Okay, I'm going to keep this as short as possible but by the end of this post you will all want to punch the doctor that I saw last night. Be prepared to be annoyed!
Mini-update from me: Still spotting
Okay, rest of the story. Yesterday morning I woke up at 5.30am with a really sharp pain in my lower left abdomen. I assumed it was a wind pain and continued with my day. Throughout the day it was coming and going, always in the same place and felt like someone had poked me with a knitting needle (not that anyone has ever poked me with a knitting needle before! ).
Anyway, it continued all day every four or five minutes and I just couldn't think what it could be. I was nervous it might be associated with a m/c, but it was just one small stabbing pain, not a cramp. So, I didn't go to the toilet for four hours so I could take another HPT (knowing full well it wouldn't necessarily tell me anything useful but it felt like the only thing I could do.) So, I came home, pee'd like a camel (!) and the line on the FRER was darker than the last test taken two days previously and the Clearblue Digital said 'Pregnant 2-3'. I was actually really happy about this seeing as the last one had said 1-2. So, getting to the point, my hubby advised me to call NHS24 because of the pain. I told him it wasn't that bad but he was worried there could be a problem with one of my tubes and I knew it made sense to speak to someone who might know more about it than me. I called and told them my symptoms but also that I wasn't sure what it was and if this was a normal part of early pregnancy. She told me to go to Accident and Emergency, so I did.
When I got there, the doctor was really horrible. He told me to pee in a cup (which I would say I'm now a black belt in!). I told him I had just gone for a mammoth pee before I left and explained the whole HPT thing. They fed me water until I was able to pee again and by the time I did, it was practically just water that came out (sorry, TMI!). He then came back, gave me a horrible look and told me his HPTs had come back NEGATIVE - as if I was lying!!! He asked if my doctor had taken a pregnancy test and I said no, that she thought I was perfectly capable of peeing on a stick and reading the word 'pregnant'. He then said that their pregnancy test strips aren't as sensitive as HPTs
and that HPTs are aimed to 'prey on the fears of vulnerable women' as they find out they are pregnant much sooner than they should and that I shouldn't worry as "it's only a 'clump of cells' right now anyway". I wanted to punch him. He said the pain was probably from my bowels and to go home and come back if the pain got worse. HOW INSENSITIVE AND HORRIBLE!
So, if you have ever used or every plan to use an HPT then you are classed as a 'vulnerable woman'. What a complete *!@!*$!
So, I'm either a 'vulnerable woman who is having my fears preyed upon' or else First Response, Clearblue, supermarkets and internet dip test manufacturers have come up with an elaborate plan to fool me into thinking I'm pregnant. When I came away I was in floods of tears and poor hubby thought something awful had happened.
I got up this morning, more blood, so decided to 'have my fears preyed upon' once again. Still positive
Everything crossed for you happenstance. Hopes its a sticky bean. Are you still taking the progesterone? I always thought you had to stay on it until 12weeks if you'd already started. As for the B6 either should be fine. No harm in stopping but also heard it's good for morning sickness.
Crossables crossed!
Thanks Bean66.
No, I'm not taking the pills anymore. They were progesterone based but not progesterone only, if that makes sense. They're not recommended when TTC. I asked my doctor about getting progesterone pills but she said they weren't necessary. I would feel so much better if she's given them to me though... Have you ever taken any progesterone or are your levels okay?
How are things with you?
ebony2010 said:
Just to butt in...
I had a 7 day LP and B50 made it go up to an 11 day LP the 1st cycle and a bfp the 2nd so you might find you don't need to start as high as B100.
Happenstance I'm glad my insight on the cramping helped. I really hope that little bean hangs on in there. Look at Struth... she has always had spotting problems and she got her bfp and has continued to spot on and off but her pregnancy is going really well. I know its hard but hang on in there.
xxx
Thanks Ebony 2010, that's really nice to know there's a fellow spotter out there who's doing well. I might do a bit of post stalking
and see if I can find any of her threads to see if there are any similarities. I really appreciate your kind words and support
And thanks for the B3 tip, that would have taken me forever to Google each B vit on my complex list. That's helped a lot. Next stop, Doctor Google...
happenstance EXACTLY the same thing happened to me.
I got my BFP and two days later i started spotting but really cramping. I started running the gauntlet of tests and scans. Throughout i was spotting on and off and on a couple of occasions the pain was so bad with the cramps i thought i was going to faint. I had my hcg taken and it rose and i still spotted.
i had my FOURTH scan on monday. The first scan with a HCG of 2600 they couldn't see anything. i felt like my world had caved in. The scan on monday showed a little scan and even a heart beat. I have not spotted for about a week but honestly some of the painful cramps i have had are so frightening i think im going to faint.
