oliviarose
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I think it would be an excellent idea... Going through now it first hand I totally understand it......
We found out on Mon that I am expecting again and boy are we not happy about it (me more so). We had decided last month that we didn't want anymore children (currently have two)... We realised that we couldn't comfortably afford another one and our DS (19 months) is such hard work, we didn't want to put even more stress onto our family..... It took 9 months to fall pregnant with DS, so having only DTD twice since we decided no more babies how the hell did we fall pregnant.... DS so wanted and months of trying.... It seems so unfair......
This pregnancy is still not wanted on my part (don't get me wrong I will never consider the A word) and it is going to take a long while for me to come to terms with it........ And I feel so awful for saying this... It is also a honeymoon baby which makes these feelings even worse
I know that every baby is a blessing, but in my mind my family was complete... We had decided what memories we were going to make as a family... They aren't going to be possible now as we won't be able to afford it....... I know that money isn't everything, but I don't want my children going without..........
I feel so lonely at the moment, I have no one to talk to... So a section like this would be wonderful for me......
We found out on Mon that I am expecting again and boy are we not happy about it (me more so). We had decided last month that we didn't want anymore children (currently have two)... We realised that we couldn't comfortably afford another one and our DS (19 months) is such hard work, we didn't want to put even more stress onto our family..... It took 9 months to fall pregnant with DS, so having only DTD twice since we decided no more babies how the hell did we fall pregnant.... DS so wanted and months of trying.... It seems so unfair......
This pregnancy is still not wanted on my part (don't get me wrong I will never consider the A word) and it is going to take a long while for me to come to terms with it........ And I feel so awful for saying this... It is also a honeymoon baby which makes these feelings even worse
I know that every baby is a blessing, but in my mind my family was complete... We had decided what memories we were going to make as a family... They aren't going to be possible now as we won't be able to afford it....... I know that money isn't everything, but I don't want my children going without..........
I feel so lonely at the moment, I have no one to talk to... So a section like this would be wonderful for me......