Naturalmystic
Punky mommy
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I think thats actually the best reason to create a seperate area. Those that dont want to read dont need to pick through these posts in the tri-forums or pregnancy club, they have the option to not see them at all if they are in a seperate place.
We have a place to celebrate for those who have been TTC, it would be nice to have a place for those who werent to express how they feel too where they wont be judged by people who might struggle to understand their point of view, because of how they feel about their own pregnancy/ TTC journey
This is exactly my point. I think that it will be nice to have a place where I can talk about the good days and bad days of being pregnant without someone saying how I should be grateful to be pregnant, now don't get me wrong I am grateful but there are days when I feel so overwhelmed and I just need someone to say it is going to be alright.
I really think that its difficult for someone who never had an unplanned pregnancy to understand the range of emotions that comes with it. My opinion is that it is really unfair to have ladies who are going through this to have to always be surrounded by all the excitement of those who actually were TTC because it makes you feel more guilty for not being happier.
Maybe a forum like this can be members only so ladies who may be offended cannot accidentally come across these posts.
As for the 'A' word I think that a forum like this can actually help prevent some people from even considering the big 'A' if they have a place to express themselves and get support in the first critical days after getting their BFP.