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[ab75]

Been losing lots of plug all day so hopefully he won't be too much longer lol xx

 

[ab75]

Ready, that'll be a lovely gift for your dh. I don't think I could keep my mouth shut that long lol xx

 

[Wishing_]

Omg AB it's going to be happening real soon!
My cousin lost her plugs in the shower and she went into labor about 3-8 hours later.
Good luck girl! Can't wait to hear all about it.

 

[ab75]

Thanks wishing. Lost my plug with dd1 the week before she was born and never lost it with dd2 until she shot out so just a waiting game now xx

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Ab-ur body is gearing up! I'm so excited for you and hope all goes quickly!
Wishing-glad school is over for you, I'm sure that is a relief. Is dh doing anything to help improve the swimmers or is there anything that can be done?
Bab-pos opk yet???
Afm-I spoke with my midwife today and will see her after my u/s Jan 8!! I had an ectopic before dd so they let me book one to make sure all is in order. Typically u don't see the midwife until 10 weeks and u/s is 12 months but I can't wait that long...I would be mental! Lol I told my sister tonight so I don't feel so sneaky but starting to avoid dh lol. He's going to be on to me soon enough!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

*12 weeks

 

[BABTTC123]

Mrs- No O yet, I ovukated at cd , 14 last time, so I should ovulate at least by tomorrow and have a fun Christmas Eve
Your mini vacation with dh sounds amazing! I hope you have a great time! :3

Wishing- Sorry to hear that he hasn't been in the mood
I broke down a couple times over the weekend, I am guessing clomid is making my extra emotional lol but I had told my husband the other night, while in tears, that him never being in the mood makes me feel ugly and like he isn't attracted to me..
Try to enjoy Christmas! Take your hubby out to do something fun that day
If you happen to get a white Christmas make him play with you in the snow and just feel like kids again! Being an adult SUCKS and sometimes we just need to be young for a little while.

Smommy- You sound prepared xD
when I conceive and start planning I am going to need LOTS of advice! Hubby wants me to do it all natural because he is scared of epidurals after his sister had one that almost left her paralyzed. It took a week for the effects to wear off.
I don't want one either, but idk what options I have for pain relief that won't make me pass out xD

Ab- OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG!!!
He's coming!!! Get that pool set up!!

Ready- Not yet! But it should be by tomorrow :3
That is funny that you are sneaking around just so you can surprise hubby xD
What will your excuse me for Christmas and new years?? He may figure it out if you aren't drinking lol

afm- Opk's are pretty light but they did this last time right before O! So fx that it happens tomorrow!

Hubby actually dtd with me last without me asking ir trying to lead onto it.
I am guessing my crying sessions sunk in xD
I have been beyond emotional and I am not liking it at all.. Hopefully we conceive this cycle so it's not all in vain!
I've been trying to keep myself distracted lately.
I need to crochet some snowmen together for presents for my family. They will be stuffed with Chocolate and have a button at the bottom :3
Not going so well so far haha

I got my first Christmas present already (dh and I are a bit untraditional lol) it is a 12 hole ceramic ocarina! I have learned all the notes already and a few songs, in just one night, but I have trouble with the high notes. But I was trying not to wake the neighbors so maybe during the day with be best to practice? lol

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Bab-I know exactly how u feel. When we were ttc dd it became such a chore and dh wasn't his usual self wanting to dtd. After a couple months I said the same kind of thing that u did and he said he felt so pressured it was hard to get in the move. That's when I stopped being so neurotic and telling him we had bizness to do. Instead I would just surprise him with little make out sessions that turned in to more.
This time it happened the wknd that we were away for our first xmas party, had drinks and acted like kids lol.
Tomorrow will be my challenge as far as keeping him unsuspicious. We have xmas at my dads and there is usually lots of wine flowing. Dd has been sick so I may place the "caught her cold" card. I'll give him the digi xmas am so the 2 dinners to follow he will be in the know.
I told my mom today and she was super excited!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mommy-how are you? Have you just been busy with xmas preparations?

 

[Wishing_]

So mother nature decided to give me the worlds greatest gift a female can get... the came early... late-ish... The hubby didn't get to see the doctor. There was only two of them working and they closed before seeing him and three other guys. I personally think it's b.s. but whatever.

I just found out through instagram a old friend of mine is having a boy and is naming him Oliver. I even found another friend from high school who's married and has a baby girl. My friend who recently started dating her ... I think second last ex and they want a baby. Her baby with her last ex is going to turn one next month.

I'm so happy for everyone who's getting bfp and celebrating holidays with their little ones, and I'm here trying to stay sane. Hubby is smoking and drinking now. It's hard to deal with this, but at least we know why we never gotten pregnant. I think I'll lose it if my friend gets pregnant again. She had like 3 abortions already and... ugh...

I'm so sorry for venting. I need some starbucks brownies to cheer me up but it's raining. Dam rain.

 

[BABTTC123]

Ready- I am so proud of my of hubbies efforts! He is remembering that we need to dtd every night for this week and has been thinking of ways to keep it fun for him.
That would be a good excuse! I am still getting over the cold I caught 2 while weeks ago! When I had it I really didn't want to do anything. I was exhausted and even though it was a cold I still felt nauseas at times and had some other flu like symptoms, if you know what I mean.
Anyways...... I think you can totally play that up! But start the morning of the party!!

