Hi, I dont know where to put this - hope its ok here.
I have a decision to make and I am really not sure what to do. I already have 5 children (ranging from the age of 7-19). My partner is much younger than I - he is only 23 and has no biological kids of his own. He says he would be happy if we did or didnt have more children, which kinda leads to more confusion on my part. If I decide to have more it needs to be now, as I am already 36!
I just dont know what to do. On the one hand I have brought all of the kids up on my own (which is hard) and am now feeling like I have more space and time for me (now that they are older and the younger ones see their dad every other weekend). But I would hate for my partner to be missing out just because I am older and already have so many kids.
I know this is a ramble - I have tried to talk to him and he says that he would be happy either way. No help what-so-ever!
Do you think I should give him a child of his own?
Thank you for reading
I have a decision to make and I am really not sure what to do. I already have 5 children (ranging from the age of 7-19). My partner is much younger than I - he is only 23 and has no biological kids of his own. He says he would be happy if we did or didnt have more children, which kinda leads to more confusion on my part. If I decide to have more it needs to be now, as I am already 36!
I just dont know what to do. On the one hand I have brought all of the kids up on my own (which is hard) and am now feeling like I have more space and time for me (now that they are older and the younger ones see their dad every other weekend). But I would hate for my partner to be missing out just because I am older and already have so many kids.
I know this is a ramble - I have tried to talk to him and he says that he would be happy either way. No help what-so-ever!
Do you think I should give him a child of his own?
Thank you for reading
