The Baby Book by Dr. Sears is awesome! It literally has everything in there you'd ever want to know about infant and toddler care, from developmental milestones and play, health issues, baby care, CPR and first aid, sections on sleep, bonding, nutrition and weaning, babyproofing, relationship issues with your partner etc. Of course, it does come from an attachment parenting angle, but unless you are a strict 'cry it out' 'babies shouldn't be held or it will spoil them' kinda person, you'll find it appeals to you. I only just bought it recently (my daughter is 3 mo), but wish I'd gotten it while I was still pregnant. It's like a reference book (it's probably like 800 pages) so you don't have to read the whole thing, just look up and read the parts you need.