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Thanks for explaining, Daisy! It's fascinating how differently medical things work in the US and the UK. Our FS appointment will be when we've been ttc almost exactly 18 months of ttc and that's the earliest I could have possibly had it (given referral times, waiting lists etc). And even after that, there's no chance of NHS ivf/iui as I already have a child. I guess we could have seen a FS more quickly if we went private, but I wanted to give it a good go naturally first, and private fertility treatment is absolutely bank-breaking!! Hopefully I won't need to worry about that, though.
Have you come across the book Making Babies? Would really recommend having a read, especially if your starts talking about trying meds... it's got lots of non-risky suggestions on ways to improve fertility and the 'success stories' are really uplifting! Fab book... really spurred me on when I read it 3 months ago and has helped shape my approach to ttc now. The reviews really sum it up so well.
Yup, been temping for 4 years - eek! (well, with a gap for pregnancy) I don't totally trust OPKs as I sometimes miss my surge... and in the cycle we got pregnant with L I barely even got a line, let alone a positive!! And the result of that pregnancy is currently napping upstairs, so I definitely ovulated. Actually, though, I got a semi-decent line this morning, which usually means my surge is on the way up or down, plus some good ferning on the microscope yesterday, so I think the odds are ovulation day is today or tomorrow. Recently I have generally had a pretty short 'fertile period' so 3 days of fertile cervix+cm is a bit unusual for me.
I hope your spotting eases off soon... maybe you're just a spotter and it won't have any bearing on the outcome of your pregnancy! (which is going to be a wee baby in 8-9 months )
Bean... sometimes my body gears up to ovulation and then takes a 'step back' for a few days before actually going for it. I've been wondering recently if stress is to blame?! Could that be the case for you?
Have you come across the book Making Babies? Would really recommend having a read, especially if your starts talking about trying meds... it's got lots of non-risky suggestions on ways to improve fertility and the 'success stories' are really uplifting! Fab book... really spurred me on when I read it 3 months ago and has helped shape my approach to ttc now. The reviews really sum it up so well.
254 I agree, our bodies are super confusing Have you had any positives with your OPKs or ferning? Get BD-ing anyway as I never trust these OPKs - I think sometimes the manufacturers slip in a few dud ones just to confuse the beejeesus out of us! Do you temp?
Yup, been temping for 4 years - eek! (well, with a gap for pregnancy) I don't totally trust OPKs as I sometimes miss my surge... and in the cycle we got pregnant with L I barely even got a line, let alone a positive!! And the result of that pregnancy is currently napping upstairs, so I definitely ovulated. Actually, though, I got a semi-decent line this morning, which usually means my surge is on the way up or down, plus some good ferning on the microscope yesterday, so I think the odds are ovulation day is today or tomorrow. Recently I have generally had a pretty short 'fertile period' so 3 days of fertile cervix+cm is a bit unusual for me.
AFM: still spotting, no change.
I hope your spotting eases off soon... maybe you're just a spotter and it won't have any bearing on the outcome of your pregnancy! (which is going to be a wee baby in 8-9 months )
Bean... sometimes my body gears up to ovulation and then takes a 'step back' for a few days before actually going for it. I've been wondering recently if stress is to blame?! Could that be the case for you?