Wishing- Is this his normal doctor?? That is extremely poor customer service! They need to finish seeing the patients that have already arrived and signed in!
I hate when businesses do this crap!
Glad to hear that the witch officially stopped by, this way you know exactly where you are in this cycle :3
Sorry to hear about hubby smoking and drinking I hope he knows that is probably what has made his sperm count low and weak. It takes 3 months for toxins like that to fully leave your system, so after that his sperm should start looking better. Also, if he takes more zinc it should help quite a bit! I also think they have fertility vitamins made for men....
I understand how you feel about seeing people get pregnant and not want the kid. It seems to be happening all around me right now ugh...
A coworker just found out his gf is 19 weeks pregnant and they had no idea! They were using the depo shot to prevent.

afm- We had another successful bd last night and I am stilling waiting to O! My cp is high-medium-medium and my cm is ew! Cp just needs to go soft and open so that my chances are much more increased! I expect to ovulate today or tomorrow. So my fingers are tightly crossed!!!
I still need to finish making everyones Christmas presents before a Christmas party tonight x( ahh!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Bab-u guys are going to make it happen! Ur body seems to be cooperating which is good. Come on Christmas conception!!!
Wishing-there is nothing worse than people that taking getting pg for granted.
I want to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas! I hope you all enjoy the holidays however you are celebrating and for those of you working on ur bfp...baby dust to you. This has been a year filled with ups and downs for us all but I am so grateful to have had you to discuss and deal with my ups and downs. Xo

 

[Renaendel]

Wishing all of you lovely ladies a very merry Christmas.

 

[Wishing_]

I'n going to be aunt! My brother called me and was like "Amber (his wife, newly weds since Friday of last week) is going to send something. I knew right off the bat. With her giggling after I told her I'm a thousand percent sure what it is. He never calls me so of course it was the big give away. I was right. The found out today. I'm the second to know. He informs me of everything. No one else in my family knows they're married and now expecting. As much as I'm happy for them it just bummed me out even more!

Bab- I know about the Zinc. I actually Google it and there is about 6, give or take, supplements he can take. At the end of the day he has to take the step to actually purchase it.
Fx that you get your bfp this cycle!! It's always good to dtd before you O. The chance are higher.

Anyways, Merry Xmas eve and soon to be Xmas. Happy holidays ladies!
Ready- let us know how you tell to hubby!

 

[BABTTC123]

Ready- Merry Christmas to you as well!!
My opk's are extremely light today
I am hoping that they get stronger as the day goes on..
Oh well, I need to focus on getting all these Christmas presents completed! lol

 

[BABTTC123]

I still haven't ovulated yet :/ went ahead and took a test this morning (despite peeing an hour before hand) and it looked a little darker than the others. I am hoping that it is supposed to be more dark than that since my pee was diluted a bunch. Won't be able to get in a mid day test because my boss hss me working out of the office today.
Hubby is starting to get worn out from bding. Anyone have suggestions to help him out? I've been trying to keep it fresh but honestly I am getting pretty worn out as well! lmao

How was everyones Christmas??

We ended up getting some pretty awesome gifts My mom got us a LARGE slow cooker and recipe book! My Grandma knitted me a seahawks scarf, hat and gloves that I have gotten a ton of compliments from already. My aunt got us a salt lamp. Apparently it acts as an air purifier so I am excited to give it a try! We haven't been able to put anything away though x_x

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Hey gals hope you all had a great Christmas!! Dh got me remote start for my car, I've wanted it since I was 16!!! We are getting ready to head to Branson for the weekend too! I'm pretty spoiled. Hope you all got to spend time with friends and family.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Bab-It's possible to miss the surge and not see the positive opk. It's hard keeping things going dtd after days of doing it for a purpose. We had drinks lol. Sounds like u had a great Christmas.
Mrs-Happy to hear you have had a great Christmas too. My next vehicle will have all those fun gadgets. U are almost to 2nd tri!!
Afm-It's been a busy few days, 3 Christmases, 2 turkey dinners and lots of gifts. I have been feeling nervous with this pregnancy. Symptoms come and go and it's been totally different from dd. I took a cb digi mon and got a 2-3 which is good but I'm worried. I have an u/s in 12 days but that seems forever away.
I hope everyone had a great Christmas!

 

[BABTTC123]

Mrs- Sounds like you had an awesome Christmas!! My boss has a remote start and I am pretty jealous xD it comes in handy when the temperature drops below freezing lol

Ready- I hope that is all it is! I haven't taken any tests yet today, but last night I had ewcm again.

I am sure that everything is fine with your pregnancy :3
They say that each one is uniquely different, so maybe you will gey lucky and NOT experience a bunch of symptoms?
And who knows, maybe it happens to be a boy??
I have heard that boys give women fewer symptoms than girls do. But that is probably just a myth lol

 

[BABTTC123]

ABOUT TIME!!! Took a test and I'm ovulating!!!!