Hey Cla and Jo
I'm really sorry you's are having a crap time at the minute! I totally know where you are coming from, it seems like every tom, dick and harry and their dog is just falling pregnant with no difficulties at all. Grrr, sorry but it makes you feel like slapping them and shouting why is everything to easy for you and why are things so hard for us! I honestly understand as that's how I felt all last week!
Are you on the b50's or b100's? You should maybe think about upping the dose if its a lower one you are taking. You could try the agnus castus, black cohosh or dong quai as it's supposed to help balance hormone levels. I really would advise you's to get the book Abi recommended to me, The Infertility Cure by Randine Lewis. I'm still reading it but it has so much information in there on herbs which can help balance hormones and massage and acupuncture techniques which will help. I've my first session tomorrow with a TCM practitioner. I'm super confident this is going to work. Even reading the book has helped to calm me and just not feel so negative about everything. I think reading the book would really help you's both. Even if you don't go for the acupuncture you could try to find someone who can also do the bowen technique as it's non invasive...no needles involved!