss what is going on with me. I hope she will test all that she can so i can get things started. I have some interesting "symptoms" today that give me that hope that i seem to muster around 7/8 dpo each cycle-frequent urination, sore throat, ridiculously thirsty, dull pressure in lower abdomen, temp shot up .2 C. Time will tell.
On another note, my friend that was having ivf this month after 10 yrs of ttc is pregnant! !! I'm so incredibly happy for her i could explode! That's such a long time to wait and i just hope it all works out for her.

 

[Wishing_]

Hey ladies. I believe I'm 9 dpo. Not much any symptoms. Just nausea, weirdness in lower abdominal, sore throat, frequent urination but like a lot and it's longer than usual as well, and I'm always tired. I sleep like a hibernating bear, hehe.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ready-Yay for you friend, that is awesome!! How was your dr apt?

Wishing-keep us posted.

AFM-I O'd yesterday but we didn't bd yesterday, it was 10 when dh got home and I was already asleep and it was midnight before he came to bed. He woke me up and I said no, he needed to come to be earlier, so that tells you how over it I am at this point. I had NO desire to try last night. We did this weekend and Monday so in two weeks we will find out I guess. I go Monday for the 21 day progesterone draw and then will test on the 1st and go from there, if bfn start femara and if bfp well hopefully have a baby in 9 months lol

 

[Wishing_]

When I went to the loo this morning I had cramps and a pressure feeling while i was leaking. Never experienced something like that before. Also, i has a vivid dream were i was having ib bleeding at 10 dpo. Which is today! I think. I'm getting excited for no reason....

& fx Mrs

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-my appt was pointless...which i anticipated. She basically said I'm getting older and so are my eggs. She said my periods are super regular and there are no signs of issues so just keep trying. It can be determined as unexplained until everything has been tested, no? I'm going to call my gp and ask for a referral to another gyno or re.
My friend that had ivf has all of her meds left so i was thinking of buying some from her. The one is to help uterine lining and the other helps "to get pregnant". Ill research it first and if its not safe I won't.
I've been having lots of "symptoms" the past 2 days and have a triphasic chart so of course I've peed on a bizillion sticks...bfn. I'm 8 or 9dpo so super early. I'm sure I'm not but I like to hope.

 

[Smommy013]

Hey ladies! Good to see you all!! Sorry I have been MiA. I had my baby shower this weekend and poor dh could not handle all the girl stuff lol!!

Ready- sorry about your obgyn not being helpful

Mrs- I got pregnant two days before I ovilated. So not having sex ok the day is ok. Hopefully. This is the month and if not some medicine will start you going in the right direction!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ready-sorry to hear about your dr. that is awful, I can't believe that they didn't even do any tests. Hopefully you won't have to worry about it and your bfp is right around the corner. I think if you research the meds, I don't know why they would hurt, since it is what she took to get prego.....that being said I am not a dr and have no idea.

Smommy-Yay for baby showers, hope you got lots of goodies! Is she starting to kick and move yet?

AFM- just chillin. I have been stalking the preg test page, just to see two lines! I am not too hopeful since we didn't do it but I know it can still happen. I am taking temps this month so who knows...only time and God I suppose.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Smommy-how r things going? It sounds like u have been busy. It was just like xmas when i had my showers. So fun! You must be feeling her kicking in there now?
Mrs-thats kind of what i was thinking about the meds. They are a really standard dosage and really just help increase the lining to allow bean to burrow in.
All symptoms i had are gone and now I'm just waiting for af.