May I join? I just got back from hospital today after seeing the Dr who gave me a flyer about the pro/cons of a VBAC. To me it seemed like her attitude was leaning more towards another c-section but of course she didn't say that but she said enough to scare me to death about the possibility of a still born or loss of my uterus...It really freaked me out.
I had an emergency c-section with my DD because of several reasons
1. high blood pressure, 2. She was head down but looking up so her head was at a weird angle and I was told they couldn't use a vacuum or forcepts because of the way her head was positioned and 3. They thought she had done meconium inside me and were concerned she may inhale it. After my c-section I had to endure 2 blood transfusions and total bed rest for the first 3 days and really felt like I couldn't be the mother to my child I was suppose to be. My DH had to do everything from swaddling, changing nappies, her first bath...etc. I really felt like she wasn't even mine and I was just observing. I really was hoping for a VBAC this time round but now I am scared.
Sorry for the long story. Has anyone else experienced similar attitudes from their hospital? or faced a similar post-csection drama?