Tink84
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I really feel like sitting a crying
We made a choice to stay team yellow but today my sister has found out she is team pink I've devastated even though it's the first niece on my side of the family I can't even bare to congratulate her right now.
We don't know what were having and we too could be team pink but today it hit me just how much I want a daughter and OH has admitted his devastation in finding out their having a girl too.
We have both said all along that were not bothered etc but the truth be known we both long for a girl and I'm not sure how we'll react if it's a boy.
He's getting himself worked right up at not being able to love a son as much as he would a daughter.
As awful as it sounds I desperately wanted her to have a boy or for them not to find out the sex. I'm devastated that they are getting all the lime light because there having a girl which both families desperately wanted. Now I feel that my baby no matter whether it's a boy or girl will be pushed out
Sorry to vent on here ladies but everytime I even think about her having a daughter the tears start. In my opinion she only got pregnant because all her firends were - childish I know but she seemed to fall pregnant instantly and it took us 8 months to concieve etc.
I know we are having this baby for all the right reasons etc and I really wish I could help how I feel. Never thought I would be the jealous type
Thank you for reading this
We made a choice to stay team yellow but today my sister has found out she is team pink I've devastated even though it's the first niece on my side of the family I can't even bare to congratulate her right now.
We don't know what were having and we too could be team pink but today it hit me just how much I want a daughter and OH has admitted his devastation in finding out their having a girl too.
We have both said all along that were not bothered etc but the truth be known we both long for a girl and I'm not sure how we'll react if it's a boy.
He's getting himself worked right up at not being able to love a son as much as he would a daughter.
As awful as it sounds I desperately wanted her to have a boy or for them not to find out the sex. I'm devastated that they are getting all the lime light because there having a girl which both families desperately wanted. Now I feel that my baby no matter whether it's a boy or girl will be pushed out
Sorry to vent on here ladies but everytime I even think about her having a daughter the tears start. In my opinion she only got pregnant because all her firends were - childish I know but she seemed to fall pregnant instantly and it took us 8 months to concieve etc.
I know we are having this baby for all the right reasons etc and I really wish I could help how I feel. Never thought I would be the jealous type
Thank you for reading this