Hi ladies, hoping for some advice if thats ok? Little bit of info about me first - just over 3 years ago my partner and I decided to try for a baby. I'd been on the depo provera injection for almost 12 years so didn't expect to fall instantly. However 6 weeks later I was pregnant! I've had problems in the past with the oral contraceptive which I why I've been on the depo for so long and after our son was born I went straight back onto it - the plan was to stay on it a year and then start trying for number 2. Stupid I know but I honestly thought because I fell pregnant so easily last time the same would happen this time (getting it again was the biggest mistake of my life). Anyway my last injection was January 2011. By the July I realised this time was obviously very different as my periods hadn't even returned so I started taking Agnus Castus and using OPKs just in case they picked something up. In November I finally got my first smiley face showing I was ovulating and I pretty much have been every 28 days since then. After a couple of cycles I began to suspect a problem as 2-7 days after ovulation I began spotting. After reading advice on this website in January 2012 I went out and bought some B6 100mg which I take daily along with B complex 50mg (I've only recently stopped the Agnus castus). So far though its making no difference at all and I'm still spotting after a few days with full blown AF from about 8-10 days. My questions are;
1. After starting Vitamin B how long did it take before you noticed a difference with your cycle?
2. Is spotting part of luteal phase defect or fairly normal. I'm assuming my problem is a LPD but maybe it isn't? I've been charting my temps every day since February and that doesn't count spotting as the start of a new cycle. Very confused, would you class CD 1 as full blown AF?
Big apologies if this has been asked a million times before, just at the end of another failed cycle so feeling pretty low and desperate for answers. I visited my GP in March who basically wasn't interested and said to give depo a year and a half to get out of my system before she would consider taking bloods. She also didn't think it would be worthwhile to refer to a fertility expert until its been 2 years!!!! Arrghhh, another year to go. Anyway trying to stay positive and reading your stories has given me some hope over the last few months. Thanks to anyone who reads this, it can be a lonely world out there if you're trying for a baby, most of my friends are pregnant and daren't say a word to me because they know I'm trying and my family think I have some defect gene because everyone else in it falls pregnant instantly (like my first time). Not giving up though, fingers crossed for all of us it will happen soon x
Welcome August! Sorry the depo messed you up. Hormonal birth control sucks! CD1 is always first day of proper flow. If flow starts in the evening most count the next day as CD1. Spotting is often not a problem depending on how heavy it is and just how many days after O is starts. Usually you should give anything at least 3 months to see a difference. Do you do any exercise at all? I have noticed a few times (not on this trend) that often beginning light regular exercise can help balance the hormones. I would consider starting a straight b100 complex when you other run out and see if this has an affect. Can you link you chart so we can see it.
Also have you thought about trying natural progesterone? I do think we all try and fix too much in a desperation to be pregnant when actually time is all that is needed. However, I started B100, vitex (AC) and natural progesterone all in one cycle and from that cycle I saw a change. I didn't use the progesterone after that but something definitely shifted. With the cycle I used the progesterone I had loads of PMS/pregnancy symptoms. After doing some reading I found out that this was because of an up regulation of my oestrogen receptor which had become redundant. I do wonder whether this is what kick started my system again.
I used Emerita Progest. You use it from after confirmed O. If you get your BFP you have to continue it until at least week 12.
Hi ladies, its so quiet on here! Where's everyone gone? How are you bean? How are you feeling? Sotiredmama?
Joeys I'm sorry - sucks! How many dpo are you? Could it just be too early?
So FF put my O date on CD26 (unless i put in 1 lower temp the day before i started temping, then its CD24!!) so I'm now 3dpo or 5dpo! Which would you take? which means if I'm not pg AF should show up friday/saturday or Sunday/Monday if the vits haven't worked yet! Wow there's a lot of ifs in that sentence lol! I've been really crampy the last 2 days which is strange- too early for AF and most likely too early for implantation unless I am 5dpo! Dammit wish I'd started temping a few days ealier like sotiredmama said! Blah. Any advice? Hope that all makes sense.
Hey LLMP, sorry DH gets shirty if I spend much time on here at weekends. I'd presume you are 3dpo then you don't get confusion at testing time. Yay to an early O again. Remember that 5 cycles really isn't very long, intact it's perfectly normal. I know that doesn't help but it really is true. You will get your BFP soon.
Joeys - I hope it is too early too. Some ladies don't get their BFP until after AF is due.
Sotiredmama - How are you doing? Still no symptoms? I think you'l be one of the lucky ones. Though spoke to a close friend this morning and she didn't start with MS until nearly 8 weeks. When do you have a scan?
Daisy - How are you hun? Will pop by your journal and say hi.
AFM - I'm good. Queasiness has started but only if I don't eat. It's kind of an none specific queasiness, like I'm really hungry although I might have just eaten. Other than that no worries. Calmer that I was but I know I won't be completely calm until I have a scan. See the midwife on thursday which will make it all feel more real.