I packed a lot and didnt need/want half of it. However I disagree about change of clothes for dh. My dh didnt want to go home & leave us even to shower (he left during labor as we thought we had hours left & the dr had to call him to tell him to come quick as the baby was going to be born any second) So after that he didnt want to leave again
We said next time this is what we will pack:
for dh: extra clothes including socks - he was sleeping in the room overnight w/ us & his feet got stinky! (he was sweaty w/ all the excitment of labor/delivery I guess - LOL
Snacks & drinks - I didnt let him leave my sight during labor til after I got en epi. He was starving & parched!
camera/battery
phone to call everyone afterwards
$ for the vending machines & or cafeteria food
deoderant, toothpaste, toothbrush, saline, extra contacts, glasses (for 3am)
For me:
pillow
Extra baggy sweats & tshirts (bigger size)
Granny underwear (only a few pairs as I liked the mesh undies)
Going home clothes - I brought pants that fit at 6mo pregnant & they barely fit. I was so waterlogged from IV fluid - next time I would bring bigger clothes. Also - flipflops as my tennis shoes didnt fit on my feet from water retention after IV as well.
Glasses, contact solution, extra contacts
toothbrush, toothpaste
makeup
barettes & or things to tie your hair back
For baby - going home outfit & carseat
baby book
The hospital provided: shampoo, soap, lotion, mesh undies (as many as I wanted), tons of pads, peribottle (squirt bottle for when you pee), I wasnt allowed to wear anything but hospital gown during labor/delivery. They provided lots of diapers, wipes, nose sucker, clothes for baby in the hospital, blanket, breast pump w/ all the extra parts, bottles, syringes, nipple shields, etc.
Last time I brought: too many undies, too many baby supplies (didnt need any of them), cd player (I didnt want it on during labor), lotions & massagers -star shaped things for my back (again didnt want), I brought books & magazines - I was too excited to read