The drs found out i have a majorly retroverted womb. So retroverted all the doctors were coming in to look at it when i was getting a scan!! that could explain the pain as the wombs not only growing its flipping into a normal position.
Try not to worry. Rest and dont pick up heavy items and take painkillers. im only six weeks now so no where near out of the woods but it is far more common than i first realized.
good luck xxxx
Oh my goodness! How frightening! And painful! I can't believe you're having to go through all of that. Have they given you anything for the pain? Are they giving you any treatment or are they just letting it flip its own way into a normal shape? I really hope things get better for you soon and that the pain stops.
Thanks for your advice and for sharing your story. I really do feel far more reassured when I read about others who've had spotting too. Has your spotting stopped now? I hope so, sounds like you've got enough on your plate!
Also, how many weeks were you when you had your first scan and they didn't see anything? Mine is planned for six weeks (fingers crossed) but they've said they might not be able to see anything at that point.
Hi ladies. Thank you all for your support.
Happenstance, I like your epic post. Fx the bean sticks. If it were me, I would keep taking the b50 for sure. It can't hurt, might help with ms, and there are far too many stories of women miscarrying after stopping for my liking. I am not a doctor or an expert on b6 and pregnancy, but I am a nutritionist who works in a hospital, and I can tell you that most doctors are utterly clueless about nutrition, vitamins etc. They receive no training in it all, and know just the barest basics.
DaisyQ, I'm so sorry to hear that AF arrived - particularly after your positive temps. And I know how you feel about the LP but as 254 says, anything above 10 is classed as normal. Last cycle my LP was either 6 or 9 days (depending on when ov was). I'm keeping everything crossed for you that this month is going to be your month.
Thanks for the advice on the B50 - particularly as you're a nutritionist! You must have such a cool job. I hope you don't mind me appointing you as my new official nutritional guru
(not that I had a nutritional guru previously - other than DH and he doesn't count as he lives on a diet of pizza and curry!
)
Happenstance... There's been quite a bit of debate on here as to whether to continue a B complex after finding out you're pregnant... t'was several months back when LancyLass got pregnant, as I know she did lots of research into it (and may've linked to some articles?) I know something she read said that it wasn't the B6 or B12 that was an issue, but that high levels of one of the other B vitamins wasn't recommended in pregnancy... Ebony or struth may know more than me as I know they looked into it (I'm just taking B6 and B12 separately)?
It's your choice... doctors will always recommend just taking a prenatal vitamin as that's what they 'have to do'... so in this situation you just have to do your own reading (trying to find the actual research articles/reports and not just reading other people's comments on forums, obviously) and make a decision.
It does sound like the progesterone tablets could well have helped... I guess you'll never know! But anyway... I really do hope everything ends up OK for you. Spotting in pregnancy is scary... but the thing is... people spot in pregnancies that end up fine, and people spot in pregnancies that don't. Unless it's heavier red blood and with major cramping, it's not necessarily a bad sign. I spotted at 6-7 weeks in my pregnancy with L, and she's now 22 months old, I didn't spot in my first pregnancy (MMC at 12 weeks) and only had implantation spotting and nothing after in my pregnancy that ended in the early MC in October... so for me, I've spotted in my successful pregnancies and not in the 2 unsuccessful ones, so definitely don't view it as an automatic bad sign!
I'm also hoping to give acupuncture a go... would much rather try that before any invasive fertility treatments...
254, you always have such good and knowledgeable advice, I love it!
Thanks for sharing the info on the B50. Ebony2010, said it's the B3 in the complex that seems to be the problem so I'm going to look it up online and see if I can find out anything about it. I'm not sure if I should just take separate B6 and B12 along with my prenatal? I'm just not sure which B-vits are important and which aren't (other than folic acid obviously).
I'm sorry you had two m/cs and your experiences of spotting in pregnancy are really interesting. I just hope I follow your lead and have a positive outcome. How are things going for you this cycle? I've heard of a lot of women who've tried acupuncture and it's worked wonders for them. I remember reading something about the ankles being a hotspot as your ankles are in some way connected with your uterus and ovaries - I'm not sure how that works!
Have you booked an appointment yet?
Once again ladies, I would just like to thank you all for your masses of help, support, reassurance and information. It's like having an online team of life coaches who are amazingly wonderful ladies.