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[Renaendel]

I just had a ton of red blood. I think I am 5.5 DPO. Is this too early for IB? My only bfp was over a year and a half ago I just can't remember.

 

[persephone13]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I've still got a bit of pink watery spotting, it hasn't gotten darker or heavier yet so I am really trying to be positive. All of your messages really help too. I was worried because I kept having cramps and back pain so I really thought this was it, then I realized that I had had a BM all day…so I think maybe some of this is gas/constipation too.

 

[Renaendel]

Ohh goodness I just want you to be ok.

 

[Smommy013]

I hope everyhing is ok perse!! Let us know.

Ren, I have never had a bfp so I couldn't tell you.
Ready, I will be testing Tuesday or so..

My infection is better but today has been shitty to say the least.. My backpack got stolen from my car in front of my house. It had ally law school work in it.

 

[Mommy_DK]

I just had a ton of red blood. I think I am 5.5 DPO. Is this too early for IB? My only bfp was over a year and a half ago I just can't remember.

Ren - when are you testing ? This too sounds like the woman who had a gush of bright red blood early on and discovered later that it was implantation. Is AF ever early for you?

 

[Renaendel]

She was early once but the blood has eased up. I am 6-7 dpo so still have 3 days before I start testing formally with FMU.

 

[Mommy_DK]

She was early once but the blood has eased up. I am 6-7 dpo so still have 3 days before I start testing formally with FMU.

Yay for testing in a few days!! I hope this is implantation for you Ren!!

 

[persephone13]

Back from the Doctor's. He doesn't seem to concerned about anything. He did send me for an ultrasound and quantitative blood work. The ultrasound technician said that based on the measurements I am much earlier than I thought. She said I am about 4 weeks.

THIS MAKES NO SENSE TO ME.

How is that even possible if I had a BFP on Feb 28th? I am so confused and I feel like crying. I guess maybe it could have stopped growing at 4 weeks? Now I just have to wait to hear from the doctor which won't be until Monday I think.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Perse-check out www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com. You are very early yet and depending on where bean is and where your uterus sits they may not be able to see anything yet.
Smommy-I'm excited for tests. Come on Tuesday!
Ren-totally not too early for ib...I soooo hope this is the case and this wknd or next week a bfp happens

 

[Mommy_DK]

Hope everyone is doing alright

Update: I won't be having a baby in November. I'm either having a mc or I got two false faint positives it hurts really bad. I feel hopeless, I've never gone through such disappointment. I don't feel like a woman anymore . I guess everything for a reason though.. God knows better than I do and I'm sure he will give me my baby boy when it's time

 

[persephone13]

Hope everyone is doing alright

Update: I won't be having a baby in November. I'm either having a mc or I got two false faint positives it hurts really bad. I feel hopeless, I've never gone through such disappointment. I don't feel like a woman anymore . I guess everything for a reason though.. God knows better than I do and I'm sure he will give me my baby boy when it's time

I am sending you so much love right now. I'm finally home from my second trip to the ER. I felt like I was being ripped apart. TMI - I passed a very large clot at the hospital, size of a golf ball. Most of the severe cramping stopped then. Now just bleeding bright red blood. Going back to hospital tomorrow for ultrasound to see if it was the pregnancy that I passed. Unfortunately I wasn't able to see if the clot had tissue in it. It's been such a long day. I'm so drained, physically and emotionally.

 

[Renaendel]

I am sorry for both of you. You are in my thoughts. Losses are never easy. Whether it is your first child or your fourth. We are here for you.

 

[Mommy_DK]

Perse- I am sending you love and hugs too, I feel ripped apart with you, how do we get over knowing something we wanted was given to us and then just ripped away. Why is it not happening for us like it is for some of the women out here who don't even want it?

I feel better knowing I have you all to lean on. I appreciate you all very much. I am sure one day it'll all make sense, maybe we're going through it so that we'll look back and really appreciate our little miracles and be more than grateful. But right now it's hard to grip all of this.

Ren- Thank you, loses are hard and so is waiting. I am just praying for the day that we are looking back saying 'I'm so glad you're here , I waited so long for you'

I hope I don't sound ungrateful and really hope I haven't offended anyone. I am very blessed to have the 3 little miracles we have today . I know that some of you are going through or have gone through much more than I have with TTC and I take my hat off to you ladies. I'm sobbing over trying for just 3 months with no success and some of you probably laugh at that, it's just new to me . Please forgive me if I've offended anyone

 

[Renaendel]

Never laughing. Loss sucks no matter what your family is like. That's like saying a grandparents death doesn't hurt as much because one person has 3 others. The loss is still there and it doesn't feel different. I lost twins last year and it has been 16 months of trying for number 1. I am sure I would cry just as hard at number 4. You certainly haven't offended. This is your time to grieve, don't let others minimize it.

This is the best group of ladies with losses on b&b. Feel free to join if you need support.

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/t...rainbow-join-us-34-ladies-so-far-10-bfps.html

 

[ab75]

So sorry for all your losses. xx

 

[persephone13]

Just got it confirmed by doctor at ER. No sign of intrauterine or ectopic pregnancy. Waiting to see if I need the RH shot...

 

[Renaendel]

I am so sorry Persephone!

 

[persephone13]

I am so sorry Persephone!

I pretty much thought so, but I still had a bit of hope.

 

[Renaendel]

The invitation is for you too. Join me in the mama bears rainbow forum. It just isn't like the other loss forums. There is a ton of love and support there and we stick together as we all try to get pregnant again. We even have a graduate group set up so we can stay together.

 

[Smommy013]

I am so sorry about your loss pers and mommy. I couldn't imagine. We are all here for both of you. It's ok to vent mommy. You have just as much right. A loss is a loss no matter if you have three or 15 kids previously. Rens analogy is right on.