trumpetbum
2 girls..boy on the way.
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He cooks...although when he's working again it will probably have to be me. I literally can't cook an egg! Will have to get my mum to teach me!
He thinks it's unfair to deny the child meat, he also doesn't want me to tell the child where meat comes from in case i scare it, is that fair? I want my child to be educated and informed. I know it's kinda early to be thinking about things like this but it's an important issue for me!
Meh, I don't see what's unfair about it, but it will warrant further discussion to get to a middle ground i suppose. My dh is a meat eater, the kids are too. I gave up eating meat when dd2 was a toddler so both had been introduced to meat at weaning. My youngest has dabbled for lengths of time with vegetarianism, but my oldest would shoot bambi in the head if she thought he would make a nice meal. She can catch and gut a fish etc. They both know where meat comes from, it hasn't scared them but it has given them the information to decide for themselves. I suspect the smaller one will at some point in her life become a veggy.
With ds I will not be cooking or giving him meat. Dh may introduce meat at some point and ds can decide within reason what he eats outside. Like the girls he will be exposed to both our choices and educated as to where meat comes from. I think it's important that children know where food comes from, meat, fruit and veg alike so they can make good choices. I hate to think most kids seem to think their food comes from 'TESCO' etc.