For some reason, it is more upsetting for me to think my mc's are being caused by low progesterone than DNA issues.
I feel exactly the same... I suppose it's because if it were a DNA issue, we know there's nothing that could be done to change the outcome, that the baby wasn't ever going to make it, but when thinking it's progesterone I worry that the baby was fine and it was my body that caused the MC. :'(
But I do know/know of quite a few breastfeeding mums who've had early MCs and then gone onto to conceive again not too many months later, and everything has been fine then. So although I worry it could happen again, I know there's every chance it won't too...
I don't know about you 254, but I also feel "damned if you do, damned if you don't" with the breastfeeding. My almost 20 month old is in no way ready to be weaned but I fear I won't be able to conceive him a sibling without weaning him. However, I feel like I would be somehow sacrificing his health or happiness for a baby that may or may not come. Would feel awful if I stopped BF and then didn't get pregnant.
I could have written exactly that! Even down to the ages... my little girl is almost 20 months too (9th March 2010). As much as I want a sibling for her, she's the one who's here now, and I feel that she has to be the priority at this stage. Even though she only has 2 (occasionally 3) quick feeds a day, she loves breastfeeding... weaning her would be a battle and it just wouldn't feel right. I also wonder if breastfeeding isn't really impacting on my fertility very much as very little has changed over the past 14 months yet L's breastfeeding habits have changed a LOT in that time! I've read a lot saying as they gradually reduce feeds, your LP will increase etc etc, but there's been little change for me.
How did your Dr feel about the vitex with breastfeeding? I know it has been used in the past to increase milk supply.
I haven't discussed it with my doctor, although I did a lot of research myself before trying it. My doctor, although pro-breastfeeding, doesn't know a lot about it and also the support for fertility issues and knowledge of 'alternative' treatments seems pretty 'basic' in the NHS. I'm a bf peer supporter so did some digging with people I know and resources I've been recommended, and decided I'd be happy to give it a go, and would just keep an eye on my milk supply in case it dipped (some things I read said it could increase it, some said the opposite...!) - it doesn't seem to have had an effect on my milk at all.
Have you tried progesterone cream? I'm really curious now about whether that was the reason for my increase in p4. Hope not!
I haven't, but it's something I've been thinking about. We're being referred to a fertility specialist and I'm hoping that we might be able to try progesterone supplements. It's not remotely standard on the NHS (unless you're having IVF), but the more reading I do, the more I think that's a good starting point for me, rather than clomid which they seem to want to prescribe to everyone. We shall see!
I wish you much luck with the vitex this month!! I am cd 11 today- not able to get my ticker up yet.
Thank you, and good luck to you too! I'm CD10 today so we're very close cycle-wise, although it sounds like you ovulate earlier than me. If you fancy keeping in touch you're very welcome to pop in on my journal (link in my signature).