Upset and annoyed with care ...

[Cuffy]

Ahh your at the same stage as me!! It's quite nice to know someone else is having the dreaded bh etc! And the pelvic pain I never had any of this last time but maybe it's completely normal for us? We should only be another 6 weeks if we are lucky but do you get the feeling it won't be that long? Strange question but the whole way through I've had it in my head I needed everything done by 30 weeks and even now I feel like it will be sooner rather than later!

You've done so well keeping your boys in, you really did have a bumpy time early doors. Tough cookies they are that's what I keep telling myself! I wonder which one of us will go first, being as we're only a day different in due dates!

 

[Eternal]

i know its crazy how our pregnancies have been so simular, except my surgery and your GD.

Ive kept saying i bet ill get induced as my son was 40+6, but im so un-prepared this time i think its sods law they will coem early lol!

part of me wants it over, so much pain, BHs, back ache, pelvis etc, i have literally no energy at all! But i really want to get to 34 weeks, im sure by the time i get there ill really want them out lol! im happy to go to 37, but the amount of pain im in and looking after a toddler i just dont know how i can do it!

Im so hoping we start painting the babies room tomorrow, my OH is working but my dad says he can come over for a bit, plaster is looking good to paint! yipee! So much to do, havent even thought about my hospital bag lol!

Its so cool your having one of each! Im really over the moon with having boys but i would have loved one of each!

 

[Cuffy]

Ahhh that will be lovely once you have their room done, you'll probably get inspired then to do your hospital bag and be ready to roll-as it were!
We went with an animals them seemed safe!

I was delighted when we found out who was who, I was so worried what with ds being 7 the age gap would be big and then if the twins were same sex he might get left out but this way he will have his own bond with each of them! You're very lucky your little boy is going to love his brothers and their bond will be amazing!

I'm hardly doing anything I feel so lazy but if I do get carried away I then can't move cos of the pain and I'm sure it will only get worse yet-so yea I'm happy to go to 37 but the relief will be immense when these two are out! Do you find you already know who has what personality? Our wee man is very shy but the girl is so bossy and we can tell who is going to rule the roost just have to prepare my ds for it I think!

 

[Eternal]

Twin A is mega wriggly, think he will be a busy boy like my son, twin B is much quieter, at least i hope so as three busy boys would be impossible lol!

I spent most of the night in tears, the pain everywhere was so bad, i ache everywhere even my fingers, I have backache, and that pain runs down my legs, i was having intense BHs, and each side i lay the baby would go crazy, eso my left. Then when i was just about asleep baby A would move and kick my bladder and i HAD to go! eck! im exhurtsed!

30 weeks still seems sooooooooo early arh! Also because OH is working shift (for the past weeks and next 3 weeks, i dont get a lay in as he is working. Then my son is a mega handful, the amount of times i fixed this or that, and had to climb on and off the floor! eck!

The house is despirate for the hoover to go around but i have no energy and it hurts so much, and my mum would come round and help bless her, but she is disabled and just had cancer growths cut out so actually i dont want her to come and help here when it should be me over there helping.

Sorry, just having a rant, im tired and sore, i know you know how it is.

 

[Cuffy]

You poor thing you have plenty on your plate sweetie! Don't worry about the hoovering too much, it'll keep & maybe dh could help you out before or after a shift? I feel guilty asking my dh but I don't think it's a choice we have anymore!

It must be so hard trying to keep up with a toddler knowing you can't really and feeling you can't do what you want to with ds because of pg. I know I feel guilty all the time and find myself saying no or I can't or not yet.

Not long though hun 6 weeks and we will be the other side heads spinning wondering what on earth we had to complain about while we learn to juggle 2 newborns and having 3 children!

 

[Eternal]

You poor thing you have plenty on your plate sweetie! Don't worry about the hoovering too much, it'll keep & maybe dh could help you out before or after a shift? I feel guilty asking my dh but I don't think it's a choice we have anymore!

It must be so hard trying to keep up with a toddler knowing you can't really and feeling you can't do what you want to with ds because of pg. I know I feel guilty all the time and find myself saying no or I can't or not yet.

Not long though hun 6 weeks and we will be the other side heads spinning wondering what on earth we had to complain about while we learn to juggle 2 newborns and having 3 children!

i know I think OH relaised last night it wasnt that long away and how the heck will be cope with two newborns lol! I go through moments of thinking i hope the time goes quick as im struggling and keep them in and i dont know how ill cope when they are out lol!

 

[windbloom]

I go through moments of thinking i hope the time goes quick as im struggling and keep them in and i dont know how ill cope when they are out lol!

Im feeling the same way! Ideally want these babies staying in as long as possible, but on the other hand, not sure how Im going to make it, but back in that first hand, Im not sure how much easier its going to be once they are here!

 

[Eternal]

I go through moments of thinking i hope the time goes quick as im struggling and keep them in and i dont know how ill cope when they are out lol!

Im feeling the same way! Ideally want these babies staying in as long as possible, but on the other hand, not sure how Im going to make it, but back in that first hand, Im not sure how much easier its going to be once they are here!

I know

Right now im in so much pain, and just looking after my son is leaving me in tears, i just cant handle it, i cant breath, i have one baby with a foot in my hip and cervix and the other in my ribs and i cant breathe! Constant BHs and backache, no energy, just feel misrable. Im not 31 weeks, now can this go on much longer? i obviously dont want them here until at least 36 weeks, but on the other hand how am i supposed to cope between now and then?

My OH is great but works long hours in the winter, so he isnt round much, plus we are rennovating so he needs to be getting on with stuff in the house when he has any free time

My mum is disabled so its usually me helping her, so its not like she can help. grrrrr ... and we have builders in so we are up mega early with them and then im making tea and coffee all day

Ok, rant over, sorry ladies, just having a bad few weeks.

How is everyone else feeling?

 

[windbloom]

So sorry you're hurting so badly...
It sounds like you need baby flipping vibes sent your way!

3 weeks ago, my girls were both feet first with their heads basically in my lungs... I couldnt lay down without my heart racing like crazy/becoming breathless and it was miserable, plus every time I ate or drank ANY amount, afterwards it felt like it was coming back up my throat . Now my girls are both transverse, with a head on each side, and I find myself a tad more comfortable in comparison to 3 weeks ago. My heart still races, I still get breathless, etc, but its at least not as bad... Hopefully your babies switch to a slightly more comfortable position for you!! (although I can still definitely understand your feeling of ''how the heck am I going to last at least 4-8 more weeks when I'm like this now"?! )

 

[cedrickerry]

posted earlier in thread about my pct, but they've topped it today! they wanted to keep me in til birth for obs from 34wks, then changed their minds and said come back in 3 wks (today) when they would probably keep me in. today I they said theyd book in section for nearly 2 wks time ...38+5.we booked leave, got prepared due to last advice and now are so angry. ive not stopped crying all afternoon ...how can I physically and mentally cope for 12 more days....babies are 7lbs13 & 7lbs 5

 

[Eternal]

posted earlier in thread about my pct, but they've topped it today! they wanted to keep me in til birth for obs from 34wks, then changed their minds and said come back in 3 wks (today) when they would probably keep me in. today I they said theyd book in section for nearly 2 wks time ...38+5.we booked leave, got prepared due to last advice and now are so angry. ive not stopped crying all afternoon ...how can I physically and mentally cope for 12 more days....babies are 7lbs13 & 7lbs 5

oh hun thats really crap, can you just keep calling and saying how much pain your in etc? will you see them again before that?